95% of Coaches Will Be EXTINCT by Christmas 2026 (Are You the 5% or the 95%?)

🚨 SHOCKING PREDICTION: By Christmas 2026, 95% of coaches won't be able to make a living. AI is coming for your profession, and most coaches are completely unprepared.
In this explosive episode, Kellan reveals:
- Why AI will replace 95% of coaches within 14 months.
- The ONE thing that makes coaches irreplaceable (hint: it's not your methods).
- How to become part of the elite 5% who will thrive in the AI era.
- The radical transformation required to survive professional extinction.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:19 - The Truth About Coaching
04:16 - The Impact of AI on Coaching
08:56 - The Impact of AI on Coaching
13:24 - Impact of AI on Coaching Practices
21:37 - The Impact of AI on Coaching
27:15 - The Embodiment of Coaching in the Age of AI
34:22 - Embodiment and Transformation in Coaching
37:54 - Creating a New Coaching Model
42:40 - The Invitation to Transformation
In this episode, you're going to know right now why the choice is embodiment or extinction.
Speaker ABy Christmas 2026, 95% of coaches won't be able to make a living.
Speaker AWelcome to the show.
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Speaker AYou have infinite power.
Speaker AThat may be a bold claim, but here's what I see.
Speaker AI'm a coach.
Speaker AI've been a coach for 18 years, and I coach at the highest level, high performers, people that really want to make a difference, people that have significant challenges and that want to create significant results.
Speaker ASo that's not trivial work.
Speaker AAnd if you're a coach, you know that.
Speaker AAnd I'm not saying you don't coach at a high level, too.
Speaker ABut here's what I'm noticing.
Speaker AI'm seeing the proliferation already of applications popping up all over the place about coaching.
Speaker AIn other words, coaching by bot.
Speaker AIt's happening in medicine, it's happening in counseling, and it's happening in coaching.
Speaker AAnd there are other fields as well, all kinds of advice fields.
Speaker AAnd so the question naturally comes up, what the heck is left?
Speaker ALike, what are we going to do as coaches?
Speaker AAnd you are going to need to answer that question powerfully and deeply for yourself.
Speaker AAnd here's the danger, number one, people, you maybe are going to say, it's not going to affect me.
Speaker AI'm already past that.
Speaker AAI can't duplicate me.
Speaker AWell, that might be true, but my guess is you're full of crap.
Speaker AAnd you'll know as you listen to this episode whether or not you need to flag the danger sign.
Speaker ASo one reason coaches are going to be buried is they're going to stick their head in the sand, and you need to ask yourself if this is you and pretend that the tsunami is not coming, it is.
Speaker ASo I have a book called Coaching and the Rise of AI and it's done and in editing and actually it's in final production right now, and it'll be out in a couple of weeks.
Speaker AAnd depending on when you see this, it may already be out.
Speaker AIt'll be out by the middle of October 2025.
Speaker AThe prediction I have is that by December of 26, which is about 14 months from now, 95% of coaches won't be able to make a living.
Speaker ANow, that may sound bold and it may piss you off.
Speaker AI don't really care, because here's the Truth.
Speaker ARight now, more than 50% of coaches don't even make $25,000 a year, which is what, 2,000 bucks a month?
Speaker AWell, that's not a living wage, that's a hobby.
Speaker ALess than, I mean, up to 75% don't even make 50,000.
Speaker AAnd the numbers go down from there.
Speaker AWhen I redid calculations with using AI and several different versions and different ways of calculating this, somewhere between 95 and 97% of coaches won't be able to make up to 100k or 100k US dollars.
Speaker ANow you may think, well, 100k, that's rich.
Speaker ANo, it's not.
Speaker ARight now, if you can't make 100k or very near it, 90, 80, 90, that's not really a living.
Speaker AYou're going to have to have another gig or it's going to have to be one income in a two full on income family because it takes $100,000 a year to live.
Speaker APrices are up, expenses are up.
Speaker AIt's just that expensive to live decently.
Speaker AAnd I'm not saying you can't live on 60 or 75.
Speaker AMaybe you are right now, but you're certainly not living the kind of life you want and you're not living and having the impact you imagined.
Speaker ASo you can spend some time arguing with me about the numbers or you can pay attention to the thrust because right now is as crappy as AI is ever going to be.
Speaker AAnd this is as good as it's ever going to be for you as a coach unless you make some radical changes.
Speaker AAnd the radical changes is what I'm going to talk about.
Speaker ASo this is the first episode in a series that I'm going to release starting every Thursday.
Speaker ANow, if you follow your ultimate life, you know that we go Tuesdays and Fridays twice a week.
Speaker AStarting right now, September 25th, I'm going to throw in a Thursday episode.
Speaker ASo we're going to be three times a week.
Speaker AThis one right here is going to be the only solo episode as I introduce what we're doing and why we're doing it and what this has to do with anything.
Speaker AAnd it's for coaches only or those thinking about being coaches or whatever.
