It's Not Burnout - It's Your Divine Invitation Into A Bigger Fire

You’ve done everything right. Built the career. Earned the respect. Checked every box.
So why does it still feel so empty?
In this raw and revealing episode, Kellan Fluckiger strips away the illusion of “success” to expose the silent suffering of high achievers—the ones who look like they’ve made it but feel like they’re dying inside. If you’ve ever felt like the life you’ve built looks amazing on the outside but quietly suffocates your soul, this conversation is for you.
This isn’t self-help fluff. It’s a wake-up call.
And it’s your invitation to stop performing and start creating a life that’s real, free, and deeply yours.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:05 - Introduction to Creating Your Dream Life
08:44 - The Evolution of Purpose: Embracing the Call to Grow
15:26 - The Call to Create Your Ultimate Life Coaching University
23:42 - Embracing Change: The Evolution of Your Calling
26:55 - Embracing Change and Growth
38:07 - Embracing Evolution: A Call to Action
Welcome to the show.
Speaker ATired of the hype about living a dream?
Speaker AIt's time for truth.
Speaker AThis is the place for tools, power, and real talk so you can create the life you dream and deserve your ultimate life.
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Speaker AYou have infinite power.
Speaker AHave you ever felt like you've been abandoned?
Speaker ALike the thing you were chasing and absolutely sure you wanted suddenly changes?
Speaker AYour motivation's gone, your heart is broken, and you wonder why heaven has left you hanging.
Speaker AI want to talk about today.
Speaker AThat particular feeling.
Speaker AI want to talk about that and I call it.
Speaker AWhen you're calling, go silent and you can see the background I have when that feeling, the thing that was motivating you and moving you forward and it felt like it was so important and it would last you forever, and you're absolutely certain you were doing the right thing, and then either suddenly or gradually, it just sort of fades.
Speaker AThat's a terrifying feeling.
Speaker AIt brings up all kinds of scary ideas.
Speaker AWhat if I'm stupid?
Speaker AWhat if it was the wrong thing in the first place?
Speaker AWho the hell did I think I was to be doing that?
Speaker AParticularly.
Speaker AThat's particularly strong if it's something you were really connected to.
Speaker AIf you really thought you were adding good to the world in a powerful way.
Speaker AIt might have been related to something that happened in your life and you're motivated and moving forward, and maybe you've done a lot with it, and suddenly or gradually, but suddenly you notice it's like, holy crap, it's gone.
Speaker AThe motivation, the push, the desire.
Speaker AAnd then it becomes a drag, becomes an obligation.
Speaker AThen words like, people expect me to do this.
Speaker AI'm going to let them down.
Speaker AYou know, all that kind of stuff happens.
Speaker AI'd like to talk with you today about why that happens, how it's connected to your ultimate life and how to do something about it, and perhaps what it really means, not the stories we tell ourselves.
Speaker ANow, this whole podcast, as you know, is about creating your ultimate life, a life of purpose, prosperity and joy.
Speaker AYou know that you.
Speaker AThat you create by serving with your gifts and talents.
Speaker ANow, you've seen me talk about the Triple Helix, about how you find that purpose, the skills you have, maybe ones you sold in the marketplace, the gifts you have, the natural, divine gifts you have, and then your life experience, which is what shapes us, right?
Speaker AEspecially the hard things where we've chosen to be resilient and stand up and go forward and forgive and love again, and all of the things that the hardships of life teach us.
Speaker AWhen you weave those together, you find your purpose and maybe you did that and you're moving forward.
Speaker AAnd then when it wanes or changes or seems to fade and brings up these questions.
Speaker ASo your ultimate life is purpose, prosperity and joy.
Speaker AAnd we just now talked about purpose.
Speaker AProsperity is the natural result of serving with your purpose.
Speaker AProsperity is the natural outcome of serving with your purpose.
Speaker ANow, often people feel like purposes are these sacred things and it's wrong to charge money, and certainly not heavy money for those things.
Speaker AThat's just not true.
