From Awakening to Action: How to Step Into Your Power and Create Your Ultimate Life
🚀 Are you living consciously or just going through the motions?
In this powerful episode, Kellan sits down with Esther Jones-Alley, a spiritual architect, to discuss awakening, conscious creation, and stepping into your true power. Esther shares her transformational journey—including near-death experiences—and why NOW is the time to wake up, take responsibility, and create the life you truly desire.
Esther Jones-Alley is a Spiritual Architect & Conscious Living Coach who helps leaders and visionaries achieve true inner fulfillment. With her proprietary "Soul Evolution Matrix," she transforms lives by blending intuition, empathy, and practical strategies. An International Speaker and Best-Selling Author, Esther empowers her clients to unlock their potential and design a joy-filled, authentic future.
💡 What You’ll Learn:
✔️ How your thoughts and words shape your reality.
✔️ The difference between wants vs. true desires.
✔️ Why self-love is the foundation of conscious creation.
✔️ How to break free from limiting beliefs and societal conditioning.
"Be willing to take responsibility for everything in your life—you called it in. Wake up, be conscious, and start creating with intention!" - Esther Jones-Alley
📢 Next Steps:
✔️ Connect with Esther: Visit www.EstherJones-Alley.com for her programs, sacred journeys, and coaching.
✔️ Join the FREE Dream, Build, Write It Challenge starting Feb 24th at www.dreambuildwriteit.com – Write your book & share your message!
💡 Key Takeaways from This Episode:
✔️ Why awakening is not just about realization—it’s about action.
✔️ How your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality.
✔️ The difference between wants and desires—and why chasing “wants” keeps you stuck.
✔️ How to take full responsibility for your life and shift from victim to creator.
✔️ Why self-love is the foundation for everything you want to manifest.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:07 - Creating Your Ultimate Life
00:44 - Esther's Awakening Journey
10:54 - The Journey of Awakening
21:21 - The New Creation and Our Connection
29:24 - Desires vs. Wants: Understanding the Distinction
32:34 - The Importance of Self-Love and Boundaries
40:40 - The Importance of Responsibility in Creation
Welcome to the show.
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Speaker AHello.
Speaker AWelcome to this episode of your ultimate life, the podcasts and show committed to just one thing.
Speaker AHelping you create a life of purpose, prosperity and joy that you can create with your own gifts, talents, and your life experience.
Speaker AI'm excited today to have Esther as my special guest.
Speaker AEsther, welcome to the show.
Speaker BThank you.
Speaker BThank you.
Speaker BI'm excited to be here.
Speaker AWell, good.
Speaker AI'm stoked to have you.
Speaker AAnd, you know, we were chatting just ahead of time a little bit about, you know, the number of different ways that we can describe this awakening that's happening in the world where people more and more are having this feeling that there's something more and we better get busy and figure it out and live into it.
Speaker BYes, yes.
Speaker BIt's such an exciting time to be alive.
Speaker BAnd I am so grateful that I'm here and I get to experience this awesome movement that's happening, this awakening, this transformation, this evolution of mankind.
Speaker AI love it.
Speaker ACall to arms, call to coolness, call to do something right.
Speaker ASo I want to ask you a question.
Speaker AI love starting with this question because it's unexpected and I don't want you to be modest in any particular way.
Speaker ABut if I ask you this, tell me how, and tell our guests or our listeners, how is Esther adding good to the world?
Speaker BFirst of all, how I live and how I show up in the world, second of all, is my main purpose, and the only reason that I believe that I'm still here in this physical body is to help as many light beings awaken, because there's so many here and they're getting the call, but they're not sure.
Speaker BAnd so I've had quite a few just show up on my zoom or show up in my life.
Speaker BAnd I think that that's my purpose.
Speaker BThat's why I'm here.
Speaker BThat's how I'm adding good.
Speaker BLike I said, it's such an amazing time to be here.
Speaker BAnd there is a call for those of us that are beginning to evolve to commit to bringing as many along with us.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker ASo let's.
Speaker AI'm going to dive into that just a little bit more.
Speaker AI love it.
Speaker ATwo parts to the answer.
Speaker AOne was, and I use the phrase adding good because, you know, we breathe, so we add carbon dioxide.
Speaker ARight?
Speaker AOr.
Speaker AAnd if we walk around angry, then we add anger if we walk around staring at the ground, and we add isolation.
Speaker AAnd, you know, we actually add something to the world with every breath.
Speaker AAnd so the first thing you said is how I'm being, how I show up in the world.
Speaker ATell me more about that.
Speaker ABecause I want people to understand the impact that they have, period.
Speaker BYes, yes.
Speaker BAnd that's.
Speaker BI'm glad you went back to that.