Speaker AAnd I'm going to do that every Thursday.
Speaker AAnd starting next Thursday, I'm going to have two coaches on with me, different ones each week.
Speaker AAnd we're going to have a three way, a conversation about what AI is done to them or for them, how they're using it or not using it, the positive things they see, the negative things they see.
Speaker AAnd that sort of cautions, because AI is here, like it or not, pretended away or not.
Speaker AI want you to think about Blockbuster.
Speaker ALike, I don't know if you're old enough, but in the 80s and then, you know, 90s VCRs were all the rage.
Speaker AAnd I remember going to work and I worked with a bunch of people, some of whom are engineers and stuff, and there was all arguments every week at the water cooler about Beta versus vhs, you know, videotapes and which stores had the best, you know, new releases and all that stuff.
Speaker AAnd there was an entire conversation.
Speaker AAnd that went on for some years, right?
Speaker AAnd then DVDs came, and of course you had to have a VCR and maybe you had two or three of them in the house, and you know, which model was best and had the best sound and all the stuff that you'd get with any kind of techno gear, right?
Speaker AAnd then years went by and guess what?
Speaker AVCRs, it's like, they're now doorstops, they're gone.
Speaker AYou might find them in antique shops, unless you're a nerd and you happen to have an old one.
Speaker ABecause why?
Speaker ABecause some technology showed up.
Speaker AFirst there was DVDs and then Blu Rays, and now it's all digital streaming service.
Speaker AAnd so in the space of a few years, that entire industry was born, created all this gear, including manufacturers and brands and JVC and Sony and all that, and then died.
Speaker ACompletely gone.
Speaker AWell, AI is doing that to coaching.
Speaker AThis is a sea change, a monumental shift.
Speaker AThe entire earthquake going to blow this industry to pieces.
Speaker AAnd here's why.
Speaker AIt's not hard to understand AI and it's getting better and better.
Speaker AAnd I'll give you another example.
Speaker AIn a minute, AI can research everything that's available, all the books that are online, everything, all that data, and collate it and give you recommendations, summaries and all that kind of stuff in just a minute, couple minutes at best.
Speaker AThinks for 10 seconds, 15 seconds, and right this minute is as crappy as it's ever going to be.
Speaker ASo as I started doing the research for Coaching and the Rise of AI this book, it took me three months to research it and write it.
Speaker AAnd in that period, 90 days, I saw with my own eyes and my own experience, AI double in its ability to do faster, better, more cogent, more succinct, more powerful research, summary and so forth.
Speaker AAnd I had IT do coaching scripts.
Speaker ASo I had it help me.
Speaker AI said, well, I'm worried about this and here's my thoughts and here's my worries.
Speaker AAnd I just talked to it and it came back with powerful recommendations, very encouraging stuff, stuff that made me have an emotional reaction.
Speaker AAnd I watched that happen and thought, we're screwed.
Speaker AWe as coaches are screwed.
Speaker AUnless.
Speaker ASo I'm not painting a picture of doom and gloom.
Speaker AAnd Coaching in the Rise of AI is not a book.
Speaker AThat's just observational.
Speaker AI don't write observational books, meaning, oh, gee, this is what happens.
Speaker AThe sky is falling.
Speaker AEverything I write is about what we can do to both use or make something better or overcome some challenge.
Speaker AMy book, Walking without Fear.
Speaker AMy book, the story arc, the results equation, you know, the book of context, meeting God at the door, all the books on meditation.
Speaker AI mean, you know, I've written 20.
Speaker ASo this coaching in the Rise of AI is observing that this is happening and it's going to change our industry fundamentally.
Speaker AAnd it's also.
Speaker AAnd what do you want to do or what can you do if you want to stay in business?
Speaker ANow, here's what I'm saying.
Speaker AHere's my prediction.
Speaker ABy Christmas of next year, 14 months, 95% of coaches won't be able to make a living.
Speaker AAnd I'm defining a living as up to, you know, over 100k.
Speaker AYou won't be able to make that.
Speaker AAnd here's the reason I will do everything that you do today, better and faster and on, on demand.
Speaker AIt is already available in multiple apps and it will become more available, faster and better.
Speaker AAnd for $97 a month or $197 a month, you'll be able to access sophisticated, powerful, on point, dead on advice, encouragement, scripts to empower you, affirmations, all that stuff that will move and motivate you to accomplish your goals.
Speaker AAnd the point will be, what the frick do I need a coach for?
Speaker ASo that's the real question.
Speaker AWhat the frick do you need a coach for if AI can do all that?
Speaker ASo we're going to talk about that today and then these episodes going forward, we're going to talk about not only what the difference has to be in real coaching that matters and how to partner with this awesome tool.
Speaker ABecause right now there are three things that are getting in the way of coaches understanding this.
Speaker ANumber one is the head in the sand thing, like the ostrich.
Speaker AIt's not going to affect me.
Speaker AI'm already past that.
Speaker AIt can't duplicate me.
Speaker AYou're full of crap.