Speaker AWhen people pay for stuff, they value it more.
Speaker AWhen you give away stuff, you know, when you've got free stuff, often, maybe all the time, it's like, yeah, whatever, I don't care, it's free.
Speaker AI can go back and watch the recording.
Speaker AIt doesn't really matter.
Speaker ABut when you've invested heavily in something, it's really important, Take care of it.
Speaker AYou polish it, wax it, your car, take care of your stereo, whatever it is, right?
Speaker ASo getting paid for your life purpose is appropriate.
Speaker AIt is, may be essential.
Speaker ABecause unless you're independently wealthy or you want to just do it on the side because you've got another job, you need to get paid.
Speaker AYou need to get paid well.
Speaker ASo when you create value with that life purpose, which is humanitarian, loving, lifting, blessing, serving, adding good to the world, that is the point.
Speaker AYour best purpose is that triple helix.
Speaker AYour gifts, your talents, or excuse me, your gifts, your skills and your life experience.
Speaker AThat's the thing you can do the most good with and make the most money with, incidentally.
Speaker ASo why wouldn't you get paid and get paid well?
Speaker AOkay?
Speaker AThat's purpose prosperity.
Speaker AAnd of course, prosperity is a lot more than money.
Speaker ABut when you're marrying your skills, gifts and life experience and you're serving like crazy and getting paid well, that's a recipe for joy.
Speaker AIt's a recipe for deep contentment and happiness, okay?
Speaker AAnd so there's no question about that.
Speaker AAnd that is what I've been teaching.
Speaker AIt's what all these episodes are about.
Speaker AIt's what the LA Talk radio show is about.
Speaker AIt's what the books are about.
Speaker AAll of them are about either how to heal from brokenness, it's about how to find a purpose and how to change yourself so that you become the owner of your divine self and a generator of fabulous good and prosperity, both in happiness, prosperity in relationships and love and connection to the divine, as well as prosperity and cash.
Speaker AThat's what we're doing here because you're a divine being, so am I.
Speaker AWe were built to love and serve.
Speaker AWe're built to help each other enjoy life.
Speaker AWe're built to create joy.
Speaker AYou're built to have happiness, to succeed.
Speaker AAnd in that process, there's going to be a million bouts of refiner's fire, broken legs, illnesses, difficult things, some things that are unjust, that's all part of the gig.
Speaker ABut in doing that, choosing resilience, finding your purpose, serving.
Speaker AAnd yeah, there's some work in figuring out how to package and present and serve.
Speaker AAnd there's business design, and there's all the elements of business that you have to master or get somebody to help you with in order to turn your skill, your gift, your life experience into a business.
Speaker ANow, you can also have a job.
Speaker AYou can be the very best in that job and choose to make your money that way.
Speaker AAnd then your divine purpose is how you do that job or what else you do.
Speaker ASo there's all kinds of ways to do this, but all of it results in absolutely unbridled, perpetual joy.
Speaker ANow, sometimes it's happened to me, and that's why I'm talking about it.
Speaker ASometimes when you do all that work and you land on a purpose and you pursue it and it works, and you help people and you make money and you're happy about it, when all of the right things and the predicted things and the supposed to things all line up and it happens for you, and it goes on for a year or two or 10 or 20.
Speaker AThere can, in fact, there probably will come a time when your calling goes silent, meaning that thing that you thought you were gonna do for your last breath suddenly feels sour or inadequate or, you know, and then it becomes a drag.
Speaker AAnd so when that happens, when that happens, what do you do?
Speaker ABecause you answered the call, you built the business, you changed lives, and now it somehow feels empty.
Speaker AHoly crap.
Speaker ALike your calling ghosted you, Right?
Speaker AIt's not burnout.
Speaker AYou cannot burn out when you're doing your divine calling.
Speaker AYou can't.
Speaker ABecause part of every one of our divine callings is to take care of ourselves.
Speaker AIf we don't care for the spirit and the body that we have, we're not actually doing our divine calling because our divine calling is to honor the container and the spirit that we were given to do that work.