Speaker BBecause so many of us live unconsciously.
Speaker BWe speak unconsciously, we think unconsciously.
Speaker BAnd so creating things, and we're not conscious that we're creating.
Speaker BOur words are our creative faculty.
Speaker BThe thoughts we have.
Speaker BWe've lost so much.
Speaker BSo many of us have lost the ability to imagine.
Speaker BAnd that's the greatest creative.
Speaker BIt's like the ignition to creating things.
Speaker BSo to me, I am conscious.
Speaker BI listen, I think before I speak.
Speaker BI pay attention to what's happening around me, how I react to it, because it's not what's happening to you, it's how you're reacting to it.
Speaker BAnd so when I say how I show up, how I'm being, it's not about doing.
Speaker BAnd we've coming from that era of doing, doing, we got to make this happen.
Speaker BWe got to make that allowing showing up and allowing the universe to show you the path.
Speaker BAnd you might say, how when you become conscious and you act, the universe will show you.
Speaker BIt's like you've got to put your order in.
Speaker BAnd that's the axing.
Speaker BYou know, if you go to a restaurant and sit down, that food is not going to magically show up on your table.
Speaker BYou got to put your order in, right?
Speaker BAnd then you ain't gonna get up and go tell the chef how to fix it.
Speaker BYou're gonna allow the chef to do what it does.
Speaker BIt's the same thing with the universe.
Speaker BIt's waiting for you to put the order in and then allow it to bring to you what it is you desire.
Speaker ASomething that's.
Speaker AGo ahead, I'm sorry, finish up.
Speaker BSo words are words.
Speaker BWhat we say, how we say it, what is the intent behind what we say.
Speaker BAll those things come into play when we show up.
Speaker ASo I'm thinking, yeah, in the restaurant example, so if that waiter comes to take my order, and the way I show up is, I'm angry, and I tell them, don't you dare.
Speaker AYou know, And I say, don't.
Speaker ADon't burn my stuff.
Speaker ADo this, do that.
Speaker AAnd I show up in the restaurant giving my order that way, and the waiter goes back to the chef and says, burn this One, you know, because I showed up that way or I insulted them either in my manner or my language or something, it impacts the food that I get, right?
Speaker BOh, without a doubt.
Speaker BThat goes back to what you put out in the world, comes back to you.
Speaker BSo how you show up and what you're putting out there, that is a universal law.
Speaker BIt's going to come back to you that way.
Speaker BSo again, being conscious, when you show up, how are you showing up?
Speaker AI love that.
Speaker ASo tell me how you got there.
Speaker ABecause being conscious, like as we're raised, we're given feedback practically from the cradle that we're not enough.
Speaker AYou did this wrong, you did that wrong.
Speaker AGrades and friends and betrayals and jobs and failures and all those things sort of beat into us.
Speaker AThe idea that we're not enough and we have to scramble and live in this sort of fearful way and you don't fall up the mountain of consciousness.
Speaker ALike you don't get there accidentally.
Speaker ASo tell me a little bit about.
Speaker BIt's all a deliberate process.
Speaker AYeah, talk a bit, a little bit about that.
Speaker AHow did you get to get up, get a ways up that hill?
Speaker BI'm seven of 10.
Speaker BI came from a family of 10 with a single parent.
Speaker BMy mom and dad weren't together, so she was doing the best she could, but I always felt that I didn't belong there.
Speaker BAnd it was a very strict religious upbringing, Pentecostal holiness.
Speaker BI mean, they had so many rules and regulations.
Speaker BI didn't understand what they were doing.
Speaker BThey, you know, believed very strictly in the Bible and, you know, I had questions from a little child.
Speaker BI was always in trouble because I didn't understand what they were talking about.
Speaker BBut I had a near death experience, my first near death experience at 23.
Speaker BAnd I was told that, well, basically the doctors told my family, if you know how to pray, you better pray because there's nothing we can do for her.
Speaker BI had contracted serum hepatitis through some dental work and didn't know.
Speaker BTook him six months to figure that out.
Speaker BBy the time figured it out, I was in the third stages of the disease where you just sleep away.
Speaker BAnd I remember the minister of the church, the bishop of that church, he looked at me, he said, you know, we've been praying, we've sent to all these different organizations he belonged to.
Speaker BAnd the red flag, you're out of here, basically, right?
Speaker BBut then he looked at me and said, but if you want to live, you have to choose.
Speaker BAnd I thought to myself, I'm out of here because I don't know the God y'all will be talking to, right?
Speaker BSo I'm like, I'm out of here.
Speaker BBut that.
Speaker BYou know, they got me to the hospital.
Speaker BAnd I think when you think about a mother's love, it's one of the most powerful things in the universe.
Speaker BMy mother was there every day from the time visiting hours started till they were closed.