Speaker AThat's my saying.
Speaker AGet mad if you want, but that's what I'm saying to 95% of you and maybe even 97%.
Speaker AOne model I ran is 97%, but 95.
Speaker AThe second reason is because the ante to get in the game has just gone up.
Speaker ASo I want you to picture this.
Speaker AA casino with, you know, a whole bunch of blackjack tables and all the seats at the blackjack tables are taken by robots.
Speaker AAnd the only place where you or I can sit our butt down and play blackjack if you want to, is in the high roller room.
Speaker AAnd the minimum bet there's 10,000 bucks.
Speaker ASo the ante's gone from 10 to 10,000, meaning you got to be a different kind of coach to get in this game.
Speaker AAnd I use 10,000, I mean a thousand as a multiplier because it's going to feel like a thousand times higher ante to get in this game.
Speaker AThe third reason is because the work that it takes to be there, to be the kind of person, the kind of coach that matters anymore is hard.
Speaker ASo head in the sand, the ante's gone way up and the work is hard.
Speaker AThose are the three reasons that 95% of coaches are just going to get blown away by this tsunami.
Speaker AMy hope for you is to call this to your attention and then tell you what you can do about it if you want.
Speaker AI'm not telling you what you got to do.
Speaker AI'm telling you what's going to happen and you can decide what to do.
Speaker ASo this episode and then all the ones that follow every Thursday are going to talk about that.
Speaker AAnd again today I'm introducing the series and raising the flag.
Speaker AAnd the series every Thursday after this is going to be with coaches that are in the game and they're going to talk about what they know about AI, what they've seen, how they're using it already.
Speaker ASome of them I know that are coming on have already created apps to use in their coaching to help in a powerful way instead of being afraid of it.
Speaker ASo you can't ignore this.
Speaker AYou can't ignore it.
Speaker AThe guy that wrote the foreword for my book Coaching in the Rise of AI and I recommend that to read, by the way, because it lays it out in great detail and what to do about it.
Speaker AHe said that he got convinced of this when he had a disagreement with his wife.
Speaker AAnd the next morning she was all tuned up, everything was fine, and he asked her what happened and she said, oh, I coached myself through it with chat GPT and he was absolutely floored.
Speaker AAnd he's a very successful, money making, way past six figure coach.
Speaker AAnd then he was slapped by Boom.
Speaker AShe was fine.
Speaker AShe was tuned up, there was no issue.
Speaker ACoached through it by chatty chat.
Speaker AGPT in that case.
Speaker ASo that, you know, slapped him upside the head and said, wow, this is real, this is now.
Speaker ASo this is not coming.
Speaker AThis is here.
Speaker AAnd it's getting worse or better or more powerful or having a bigger impact.
Speaker AThose are the facts.
Speaker ASo here's, here's the question for you.
Speaker AYou, you have to think about what these large language models do and how it affects the work that coaches have typically done.
Speaker AOkay, Large language models have access to everything on the Internet, books and papers and all kinds of stuff, websites and everything else.
Speaker AAnd they have the ability to follow good instructions.
Speaker ASome are being built and specialized in the mode of coaching, meaning identifying problems, identifying behavioral patterns, looking for excuses, looking for reasons, giving people encouraging reframes, all that stuff.
Speaker AThey're being built right now.
Speaker AI just saw another one advertised on Facebook a couple of days ago.
Speaker ABy the time you hear this, it'll be longer than two days, but it said the app of your dreams, fix everything, coach you through anything, et cetera, et cetera, and $197 a month or something.
Speaker ANow the price point doesn't matter and the total absolute capability of that app to live up to the claims doesn't even matter.
Speaker AThe point is it's enough for someone to put that out there.
Speaker AAnd $197 a month is, you know, flexible, right?
Speaker AAs there are more and more, that price will go down.
Speaker ACompetition will drive that down.
Speaker AThe open source models are available now.
Speaker AThere are some proprietary large language models that are elevated up above, you know, Gemini and Grok and Chat GPT and you have to pay significant money to have access to those.
Speaker ABut all of those are available and people are going to use them at all levels, customize them specifically to get rid of you and me as coaches.
Speaker ASo here's what you need to think about.
Speaker AAnything to do with niche coaching, you're gone.
Speaker AAnything to do with, you know, teaching frameworks about how to overcome fear or get rid of self doubt or anything.
Speaker AGone.
Speaker AAnything that has to do with scripts or affirmations or worksheets or weekly accountability or content calendars or, or any of that kind of stuff, you're in the dustbin of history because AI can do that faster and better already and it's only going to get better.
Speaker AAnything that can, that depends on even listening really well and then reframing and, you know, giving someone another way to look at it.
Speaker AAll that stuff with nlp, you're toast.
Speaker AYour History.
Speaker AAnd you can get mad at me and argue, but you are, because these models can already do that.
Speaker AI've tested them all.