Speaker ASo burnout is not the answer.
Speaker AIf you're burned out, you're doing it wrong.
Speaker AAnd that might be.
Speaker AThat might piss you off.
Speaker AI don't really care if you get burned out, you're not doing it right because you're not caring for yourself, you're not honoring the spirit and the body that's yours, the very vehicles that were given to you to do the calling.
Speaker ASo it isn't burnout.
Speaker AOkay, here's what it is.
Speaker AIt is a sacred evolution.
Speaker AYou are being called to something larger.
Speaker AAnd it went quiet so that the divine heaven, the universe, could get your attention and invite you back into the refiner's fire to elevate again.
Speaker ANow, you can refuse.
Speaker AYou can say, I'm not willing to go back with a beginner's mindset into the refiner's fire and it's hot.
Speaker AGet refined again, burn off more draws, learn new stuff.
Speaker ANot really willing to do that.
Speaker AThat was so flipping hard last time.
Speaker AYou can do that.
Speaker ABut the nagging won't leave you.
Speaker AIt will either get numb.
Speaker AYou will get angry, frustrated and lost.
Speaker AYou'll wonder why you were abandoned and your heart will not be happy.
Speaker AIt is an evolution.
Speaker AIt is an invitation.
Speaker AYou have completed your mission as a caterpillar and it's now time to become a butterfly.
Speaker AAnd even if you've been through this chrysalis thing once and turned into mush and then regrew as a butterfly once already, it's time to do it again.
Speaker AIt's time to re enter the fire.
Speaker ANow, that might scare you, but it's actually an honor.
Speaker AIt's an honor because it says, what it means is you win, you have completed, opportunity awaits.
Speaker AThe larger view is in front of you or can be something I know from dying in 2018.
Speaker AAnd I'm not going to talk about those events here, but they're written in detail in a book called Meeting God at the Door.
Speaker AConversations, choices and commitments of a near death experience.
Speaker AI had a fatal illness and died and had three combos convos with the divine, the door between life and eternity.
Speaker AOne thing that I learned, one of many in that conversation, was that we all have a calling that we agreed to and were excited about before we came here.
Speaker AAnd because we grow and change, especially when we answer the initial calls and we grow and change, that calling grows and changes too.
Speaker ABecause the idea of us being here is continual evolution.
Speaker AIt's not just a third grade test and we're done.
Speaker AThird, 13, 23rd, 53rd million third.
Speaker AIt is your.
Speaker ABecause you're an infinite being, your call to grow is infinite, right?
Speaker ASo you're going to have these repeated challenges.
Speaker ABecause we are.
Speaker AOur intent here is to grow.
Speaker ANot grow and plateau, but to grow, hang out for a bit and then grow again and elevate one more time.
Speaker ABut elevation every time.
Speaker AEvery time you Want to sharpen the steel?
Speaker AIt's got to go back in the fire.
Speaker AIt's got to go back in the fire and get burned again, get toasted again, made soft again, made humble again so it can be pounded again into some more powerful form.
Speaker AIf that sounds scary, it is.
Speaker AAnd something else I learned in those conversations was that all the help we need is available from both sides.
Speaker AThis side of the veil or the door to eternity and the other side.
Speaker AMy interviews took place at a door, and so I say both sides of that door.
Speaker ABut that fundamental truth is what can, if you want it to, give you both the courage and help you make the choice to go back into the fire.
Speaker ABecause if it's time to grow, we can always say, no, I've had enough of this growth crap.
Speaker AI'm finished.
Speaker AI'm just going to hang out and watch Netflix, okay?
Speaker AThat if you're a soul of growth and power and you've been through this once, it's not going to last.
Speaker AThat's not going to be content very long.
Speaker AYou're going to say, screw that.
Speaker AIt's going to be hard, but I'm going to do it.
Speaker ALet's go.
Speaker AYou're going to do that?
Speaker AI predict it.
Speaker AIf you're a chaser of your ultimate life.
Speaker APurpose, purpose, purpose.