Speaker BAnd she would come and she would wake me up.
Speaker BShe'd keep me.
Speaker BShe was holding me to this side.
Speaker BAnd every night, I would dream.
Speaker BAnd the dreams were so vivid because they were like my life was playing out, you know, all the things that had happened to me while I had it so far.
Speaker BAnd then one night, I didn't dream.
Speaker BAnd when I woke up the next morning, the strangest thing had happened.
Speaker BI wasn't who I was when I went to sleep, and I knew I wasn't.
Speaker BThe sun was coming through the window, and I'm looking at this sun.
Speaker BI was so excited to see it because I'd never seen it before.
Speaker BI knew intellectually, but I'd never seen it before.
Speaker BI looked down.
Speaker BI saw trees.
Speaker BI knew, that's a tree.
Speaker BOh, that's what it looks like.
Speaker BThis is what was happening in my mind.
Speaker BAnd I knew that I was healed.
Speaker BThere was no illness in me.
Speaker BBut the other strange thing was I had the memories, but it was like I'm looking in someone else's mind because I had no recollection of experiencing that stuff.
Speaker BSo I'm looking in someone else's memories.
Speaker BIt took me 10 years to find out what that was, what had happened that night.
Speaker BBut it set me on a path.
Speaker BYou said, how did I get here?
Speaker BSo that's what set me on this path of awakening.
Speaker BAnd it didn't happen completely because I had to.
Speaker BI went there two more times, but I never stopped growing.
Speaker BTook me 10 years to figure out that that was an exchange, which I don't know if you've ever heard.
Speaker ATell me what you mean.
Speaker AAn exchange what?
Speaker BA walk in.
Speaker BAn exchange of souls.
Speaker BThe soul that was there, here, when I was born chose to leave and agree to allow a walk in.
Speaker BAnd that's why everything was so new, why I didn't understand.
Speaker BAlthough I quickly adapted, I still had this.
Speaker BWhat.
Speaker BWhat am I doing here?
Speaker ADo you feel like I've heard the term walk in before?
Speaker ADo you feel.
Speaker AAnd you use the word, the pronoun.
Speaker AI just now.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker ABut if you were a different soul from 0 to 23, and that happened at 23, where a second soul came in and walked in to that life and then saw the old memories, but didn't have the experience of having experienced them.
Speaker AYou use the pronoun I.
Speaker ADid it?
Speaker ADid it feel like I or they?
Speaker AI mean, like, how did you experience that ownership?
Speaker BNo, I.
Speaker BI didn't know what had happened.
Speaker BSo I could only use the I.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker BBecause I didn't understand the process.
Speaker BAnd like I said, it took me 23.
Speaker BI mean, 10 years.
Speaker BThis book I found had no clue why I'm reading this woman.
Speaker BHer name was Ruth Montgomery and she had a series of books.
Speaker BOne was called the Strangers Among Us.
Speaker BAnd when I picked up the book and started to read it, I recognized the process.
Speaker BTo me, now I understand.
Speaker BAnd what I've been able to really understand about that process.
Speaker BIn the exchange, the agreement was that I would finish out whatever the previous soul had committed to before I could begin my process.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker BIt took me a while and then I think after the last.
Speaker BI was 46 when I had the last near death experience.
Speaker BI'd had a gallbladder surgery through a clot and went bad.
Speaker BIt sit in my body for 30 days.
Speaker BMy lung began to atrophy.
Speaker BOf course they're thinking, this woman's out of here because all it takes is a piece off of that blood clot that's setting in her lung and she's gone.
Speaker BAnd there were some amazing things that happened about that.
Speaker BBut the message from that was, you don't need to come here again to get what you have.
Speaker BAnd that sent me on a whole different direction than I had been on.
Speaker BSo that told me I was complete with that.
Speaker BAnd now the downloads became quicker, clearer.
Speaker BI began to understand.
Speaker BPeople showed up in my life to support what was happening to me, to help me understand what was going on and who I was.
Speaker BAnd I'm still in question of that, trust me.
Speaker BBut my.
Speaker BMy whole life changed.
Speaker ASo let me ask you question about that.
Speaker AI believe you and I, we've talked before, and, you know, I had an experience where I died also.
Speaker ABut anyway, tell me one of the things we use, the language we use is.
Speaker AAnd then I understand what my life's about.
Speaker AJust like what you just said, we say that.
Speaker AAnd so this might get to the second part of what you said about adding good to the world.
Speaker AYou had these remarkable experiences that helped you see who you really were and that you were what you were about, which is living consciously and making intentional conscious decisions about what you add to the world with your thinking and language.
Speaker AAnd part two was to help wake up or awaken as many other people as you can so that they will do that.