Speaker AOne of the things I did in writing the book was I took 11 popular coaching models, and I'm not going to repeat them now because they're in the book, but I took 11 models that exist today that are very successful, that have lots of adherence and proponents.
Speaker AAnd I had chat.
Speaker AI happen to use ChatGPT, but I could have used any LLM.
Speaker AI had them analyze them, the systems, how they work, what they provide, you know, how they interact with people in terms of the coach and the client.
Speaker AAnd I compared them to what an LLM CHAT GPT in this case can do.
Speaker AAnd it analyzed the model, the approach, what the strengths were, what it did really well, what the weaknesses were, and it gave it an AI vulnerability rating score.
Speaker AAnd the answers terrified me.
Speaker ATerrified me.
Speaker AAnd here's the thing, you know, low, medium, and high vulnerability, and then gave reasons and examples.
Speaker AAnd here's.
Speaker AHere's the thing.
Speaker AEven in the ones, there were two or three of them that were low vulnerability.
Speaker AAnd coupled with that low vulnerability, there was moderate to low effectiveness.
Speaker ABecause you as a coach, you and I both know people don't pay for coaching.
Speaker AThey pay for results.
Speaker AThey pay for having a change, dealing with a problem in their life.
Speaker AI'm not making enough money in my business.
Speaker AThat's the typical one.
Speaker AAnother typical one is my relationships suck.
Speaker AI've made a boatload of money, but I've neglected either myself or my family or my relationships, et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker AMy life is out of balance.
Speaker AThose are two common ones, and there are others.
Speaker AOkay, so let's talk about making money and let's talk about getting your life back in the making money.
Speaker AAll of the processes for making money, if you're selling any kind of product or service online or in real life, it's about finding an avatar, finding, you know, understanding what they need, creating products that meet those needs, the marketing of getting the products in front of them and then making sales.
Speaker AAll of that process is well known and has been forever.
Speaker AAnd I have asked CHAT GPT about marketing different things.
Speaker AI run a book challenge, okay, by the time you see this, book challenge for September will be over.
Speaker ABut I fill a book challenge with people that want to write books.
Speaker AAnd as a coach, that ought to be particularly important to you because it's one of the key elements of coaches that will survive this.
Speaker AWe'll talk about that more in a minute.
Speaker ABut I use Chat GPT to give me marketing strategies to fill my book challenge.
Speaker AIt worked.
Speaker AI got more people and made more money.
Speaker ABoom, done.
Speaker ASo I want you to think about this.
Speaker AThis is from experience and I'm already experienced.
Speaker AI've run a bunch of book challenges.
Speaker AI've filled them before, made good coin, helped a lot of people do that.
Speaker AAnd I ask, so here's what I've done before.
Speaker AWhat else can I do?
Speaker AIt gave me some really good ideas, it tweaked the ones that I had and it made it more effective.
Speaker AIt was easily equal to whatever I would have gotten from any coach that I've ever worked with.
Speaker AAnd I've worked with a lot of and systems.
Speaker ASo anyway, I analyzed all these systems and you can read about the analysis in the book and the vulnerability of many was high vulnerability to AI.
Speaker ABut even the ones that were medium and low, the, the, the vulnerability that still remained is they weren't very good.
Speaker AThey were medium to poor at getting people to actually take action and solve the problem.
Speaker ASo one of them particularly was somatic coaching where you deal with, you know, things in the body and that healing is necessary and important.
Speaker AAnd I've needed a boatload in my life.
Speaker AAnd so the AI vulnerability, because it has to do with bodily feelings, was fairly low.
Speaker AIt was medium to low.
Speaker ABut when it analyzed the ability to help that person move into the action to create more cash in their business, it was also low.
Speaker ASo you end up feeling good.
Speaker ABut it doesn't deal with the natural fears and self doubt and self sabotage that you already, that we all already have, that you deal with as a coach all the time.
Speaker ASo anyway, you can argue with my analysis and read it in the book and argue with it if you want, but this is what I'm observing.
Speaker AAnd so you can spend your time arguing or you can ask what do I do about this?
Speaker ABecause I don't want to go out of business and I'm speaking for you.
Speaker ASo you may have decided that coaching, you're done with it and you did it for a year or two or 10 or 20, and you want to move on to something else.
Speaker ALots of coaches are going to find themselves there.
Speaker ASo you better be thinking about a backup plan or you better figure out what has to change because fundamentally, AI is getting better.
Speaker AIt's going to be able to mine everything that's out there.
Speaker ADraft scripts, worksheets, weekly accountability, encouragement, things, affirmations, you know, things that you use to get yourself psyched up, to get past fear, to affirm your worth and power all those things, it's going to do better and faster than you can and in better language.
Speaker AAs I did this research, I found myself emotionally affected.
Speaker AThe language was so good and the encouragement and interaction was so intense and real.
Speaker AI. I found myself emotionally moved during some of the research and thought, holy crap, this is really getting good.
Speaker AAnd so the real question is, what is left?
Speaker AWhat can't be automated?