Speaker AProsperity and joy.
Speaker AYou're going to say, hey, you know, not what I expected.
Speaker AMore fire.
Speaker ABring it on.
Speaker ABut you're going to do it.
Speaker AYou're free not to, but your soul won't leave you alone.
Speaker AYour purpose is your purpose, and you can beat it down as long as you want, but it's not going to go away.
Speaker AYou have gifts, you have talents, you have a reason.
Speaker AAnd it often refines, requires refining multiple times.
Speaker ANo, it can't be all done at once.
Speaker AJust can't.
Speaker AI look at my own life as.
Speaker AAs a.
Speaker AAs an example of all these things I teach?
Speaker ABecause it's so true for me.
Speaker AI couldn't possibly have had all the refining I needed at once, not in any.
Speaker AAny universe.
Speaker AIt had to happen in stages, and it has.
Speaker AAnd now that I see the pattern, I expect it will.
Speaker AIn fact, I'll tell you right now, a month ago, and this is now 18 years since I started on this in 2007.
Speaker A18 years of this.
Speaker AA month ago, the call came.
Speaker ANow, it doesn't always come with your calling going silent like, oh, dear, I've been doing the wrong thing.
Speaker ABut it came with a thunderclap, a thought, and then a powerful invitation and direction to expand, to grow, to do something new to put something on my plate I had never intended to put on my plate.
Speaker AAnd if you watch socials and stay with me, you'll see what it is.
Speaker AIt's something I had not only not intended to do, but told myself I would not do, did not want to, didn't want to.
Speaker ANow I'll tell you a little bit about it right now.
Speaker AI have been called to create your ultimate life coaching university.
Speaker AAnd here's why.
Speaker AAnd why now, about six weeks ago, I realized that AI in 18 to 24 months, AI is going to put 95% of coaches out of business.
Speaker AAnd the reason is because it's getting so good, so powerful, so fast, so empathetic, so able to read and speak intelligently and capably that any coach that isn't an extraordinary coach, top 5%, you're done, you're going to be gone.
Speaker AThat's a terrifying thought and it's probably scaring crap out of you if you're a coach.
Speaker AAnd so the question isn't, oh no, run for the hills.
Speaker AWell, it could be.
Speaker AThe question is, how do I get to be in that 5%?
Speaker AWho do I need to be so that my results, my clients and my work in my heart is in the 5%?
Speaker AThere's a story about the steam hammer in mines.
Speaker AAnd there was a fabled hammer guy, John Henry, and just an enormous guy of massive proportions and heroic.
Speaker AThe strength of legend and the way that they used to do this particular kind of mining was they would take a, a shaft and pound it into the wall and then put explosives in there and then blow out stuff and the pounding, that's where these great big, you know, John Henry and others, hammer swingers, you know, and they swung, I think a 16 pound hammer.
Speaker AAnyway, they brought in a steam hammer that was going to do it.
Speaker AAnd you know, like any change, the miner said, no, no, no, no, it'll never replace us.
Speaker AEtc.
Speaker ASo there is a fabled competition.
Speaker AI don't know if it actually happened.
Speaker AIt's been memorialized in song between John Henry and the steam, the steam hammer.
Speaker AAnd you know, the story goes differently but ultimately, obviously the steam hammer won.
Speaker AI think the initial thing, John Henry won, but it killed him.
Speaker ABut ultimately over time, the steam hammer won.
Speaker AAI is going to win and it's going to get rid of everything about coaching except presence, power and your ability to perceive patterns in people's hearts.
Speaker ARead between the lines and you can lie to yourself about your coaching ability.
Speaker AThis is not about challenging you.
Speaker ABut if you don't tell the truth, you're done, you're out of business.
Speaker AAnd not only will your calling fail you, but your calling will fail you from an externality.
Speaker ANow, this is, I'm telling you this in the context of me.
Speaker ASo I had been asked for years, as I had developed as a coach, I've developed to be what people call, at least, you know, extraordinary, the ultimate alchemist.