Speaker ATell me for the listeners, help me them understand what you mean by what I'm about, what I, who I am and helping others wake up.
Speaker ALike what does that all mean in plain language?
Speaker ASo someone listening to this can say, wow, I either have or I want to have a more fulsome understanding or experience about that.
Speaker BWhen I say what I'm all about, I begin to understand my purpose, why that exchange happened.
Speaker BDoes that make sense?
Speaker AIt doesn't tell us what truly I.
Speaker BIn fact, I'm not going to say I believe I know every soul that enters this realm has a purpose.
Speaker BBut like you were saying earlier, we are, we come in through the birth canal, which I call the river of forgetfulness, and we forget why we came and so that we can experience this world in a way that we have chosen to experience it.
Speaker BSo what happens though is that you said earlier we're influenced by this person, that person, our environment.
Speaker BIf you watch a little child, they're learning at lightning speed.
Speaker BThey're picking up not just what you're saying because they don't really listen to that.
Speaker BThey're watching what you're doing, they're watching what's happening around them.
Speaker BAnd so the way our, our society is set up, it does not support us being the powerful beings that we truly are.
Speaker BSo in the process, there are things that will happen along our lifeline that are meant to help wake us up.
Speaker BBut because of the way that our society is built, rather than taking the pearls from what happened and allowing what we call mistakes to become experiences, we either latch onto that and become victims.
Speaker BYou know, oh, this happened to me, blah blah, blah, blah.
Speaker BSo now you're off your path again.
Speaker BSomething that happened to someone to come in.
Speaker BMaybe you'll have some healing with your trauma or whatever, but you get back on that path.
Speaker BThe point is to recognize I came here to experience these emotions or those emotions, what, however you want to say it.
Speaker BAnd my purpose here is to help others that have experienced this wake up and realize who they are as powerful beings.
Speaker BBecause I believe that we're all much more powerful than we recognize.
Speaker BBut we've given that power away based on how our society is set up.
Speaker BEverything in our society tell us that we're victims or that we're weak or we can't do this or we can't do that.
Speaker BYou know, you look, you look, look at tv, listen to radio.
Speaker BIt's always something negative, something bad.
Speaker BYou better be afraid of this.
Speaker BYou better Be afraid of that.
Speaker BSo when I say who I am, I've seen through the bs, I've seen through the Matrix, I've seen through the illusion.
Speaker BAnd we all have that ability.
Speaker BAnd that's what this great awakening is about.
Speaker BSeeing through the illusions that we have created.
Speaker BNo one else came and created this.
Speaker AI agree.
Speaker ASo I want to go there.
Speaker AYou said a couple of times about society teaches us this by the way it's structured.
Speaker AWhy do you think, and I know you're making this up here, because we all are, but why is it structured that way?
Speaker AWhy is it that from practically the moment we're born, for nearly everyone, I won't say everybody, but nearly everyone, it is structured or seems to be structured so that it beats the crap out of our self confidence.
Speaker BLet me just cut through it, let me cut through it.
Speaker BBecause we decided we're going to create this game that we want to come here and play in, right?
Speaker BAnd so because we set the rules, because we've forgotten, right?
Speaker BSo that we could experience all of this stuff that we've created.
Speaker BWell, what's happening is we're at the end of the game.
Speaker BIn fact, 2024 was the end of a 25,000 year cycle.
Speaker BWe're coming into a new cycle.
Speaker BThat game is over.
Speaker BIt's time to wake up.
Speaker BSo we're starting to wake up.
Speaker BIt's like the Earth began to move into a higher dimension.
Speaker BA faster vibrational frequency.
Speaker BSo the energy's changed around this planet.
Speaker BWe are being affected by that energy.
Speaker BMore and more people are waking up.
Speaker BOh, this doesn't feel right.
Speaker BAnd you, I'm sure people talk to you all the time, say I don't know, you know what I used to believe, it just doesn't make sense anymore.
Speaker BThis, this is kind of this, this ain't right.
Speaker BNo, no, I don't want to do that.
Speaker BBecause the energy of this planet has changed and people are beginning to wake up.
Speaker BWe're moving into a new cycle.
Speaker BWe can create something different now.
Speaker BBut there's nothing out there that's created this.
Speaker BWe are the creators and we set it up that way.
Speaker BSo yeah, when I say this society, I'm talking about what we did, not what something outside, something, you know, out there.
Speaker BNothing is orchestrating us.
Speaker BWe are orchestrating ourselves.
Speaker BAnd that's what we have to wake up to and realize.
Speaker BWe created this illusion of, you know, this God sitting out there.
Speaker BThis energy out there.
Speaker BNo, it's within us.
Speaker AWhat do you think in this change that's happening now in the new energy.