Speaker AAnd the answer is obvious to you and to me right now, and that is our humanness.
Speaker AAnd you might be tempted to just leave it there.
Speaker AOur humanness can be automated.
Speaker ABoom.
Speaker AThat's the trump card.
Speaker AWe're done.
Speaker AAnd you're full of crap because, excuse me, one of the things that separates a human from the AI is the emotional piece.
Speaker A90% of coaches that I have talked to or work with still struggle with self doubt, with fear, with imposter syndrome, with neediness, with I've got to find another client, with I don't know how to enroll.
Speaker AI don't know how to make that transition to the money part of the conversation.
Speaker A90 plus percent still deal with that.
Speaker AThey queer the deals that they're trying to make.
Speaker AThey blow up sales conversations.
Speaker AThey don't prospect well.
Speaker AYou may not prospect well.
Speaker AYou don't like doing it.
Speaker AI love the coaching part, and I hate the selling part.
Speaker AAll of that humanness is poison.
Speaker ASo humanness is the thing that AI can't do, even though it can talk about it really effectively.
Speaker AAnd I've seen it happen.
Speaker AThat part of humanness is a detriment and has been up to now, to your coaching practice being full and charging the fees that you know you could and should.
Speaker AYou know you can make a difference.
Speaker ABut because you're afraid to prospect, you don't know how to enroll.
Speaker AYou don't know how to do this powerfully.
Speaker AYou're busy worrying about what they think about you.
Speaker AAm I asking good questions?
Speaker AAre they going to renew?
Speaker AAm I impressive?
Speaker AAny of that stuff is a humanness that's poison.
Speaker ASo that adds to the AI side of the ledger, so they can write better language than you, faster and more encouraging, et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker AAnd any amount of fear that you have of imposter syndrome, of worry of thinking about yourself, of ego that's in the conversation adds to the AI side of the ledger and against us as coaches.
Speaker ASo you look at all that and it's scary.
Speaker AAnd you're like, holy crap, are we toast?
Speaker AAnd the answer is, yes, you are.
Speaker AUnless.
Speaker AYes, you are.
Speaker AUnless.
Speaker AI know.
Speaker AI repeated myself.
Speaker AAll right, so what is it that can't be duplicated?
Speaker AWell, I asked that over and over again in different ways as I did the research for this book and over and over again the answers came back the same.
Speaker ANot the same words, but the difference.
Speaker AIs this the difference?
Speaker AI'm going to use the word presence.
Speaker AWell, being fully present with someone is a skill you can develop and it only happens in the total absence of ego, when you are not thinking about what they think about me witot fungus, what I think others think.
Speaker AWhen there's none of that going on, when you're not thinking about money or enrollment or time or pressure or are you sounding good or any of that stuff, when that's completely gone and you're just in a complete space of love and being with that person in the most powerful and human way.
Speaker AHey, I can't do that.
Speaker AAnd it's summer.
Speaker AIt said stuff like that over and over again, but it summarized it in a way that I really hit me really hard and it said I can't bleed.
Speaker AOne of the times I ask it, so what can't you do now?
Speaker AIn order to prime the conversation, I uploaded to my particular chat GPT conversation.
Speaker AAll my books, Meeting God at the Door.
Speaker AThe Book of Context, Walking Without Fear, Living with Purpose and Power.
Speaker AThis book, Coaching in the Rise of AI.
Speaker AAnother book that I'm working on called Masterpiece that'll be out by Christmas of 25.
Speaker AAnd that book is about how to seize the day, live your purpose and change the world.
Speaker AAll of those things operate from a particular premise, and that is that you're completely free of ego.
Speaker AYou're completely free of attachment to an outcome.
Speaker AYou're completely free of anything except total and absolute service.
Speaker ANow, I know lots of people who preach that doctrine and here is the key differentiator.
Speaker AIt is one thing to preach the doctrine, doctrine of being unattached, to preach the doctrine of being fully present, of only being there for the person and you know, the love frame and all that stuff.
Speaker AAnd it is a completely different thing, Grand Canyon apart, to actually embody that truth so that someone can't be in your presence without feeling that in awesome power when it leaks out of your eyes and out of every pore of your body, when the air in the room changes before you speak, that is embodiment.
Speaker AAnd you might think I'm exaggerating, but I'm not.
Speaker ASo the key thing that will survive and surpass every piece of AI technology, at least in its current foreseeable incarnations.
Speaker AI'm not talking about the Singularity and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker AWe'll worry about that if and when it happens.
Speaker ABut right now, with what it already can do, if you are not a product of the product, you're toast.
Speaker AAnd so the question then becomes, how do I become a product of the product?
Speaker ANow, I know that you are sometimes, and I'm not dissing any framework or tool or method or NLP or 3P3 principles or, you know, Ken Wilbur's integral coaching or ontological coaching.
Speaker ACoaching the human observer into the human soul, and on and on and on.
Speaker AAll those models I analyzed, I'm not dissing any of those things.