Speaker AAnd, you know, I've done lots and lots and lots of work and okay, that's how I got there.
Speaker APeople have often asked me to create a coaching school and I said, never.
Speaker ANo, no, no, no, no.
Speaker ABecause I'd seen so many schools and I just didn't want to be another one.
Speaker AWhen I realized that coaching's going to put 95% of the coaches, or AI is going to put 95% of coaches out of business, I said, okay.
Speaker AIt was impressed on me through the spirit, through intuition.
Speaker AI need to create a university, your ultimate life coaching university.
Speaker AAnd the only students are the 5%, either those that are there or who want to be there in that 5%.
Speaker ASo it's going to be way, completely, totally, absolutely, fundamentally different than any coaching school because of what we're focusing on.
Speaker AWe're focusing on all and only those things that AI cannot do, cannot do.
Speaker AAnd every, you know, somebody told me, I saw an article that said every 3.3 months, AI doubles in ability.
Speaker AAnd I said something like that to a fellow who I had on my LA talk radio show the other day, who's an AI expert and builds AI agents for businesses.
Speaker AHe said, yeah, that's old news.
Speaker ANow it's doubling every 3.3 or 3, 3 to 5 days, which is just scary as anything.
Speaker AI use ChatGPT a lot.
Speaker AI call it Chatty.
Speaker AAnd it is powerful and good.
Speaker AAnd so I can tell you the truth, it's kind of right.
Speaker APowerful language.
Speaker AIt can do good stuff.
Speaker AIt's encouraging.
Speaker AAnd I did a huge analysis of the vulnerabilities of, you know, AI and other coaching systems and so forth.
Speaker AAnd I asked Chatty what it doesn't do, and I said, well, I can't bleed, meaning be so intensely in a place with a person that.
Speaker AThat fund, that fire, that presence, that spirit causes, invites, empowers the changes that a person wants.
Speaker ASo that is a way where my calling is evolving powerfully and it's coming very soon.
Speaker AAnd it came on me hard.
Speaker AI didn't expect it.
Speaker AI.
Speaker AIt's.
Speaker AIt's a. I'm recording this in June, you'll see it in July.
Speaker ABut there's just a boatload of work and I'm like gasping and I'm doing it.
Speaker AAll right, so let's back to this whole thing.
Speaker AThe day your mission went quiet.
Speaker AMaybe the thing you loved and were so committed to starts draining you.
Speaker AIt becomes a drudge, it becomes something that's hard now.
Speaker AMaybe you're losing the spark.
Speaker AAnd when that happens, man, that is terrified, terrifying.
Speaker AIf you're a purpose driven person, if you're a woman who has been driven by certain things that happened in your life, or a man that has overcome stuff and that was driving you, and all of a sudden that spark's gone out.
Speaker AYou can feel very lost.
Speaker ALies that come out of that is, I'm just tired.
Speaker AMaybe I was wrong, Maybe it wasn't my thing, or, oh, you know, I guess I'm done.
Speaker AI should be grateful for everything that I've done.
Speaker AOkay, that's true.
Speaker AYou should be grateful.
Speaker AAnd you can be.
Speaker AAnd it has nothing to do with being tired.
Speaker AIt has nothing to do with burnout, and it certainly doesn't have anything to do with that.
Speaker AYou were wrong.
Speaker AIt means you were right and you did it so well.
Speaker AIt's time to grow.
Speaker AWhy don't you think about it that way?
Speaker AYour spark has changed.
Speaker AAnd this is your invitation to find, to identify and move into the new one.
Speaker ASo when you followed that calling, you grew.
Speaker AYou grew a business, perhaps you grew a following, maybe you wrote some books, you did that, okay?
Speaker ABut you didn't evolve the calling.
Speaker AAnd maybe it wasn't time to.
Speaker ASo that isn't even a weakness, but the call.
Speaker AYou evolved and grew and put your power into it, and the calling didn't evolve.
Speaker AMaybe you use some different words, maybe it changed a little bit with the segments of society and with time and stuff, but not fundamentally.