Speaker AAnd I agree it just in terms of language that I hear people using, this yearning to do more, be more, create, take control.
Speaker AYou know, everybody languages it differently, but people are feeling that.
Speaker AWhat is the new creation?
Speaker ACan you describe at least to start with what you think this new creation is that we're being asked, invited, driven to create.
Speaker BOkay, so the new creation, first of all starts with recognizing that we're all one, that we're all connected.
Speaker BWhat I do to you, I do to myself.
Speaker BThat illusion is gone.
Speaker BI recognize we're all from the one source.
Speaker BThere's one source.
Speaker BAnd we're all.
Speaker BWe've.
Speaker BWe.
Speaker BWe have created these little pieces of ourselves so that we could experience what we create, which then helps us to expand.
Speaker BBut we're all the same thing.
Speaker BDoes that make sense?
Speaker AI understand.
Speaker AAbsolutely.
Speaker ANon duality is the interesting way to say that.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker AAnd maybe some people will understand it and maybe they won't, but I think everybody will understand what you do to someone else, you do to yourself, because there is essentially unity.
Speaker ASo keep going.
Speaker BSo when we.
Speaker BWhen we begin to understand that we are one, we are all connected, it changes the whole dynamic of how we treat one another, right?
Speaker AYes.
Speaker BI'm not going to hurt myself.
Speaker BSo if I'm not going to hurt myself, I'm not going to hurt you.
Speaker BIt raises the bar of what we create.
Speaker BAnd so sharp, quick version.
Speaker BHeaven on Earth, period.
Speaker BYou ask me what it looks like, what we track.
Speaker BHeaven on Earth, okay?
Speaker AWhere.
Speaker BThese bodies, our avatars, we don't mistreat them because they will regenerate themselves, but it's because of the environment and how we eat and, you know, what we do to ourselves that these, these avatars break down so quickly.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BAnd science is beginning to understand that these bodies can do a lot more than what they thought.
Speaker BYou don't put those chemicals that, you know, anything from the pharmaceutical started out natural, but they added chemicals to it.
Speaker BAnd that's why you see the rise of plant medicine, because people are going back to what this Earth was meant to support us completely.
Speaker AI saw it.
Speaker AI do.
Speaker AI saw a YouTube video.
Speaker AI didn't look at the video, but the title said, in the2030s, it's going to be such that we human beings can live forever.
Speaker AAnd I don't know if that's true or not, but it's an interesting thought.
Speaker BAbout what you're talking about when you say forever.
Speaker BWhen you say forever, as you move into the higher consciousness, you move out of time and space anyway.
Speaker BThere Is no time and space.
Speaker BThis is something we created for this game.
Speaker BYou see what I'm saying?
Speaker AI do.
Speaker BSo when you say living forever, what's forever?
Speaker AYou see, well, forever is a construct that we have when we measure time in a linear fashion.
Speaker AAnd you're saying, thank you, that goes away because we stopped being linear about it all.
Speaker AAnd we recognize that.
Speaker BThank you.
Speaker ASort of spherical or circular nature of all of it.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker ASo tell me about the work that you do now.
Speaker AI.
Speaker AWe started with, you know, what happened and your purpose and how you're adding good to the world and your journey.
Speaker AAnd you've described not anywhere near all of it, but a number of events that have brought you to this place.
Speaker ASo tell me about the work, or I don't even want to call it work.
Speaker BBecause that's called play to me.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAll right.
Speaker ASo I love that.
Speaker AAnd thank you.
Speaker BWhat I play when I'm playing with people, I come.
Speaker BI am a spiritual architect.
Speaker BAnd what does an architect do?
Speaker BThey lay out the plans to build a new container.
Speaker BSo I help the people that I work with build a container so that they can be all that they can be.
Speaker BBecause when I say we're powerful, we're so much bigger than these physical bodies.
Speaker BWe're so much more.
Speaker BWhen you realize that you are part of everything, that you are one with everything, there's nothing that you cannot do.
Speaker BThe only thing that's stopping you is you and your belief.
Speaker BYou're limited by your vision.
Speaker BWe're limited by our vision, by our imagination.
Speaker ASo if I'm coming to you with a limited or shriveled up vision of my own possibility, but I have this yearning and underlying sense that there could be, should be, is something more, but I don't know how to access it.
Speaker AYou're telling me that what you do, you work with me, to architect, to eliminate the false boundaries, to eliminate the barriers that I put up and create a larger space and a larger vision so I can begin to not only see and pretend, but to experience the possibility of this larger vision.
Speaker AIs that what you're saying?
Speaker BThat's exactly what I'm saying.
Speaker BAnd what I do is when I'm working with someone, I'm listening not to what you're saying, but what you're not saying.