Speaker AAll those things are valuable and have use, but AI is going to blow you out of the water with them unless you are the living embodiment of that.
Speaker AAnd here's how you can tell.
Speaker AWhen you coach, are you afraid?
Speaker AEver?
Speaker AWhen you coach, are you thinking about your responses?
Speaker AWhen you coach, are you worried about enrollment?
Speaker AWhen you coach or prospect, are you afraid of prospecting?
Speaker ADo you hate networking and prospecting?
Speaker ARight?
Speaker ADo you have to psych yourself up to get into coaching or to prospecting or any of that?
Speaker AIf any of that is even a little bit true, your toast.
Speaker AAnd so the game becomes not getting mad at AI or yelling at Kellen because I'm the messenger.
Speaker AThe game becomes, what do I need to do?
Speaker AWho do I need to be so that this Persona or this being that I am is the embodiment of what I teach?
Speaker AWhen we're trying to help people to get over their fear, to, quote, get out of their own way, to get past their limitations and their stumbling blocks and recognize their greatness and step into their power and all that gooey crap that we all say.
Speaker AYou know, we all.
Speaker AWe all say that because we're trying to point at something.
Speaker AWe're trying to point at a possibility.
Speaker AAnd that possibility is you, me, and each person we work with.
Speaker AYou're a divine being, and you have infinite potential.
Speaker AAnd so we use all those words to try to point at that truth.
Speaker AAll that is exactly right.
Speaker ABut if you or I are not living that truth, we are done as coaches.
Speaker AIt cannot be a jacket of truth that you put on when you prospect or when you coach.
Speaker AIt has to be how you live your life, moment to moment and day to day.
Speaker AAnd that's why I said the ante is really high, and being there is really hard.
Speaker ABecause if you say anything like this, and I've heard this a thousand times, I know I can help other people.
Speaker AI can see what they need to do, but when it comes to my own, I just can't do it.
Speaker AI keep my commitments to others, but I just don't keep my word to myself.
Speaker AOr any one of a hundred variations where you pretend that you're helping others, and maybe you do, but you can't help yourself, then you're not a product of the product.
Speaker AThat's like going getting medical advice from a doctor who's smoking.
Speaker AHello, you're not taking care of yourself.
Speaker AHow do I know I can trust you?
Speaker ARight?
Speaker AOr hiring a personal trainer that's wildly out of shape, like you just don't do that.
Speaker AWell, here's the truth.
Speaker AAnd you're going to get mad at this.
Speaker AYou cannot coach what you haven't bled.
Speaker AYou cannot coach a path you haven't walked.
Speaker AYou cannot coach a truth you have not lived.
Speaker ANow, one of the arguments that I used to hear all the time is people would say, well, I want to coach CEOs.
Speaker AAnd they say that because they think, well, people like that have money to pay and that way I won't hear this I can't afford you crap.
Speaker AAnd you have no experience with high pressure decision making, managing lots of people or doing the things that CEOs do.
Speaker AWell, you're, you're fooling yourself.
Speaker AAnd having sat in the C suite in multiple companies, I can tell you that's true.
Speaker ABecause I talk to coaches all the time that say they're going to coach CEOs and they don't have no idea what they're talking about because they haven't walked in any of those paths or anything that compares to it.
Speaker ASo here is what you can coach and me, the only thing we can coach is the truth that we have lived and bled.
Speaker ANow, the good news about this is, is hit is this.
Speaker AThis is a good news.
Speaker A90%, 80 to 90% of the problems that CEOs or entrepreneurs or any individuals face are in here.
Speaker A80 to 90% of this is mindset and 10 to 20% of strategy and execution.
Speaker ASo if you have walked the path of transformation in yourself, if you have walked through the fire of change, if you've had events in your life that have ruined you and you let them refine you and you are a transformed person, then transformation, the act of recognizing those barriers and blocks and then helping someone through them, you can do.
Speaker AAnd you can only do them if you are fully transformed.
Speaker AIf you are living in a place where you are talking about transformation, you're finished.
Speaker AIf you had transformative events in your past that moved you from A dark place or a difficult place.
Speaker AAnd you overcame death or tragedy or bankruptcy or financial failure or betrayal or addictions or suicide attempts or illness.
Speaker AAll of those things, they are your truth.
Speaker AAnd if you have gotten past those, those are your touch points.
Speaker AThose are the truth you can coach.
Speaker AAnd if they are not fully present, if you are not remaining transformed and in power and in focus and clear your toast, because that becomes your history, that becomes stuff you are still talking about.
Speaker ALet me give you another example.
Speaker AAnd again, I'm trying the best that I can to.
Speaker ATo paint a picture, point to something.
Speaker AI have a. I've been working for many years with a Hollywood A list vocal coach.
Speaker AI sing, I'm a vocal performer and I have performed professionally.
Speaker ASo I have a high level A list coach.
Speaker AAnd he was talking about performance.
Speaker AAnd here's what he said.
Speaker AHe.