Speaker BBecause that's where the key is.
Speaker BWe're good at telling our stories.
Speaker BBut what is it that you're not saying to me that I need to know that I need to hear?
Speaker AThat is so.
Speaker AI love that.
Speaker ABecause you're right.
Speaker AWhat we Say is just a regurgitation of what we've always said and what we believed and this gobbledygook that we've accepted for however long.
Speaker AAnd so help me and the listeners understand, what is the not saying.
Speaker BYeah, I had a client that his wife sent him to me because they were having some marital issues, right?
Speaker BAnd the first session that we had, he looked at me and he said, so how long is this going to take?
Speaker BAnd I looked at him, said, how.
Speaker BHow long do you want it to take?
Speaker BIt's going to take as long as you want it to take.
Speaker BBut I began to see in him because he's telling me he's confessing all the wrong that he's done, right?
Speaker BBut what he's not telling me is the underlining, driving energy that's caused that helped him to make those decisions.
Speaker BAnd what he really desired, right?
Speaker BAnd what he really desired was to be the head of his household.
Speaker BAnd he didn't feel that way.
Speaker BSo he would go out and have affairs with him because they made him feel like king, right?
Speaker BBut he couldn't say that.
Speaker BAnd I never had to say it to him, but I led him to the place where he could say it.
Speaker BWhat is going on?
Speaker BDo you understand what I'm saying?
Speaker BI was able to lead him to that space where he could say to himself, and he could hear himself say it, that that's what he wanted to be, is the tree in which all of his family was covered.
Speaker BBut it was only because I'm looking beyond what he's telling me to see what his desire is.
Speaker BDoes that make sense to you?
Speaker AIt does.
Speaker AHe had a desire that wasn't fulfilled, and he was chasing other ways to fulfill it that were causing all these problems, obviously, solution.
Speaker BBut he had never said it to himself.
Speaker BHe had never acknowledged what the yearning was.
Speaker BAnd that's how people often get into these situations that they don't want to be in because they're not willing to be honest with themselves.
Speaker BThey're not willing to look within themselves and truly understand, what is it that I desire.
Speaker BThey're chasing their wants rather than their desires.
Speaker BSee, and the desire is something you already have.
Speaker BA want is something that you don't have.
Speaker BAnd you think, if I keep doing this, I'll get it.
Speaker BNo.
Speaker BBut when you say, I want this, I want that, I want this, the universe says, okay, Kellen, want it.
Speaker BWe'll make sure he wants it.
Speaker BBut when you say, I desire this, because you know, this is what you're made of.
Speaker BThis is part of you.
Speaker BThe universe goes on, says, okay, let me create more of what he is.
Speaker BLet me create more of what he has already.
Speaker ASo the foundation there is a big distinction between a desire, which is consistent with the truth of my eternal nature, and want, which is an artificial construct maybe created by these, this game that we're playing or all this sort of thing.
Speaker AAnd so these artificial wants come on there and we confuse wants and desires and think, if I get enough wants, I'll get the desire.
Speaker AAnd that's not true, because the desire is consistent with the truth of who we really are.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BAnd you only get more of it when you recognize this is my true desire.
Speaker BThose wants will have you out there chasing all kind of things, doing all kind of things, because you're wanting something that's not what you are.
Speaker BAnd see, what you are is already everything.
Speaker BYou don't have to want it.
Speaker BAcknowledge what you are, and all things are possible.
Speaker BWe live in an unlimited universe.
Speaker BIt's like people say, and I think I want.
Speaker BWell, that's not how you create.
Speaker BYou create by I imagine.
Speaker BWhen you say I imagine this for myself, that's like the ignition turns on.
Speaker BThe universe is now gone to work.
Speaker BIt's bringing that imagination because you see it when you imagine something.
Speaker BThink about it.
Speaker BKids playing, they're imagining their friend, they're imagining this, and it's real.
Speaker BThat's how we create.
Speaker BIt's like we have to become little children again and use that powerful part of ourselves to imagine our world to be what we desire to be.
Speaker AIt's fascinating.
Speaker AOften people go talk about how little kids they want without limits.
Speaker AIn other words, they can be both the president and a fireman and an astronaut and be in all these places at the same time.
Speaker AAnd the idea of lack and limitation doesn't occur to them.
Speaker AAnd we learn that limitation as we have these experiences playing this game.
Speaker BYeah, yeah.
Speaker BSo that's why you have to, I mean, and even think about it.
Speaker BEven the, the master Yeshua says, unless you become as a little child, you cannot enter the kingdom.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker BAnd the kingdom is heaven on earth.
Speaker BIt's a, it's a state of consciousness.
Speaker ASo when you work with people, is it like a set of.
Speaker ADo you meet with them?
Speaker ADo you meet with them weekly, monthly?
Speaker ADo you.
Speaker BI, I week.
Speaker BI meet with.
Speaker BNormally when I do one on ones, it's usually a minimum of a year because we got a lot of stuff to clean up.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BAnd I meet with them once a week and we do it on Zoom.
Speaker BAnd they have Assignments that, you know, I'll give them.
Speaker BDo this, work on this, work on it.
Speaker BBecause one of the biggest.
Speaker BOne of the biggest holes that people have fallen into is not loving themselves.
Speaker BAnd they talk about, oh, yeah, you got to love yourself, but it's not as simple as that.
Speaker BYou got to go in there and undo some stuff that's.
Speaker BUnderstand.
Speaker BUnderstand who and what you are, because you come as pure love.
Speaker BAnd like you said, all these things that happen in this game pushes you away.
Speaker BYou're not good enough.
Speaker BYou're not this, you're not that.
Speaker BYou got to learn to love yourself unapologetically.
Speaker BIt's like, you know, people say, if you're selfish, how can you be?
Speaker BWell, there's a selfishness that you have to be in order to love yourself unapologetically.
Speaker BBecause if you're not okay, how are you going to help someone else?
Speaker AWell, there's a difference between.
Speaker AYeah, there's a difference between selfish indulgence and truly honoring the infinite being that you are.
Speaker AYou know, honoring the infinite being you are is taking good care of the skin bag, the spirit that's inside, and all of the rest.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker AAnd exuding and sharing the love and truth that is also them, because they are me.
Speaker ASo thank you.
Speaker BThank you, thank you.
Speaker BBecause people are saying, oh, I love you enough.
Speaker BHow can you give something you don't have?
Speaker BIf you don't love yourself, you cannot love someone else.
Speaker BI call that situational or conditional love.
Speaker BAs long as you're doing what I say, I love you.
Speaker BWhen you don't, do we got a problem.
Speaker BYou go into the lack category.
Speaker BOkay, And.
Speaker BAnd you'll find it with parents and children and husband and wives, and you'll find that going on everywhere.
Speaker BAnd people are dying from the lack of love, loving themselves first.
Speaker BBecause when you love yourself, no, you're not going to allow certain things in your life, and you can do it without any anger or frustration or bitterness.
Speaker BYou can do it from a place of love.
Speaker BYou know, I set boundary from a place of love.
Speaker BI was in.
Speaker BWhere was I at?
Speaker BI think I was in India.
Speaker BAnd we were on the bus, and this man comes in and he, you know, his wife wanted to sit in a seat where I was, but I had my suitcase there, and I was sitting by the window.
Speaker BSo I was trying to tell her to, wait, let me get out and let her in.
Speaker BAnd he starts talking crazy to me.
Speaker BWho.
Speaker BWhy you talk to her?
Speaker BWhy did.
Speaker BAnd I just looked at him and said, did I give you permission to speak to Me.
Speaker BAnd I know I did not give you permission to speak to me in this way.
Speaker BAnd he was like, but see, that was a boundary.
Speaker BYou don't get to just speak to me anyway just because you have a mouth.
Speaker BYou don't get to use your mouth as a weapon against me.
Speaker BThat's not okay.
Speaker BAnd I have a right to say to you, hope you're crossing the boundary here.
Speaker BAnd I don't have to be angry.
Speaker BIt just is.
Speaker BPeople can't do that.
Speaker BA lot of people want.
Speaker BThey have to be angry or they have to be frustrated or they shrink into victim.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker ASubservience.
Speaker BYou love yourself.
Speaker BYou set boundaries.
Speaker AYou do.
Speaker AAnd you're doing it because you're honoring the truth of your divinity.
Speaker AIt's not about pushing you away because I'm better than.
Speaker AOr you can't this, that, and the other.
Speaker AAnd it's also a truth that they could learn.
Speaker ALook at this person honoring their divinity, their divine nature and being.
Speaker ASetting a boundary for me.
Speaker AWow.
Speaker AWhat is that saying about me that I was even violating?
Speaker AI mean, most people aren't going to go that introspective.
Speaker BTell me.
Speaker BNot, not, not.
Speaker BNot at first.
Speaker BBut if they keep talking to me, they'll get there.
Speaker AYeah, I believe you.
Speaker AI believe you.
Speaker AI, I'm.
Speaker AAnd you know, we had a.
Speaker AWe had a brief chance to talk another day and I really enjoyed that as well as we got to know each other.
Speaker ASo I want people to know how to find you, how to find your programs and find out more about, like, I don't know if you've got programs and I know you said you meet with people a certain way, but how do we, how do we do that?
Speaker BI actually do.
Speaker BMy website is www Esther Jones1Word-Alley.com and it has all of my programs on it.