Speaker AHe had gone to a workshop himself with someone that was a very successful songwriter.
Speaker AAnd here's what the guy taught.
Speaker AHe said, people write a song and then they sing from that place of writing the song.
Speaker APowerful, emotional, meaningful.
Speaker AAnd when we hear it, oh, boom.
Speaker ASays.
Speaker AAnd then he said, then they spend the next 20 or 30 years singing about that place instead of from that place.
Speaker AIf your complete radical transformation, including getting past your own barriers and blocks and limitations and living in that place of love and growth, if that's not real and present for you today, you're finished.
Speaker ABecause that's old news.
Speaker ASo I use the word embodiment.
Speaker AEmbodiment to.
Speaker ATo describe that thing.
Speaker AIf you are not the embodiment of what you teach today, now, on a regular basis, you're out of business.
Speaker ABecause that embodiment is the only thing that the AI can't do.
Speaker ABecause it can talk about from that place of transformation, of realization, of shift, of all those discoveries.
Speaker AYou know, that bright light.
Speaker AWhoops.
Speaker AThat one right there and the one behind my head, it can talk about those places all day long and do it better than you can.
Speaker ABetter language.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ABecause it has access to every description of that transformation ever published.
Speaker AThousands, hundreds of thousands, millions of stories.
Speaker AAnd I've tested it over and over again.
Speaker AIt can come up with startling, awakening, encouraging language about it.
Speaker AAnd the thing it can't do is bring the energy in the present moment that radically shifts the molecules in the room.
Speaker AAnd so the way I describe it is this.
Speaker AIf you can't walk into a room and not say a word, but simply change the room because you walked in it, you're not the embodiment of what you teach.
Speaker AAnd that might Piss you off too, I don't care.
Speaker ABecause that's where you have to be if you're going to survive.
Speaker ANow the good news is the 5% that survive are going to be high in demand.
Speaker AThey're going to make boatloads of money and they're not going to be assailable by AI.
Speaker ASo fully embodied coaches who live and breathe and bleed the truths they talk about every single day, even when they're not on, because it's who they are, not a jacket you put on.
Speaker AThey're going to.
Speaker AYou are.
Speaker AIf you're that, you're going to be in high demand and you're going to get paid a lot of money because that's something that no app and no other program can do.
Speaker ABut it doesn't consist of some technique, you know, an NLP thread or a kind of thing you walk through that isn't that.
Speaker AThose tools are still going to be okay, but they're just going to be a screwdriver you pull out here and there.
Speaker AOkay?
Speaker AThat series of beautiful questions you have, they're fine, but they're just going to be another wrench.
Speaker AThe truth has to be in who you are at every moment.
Speaker AIt has to be in the presence you bring in the complete absence of ego.
Speaker AIt has to be there.
Speaker AThen and only then will you be able to command decent fees, stay in business and make the kind of difference you want.
Speaker AYou got into coaching for the same reason I did.
Speaker AWe want to make a difference in the world.
Speaker AMy commitment this year is to reach 300 million people with the message of Whippos worth.
Speaker AIdentity, possibility, ownership and sovereignty.
Speaker AThis podcast, a thousand something episodes, is all about that.
Speaker AMy LA talk radio show's about that.
Speaker AEvery book I've written is about that.
Speaker AAnd it's about reaching you here now with this.
Speaker AAnd the reason I'm starting this third episode per week is to.
Speaker AIs to raise awareness.
Speaker AI hate that phrase.
Speaker ABut to help you and me realize and slap in the face that we got to pay attention here or we're done.
Speaker ABecause a thing has happened, we didn't plan for it or ask for it and it doesn't matter.
Speaker AIt happened and it is growing and increasing in capability faster than you can think.
Speaker AAnd I've been up front and center with that as I've done the research and written this book and I've used it for all kinds of stuff.
Speaker ASo here's what I'm doing about it.
Speaker AI'm creating a university and you'll hear more about that.
Speaker AYour ultimate life coaching university.
Speaker AAnd it's going to start In January of 2026, a few months from now, or depending on when you hear this, maybe it's already started.
Speaker ABut that university is only aimed at the 5% because those that are the 95.
Speaker AI'm not trying to rescue you because the, one of the most important admission criteria is you have to be absolutely committed to be the full embodiment.
Speaker AWhich means eliminating the fears and self sabotage and the noise and excuses and procrastination and all of the rest that we've all struggled with.
Speaker AThat has to be, you have to be willing to get rid of that.
Speaker AIt has to be gone from your heart.
Speaker ABecause enrollment conversations won't happen, won't be successful unless that is gone.
Speaker AYour coaching won't be anything except mediocre unless that kind of, unless you're in the embodied essence of the thing you teach.
Speaker ASo I'm creating a new model.
Speaker AI'm calling it something.
Speaker AI'll, I'll release all that.
Speaker ABut I'm creating a university.
Speaker AAnd you can read the book and see what the new model is.
Speaker ABut the model isn't to replace or dis any existing coaching framework.