Speaker BIt has my sacred journeys because I do also do sacred journeys to India, Egypt.
Speaker BPlanning to do one this year to Bali.
Speaker BI went last year to kind of scope it out.
Speaker BAnd I, I take people on these journeys so they can feel the energy of these sacred places that is still there.
Speaker BAnd all of that's on that website.
Speaker BI also am on Facebook under Esther Ali and I'm on.
Speaker BOn Instagram, Esther Jones alley.
Speaker BI'm on LinkedIn.
Speaker BEsther Alley.
Speaker BEsther Jones Alley.
Speaker BSo all these places, I am there and.
Speaker BWelcome to Reach Out.
Speaker BWelcome to Reach Out.
Speaker AWhat?
Speaker ADid I not ask you that you're dying for me or others that are watching to know.
Speaker BI'm not dying for anything, first of all.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker AThat you would enjoy or Love to have people know or hear.
Speaker BWell, again, like I said, I go on these sacred journeys.
Speaker BI still have some spots for India.
Speaker BI'm doing India.
Speaker BAnd February 24 through March 8, we're doing all of South India.
Speaker BWe'll be going to several cities.
Speaker BWe'll be, you know, have a chance to bathe an elephant, spend the night on a riverboat, the whole bit.
Speaker BI'm really excited about it.
Speaker BIn 2024, I went to North India, so I want to finish out the continent.
Speaker BThere's so much energy there, but a lot of people don't get a chance to experience it.
Speaker BI call India the land of unconditional love.
Speaker BBut because they.
Speaker BPeople go there with judgment, with.
Speaker BWith preconceived notions.
Speaker BYou know, you see all the.
Speaker BThe propaganda about this.
Speaker BThis country.
Speaker BAnd so they never get past that to really feel the unconditional love.
Speaker BThat's the secret of India, is unconditional love.
Speaker BAnd if you can get past all of your judgment and expectation, you will get to experience that power.
Speaker BEgypt is the land of the gods.
Speaker BAnd when I go there, I get to walk with them, I get to commune with them.
Speaker BThey're there, but they vibrate on a different frequency, which is much higher than what we are on.
Speaker BBut if you raise your frequency high enough, they'll meet you and speak with you.
Speaker BThese are entities that have been there for eons because remember, they don't die.
Speaker AOkay, so I love this.
Speaker AAnd I want to repeat.
Speaker AEstherjones ali a l l e y.com so take a look and see.
Speaker AI encourage you to do that, Esther.
Speaker AThank you for your presence and thank you for your laughter, for your heart, and for your.
Speaker AYour true and unvarnished yearning for people to love themselves and therefore create their possibilities.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker BAnd just be open and willing and more conscious.
Speaker BStart to think before you speak because we're always creating.
Speaker BAnd what are you creating?
Speaker BWhat is it that you desire to see in your life?
Speaker BBe conscious.
Speaker BWake up.
Speaker BSo, yeah, thank you.
Speaker AThank you.
Speaker ASo I want to.
Speaker AYou betcha.
Speaker AI want to encourage all of you listeners.
Speaker AGo back and listen.
Speaker AThere were lots of pieces here.
Speaker AThe focus is just being aware.
Speaker AStart with being aware of what you're creating, because it's not just what you're doing, it's like you're creating.
Speaker AThe energy you send out with your language, internally and externally is creating, is what we learned today.
Speaker ASo be aware of that.
Speaker BAnd there's one more piece that is really important.
Speaker BBe willing to take responsibility for what you're creating.
Speaker BNothing comes into our world unbidden.
Speaker BNothing shows up that we do not call in on some level.
Speaker BAnd as you become conscious, you begin to recognize what it is you're calling into your world.
Speaker BSo be willing to take the responsibility as well.
Speaker BIt's not just being conscious of what you're creating.
Speaker BBe willing to take the responsibility and ask questions.
Speaker BWhat is this here in my life to serve me?
Speaker BHow is this going to serve me?
Speaker BWhat am I supposed to learn when something that we call bad happened?
Speaker BGo in and pull the pearls from it.
Speaker BBecause there's some pearls in there that's meant for you to grow from.
Speaker BNot to sit down as a victim, but to open up your heart and let it teach you what it's come to teach you.
Speaker BSo I wanted to throw that in because it's not enough just to be conscious, but you've got to be willing to take responsibility for everything.
Speaker BNot some everything that shows up in your life because you've called it in.
Speaker ASo I love that and I actually completely agree.
Speaker ASo please do that listeners, and then think about this.
Speaker AYou know, your ultimate life is a life you create.
Speaker AAnd if you do this, if you take responsibility and become aware of and create consciously, then you will be able to create your own ultimate life.
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