Speaker AIt is to recognize that with the rise of AI, the bar has gone up a thousand times.
Speaker AThe ante to the game has moved.
Speaker AUp to now, we as coaches could get by using frameworks and checklists and tools and you make, you know, charge a thousand, two thousand, three thousand, four thousand dollars a month and make 30, 40, $50,000 a year.
Speaker ABut that's not a living.
Speaker AAnd that leaves us scrambling for clients and blowing enrollment conversations and you know, on and on and sending in proposals and biting nails.
Speaker AVomit city.
Speaker AWouldn't you like that to be done?
Speaker AWell, the way to have it be done is to change who you are being.
Speaker AThat's always been true.
Speaker AAI doesn't make that true, that's already true.
Speaker ABut up to now you could limp along being less than that and make some money.
Speaker AAnd if you hustled, you could make, you know, good money.
Speaker AThe university is going to have, it's going to be six month semesters and it's really focused on commitment, growth, creation, how to use your own story, the path of your own creation.
Speaker ABecause you can't coach anything you haven't lived.
Speaker ASo how do you use that lived experience, the thing that drove you to coaching in the first place, that your own transformation, how do you use that powerfully?
Speaker AMost coaches don't even know how to use their own transformation story powerfully.
Speaker AThat's one of the things we're going to learn and we're going to learn about what real coaching is in the new world.
Speaker AIt already has a definition and practice there.
Speaker AAnd there are practitioners, a few.
Speaker AThe top 2 or 3% are going to be able to move right over.
Speaker ABut.
Speaker AAnd if you're fooling yourself saying you're already in that, then you're fooling yourself.
Speaker ABecause unless you're making two or three hundred thousand dollars a year today, you're not in that top percent.
Speaker AYou're not.
Speaker AAnd you can pretend you are, but you're not.
Speaker AAnd if you're not, you're gone.
Speaker ASo be mad at me if you want, or let's talk some more.
Speaker AYou're going to see enrollment opportunities to find out more about the university if it interests you.
Speaker ABut my point is you have to change and become the embodiment of the truths you teach.
Speaker ANot occasionally, but it has to be real.
Speaker AAnd then one of the three day intensives in the university is going to be marketing and enrollment.
Speaker ABecause marketing and enrollment is the big.
Speaker AHas been forever, the big bugaboo, the big monster.
Speaker ABecause often the spiritual transformations we undergo feel like they ought to be free.
Speaker AAnd we have that whole drama about money which is ridiculous and has to evaporate.
Speaker ASo the three intensive are commitment and growth, creation and coaching, marketing and enrollment.
Speaker AAnd the outcome is that when you come out of that uni, you're 150k coach.
Speaker AI'm tired of people talking six figures, that's barely scraping by.
Speaker A150 is the floor.
Speaker AThere are processes and systems that you're going to have and they're already written and maybe you have some of them now.
Speaker AThis will sharpen and grow.
Speaker AAnyway, so this is the introduction to what we are, what we're going to do on this podcast.
Speaker AI'm going to interview two coaches a week and they'll come out every Thursday.
Speaker AWe're going to talk about this, about what they've seen in their own practice.
Speaker AThis is your invitation to level up, because if you don't, you're dead.
Speaker AIf you don't, you're dead.
Speaker ANow there'll be some free stuff that you can get, a coach survival kit that will come later.
Speaker AAnd then there's this university that's coming in January and depending on when you hear this, it may already be started.
Speaker ABecause my commitment to you is to help you thrive as a coach, to help you fulfill the highest level of expectation in changing the world and getting well paid that you dreamed about when you wanted to become a coach.
Speaker ASo here's the thing.
Speaker AIf you don't take action, you're dead.
Speaker ABecause this tsunami is coming.
Speaker AIt's going to bury you.
Speaker AOkay?
Speaker AAnd this is your invitation to take action now before it is completely over our heads.
Speaker AI know you can do this.
Speaker AThe work you've already done says that you have the skill.
Speaker AThe challenges you've already overcome have qualified you.
Speaker ABut the truth is, are you fully embodied?
Speaker AIn other words, do you ever feel the fear or worry?
Speaker ADoes it stop you?
Speaker ADoes it make you not be able to fill your practice?
Speaker ALike, if you're under 100k, you're not in that top percent now.
Speaker AAnd your choice now is to figure out how to get there or go find something else to do.
Speaker AI hope you choose coaching.
Speaker AWe need more good people in coaching, in the people encouragement business.
Speaker APeople that are completely empowered, embodied and focused on adding good to the world.
Speaker AI'm in.
Speaker AI'm inviting you to join me and stay on the path that you've already started.
Speaker AAs you continue to create your ultimate life right here, right now.
Speaker AYour opportunity for massive growth is right in front of you.
Speaker AEvery episode gives you practical tips and practices that will change everything.
Speaker AIf you want to know more, go to kellenfluekermedia.com if you want more free tools, go here YourUltimate Life CA subscribe Share.