Speaker AAnd it is really a sign that you've outgrown your old mission.
Speaker AAnd I want you to think what a blessing that is.
Speaker AWhen that happens to you.
Speaker AThat means you did it right.
Speaker AIt means you stretched and pushed and exercised and worked and focused.
Speaker AAnd now you're in a new weight class, you're in a new league, you're called to greater things.
Speaker AIt's time to step up and step out.
Speaker ASo growing and having that evolve in a way that feels like it's gone is just a wake up call.
Speaker ANot that anything was wrong, but that it's time to grow.
Speaker AYour time is now to get bigger, to grow the vision, to grow the opportunity.
Speaker AYou know what, the tools like AI and others are evolving so quickly that the idea to grow your reach, grow your power, grow your mission, evolve it, like in radical ways.
Speaker ALike, I never thought about doing a university, but I'm going to now because I understand it.
Speaker AAnd I've done now 50, 60 hours of research with the very tool and ask, you know, what is necessary here, what's AI going to replace?
Speaker AAnd talked about all the different coaching methods I ever heard of and some I hadn't, to do analysis and work to see what I really can give to this evolution of growth.
Speaker ASo if you're burned out, it's not burnout.
Speaker AIf you're feeling like your spark's gone, you're not wrong, you're just finished with that chapter.
Speaker ANot wrong, finished with that chapter.
Speaker ASo when that happens, you can also experience grief.
Speaker AIt may feel like you've lost something that was once your destiny.
Speaker ASo you can say, wow, maybe I was wrong.
Speaker AMaybe that wasn't even my destiny.
Speaker AAm I how stupid.
Speaker ANo, no, no.
Speaker AThe grief is just grief, sadness, loss, right?
Speaker ADenial, anger, bargaining, resignation, acceptance.
Speaker AMaybe you'll go through all those stages lightly, heavily.
Speaker ABut you have not been abandoned by the divine.
Speaker AYou have been metamorphosized.
Speaker AYou have been invited to grow.
Speaker AYou have been invited to step into a new place.
Speaker AConsider that that means you won.
Speaker AThat means you did it right.
Speaker AThat means you're heroic.
Speaker AThat means awesomeness.
Speaker AAnd so even if you feel grief at having, you know, having a change, that's fine.
Speaker AFeel into that.
Speaker AAnger might be there.
Speaker ADenial, bargaining, denial of denial.
Speaker AI forgot the anger.
Speaker ADenial, bargaining, resignation, acceptance.
Speaker AThose are the five steps.
Speaker AI might have them a little bit the wrong order, but they iterate anyway.
Speaker AYou're going to feel maybe some or all of those things, but it doesn't mean anything's wrong.
Speaker AIt means it's time to grow.
Speaker ASo go back in the fire.
Speaker AGo back to your more deeply.
Speaker ABecause if you're doing this work of service well, you're already in practices of meditation and prayer and focus and guidance and intuition and inspiration.
Speaker AYou're already doing that.
Speaker ASo deeper, more focused.
Speaker AGet the guidance you need to grow the work.
Speaker AGet the guidance you need to step into the new place and plane of your opportunity.
Speaker ANow you don't have to, but this is just in an invitation.
Speaker ABecause I was thinking about, you know, sometimes the things that derail us on this ultimate life thing.
Speaker ALike you have it, or you think you have it, or things are going well and then it.
Speaker AIt feels like, ah, it's not wrong.
Speaker AYou didn't fail.
Speaker AYou've outgrown It.
Speaker ASo now what?
Speaker ASo here.
Speaker AHere's something to think about.
Speaker AAnd I said this wasn't burnout, so we'll call it sort of a shadow burnout.
Speaker AIt feels a little like burnout, but it's not that.
Speaker AIt's not exhaustion.
Speaker AIt sure as hell isn't laziness because that isn't how you got here.
Speaker AI want you to think about a great big furnace.
Speaker AI want you to think about a little furnace.
Speaker AIn the basement of my parents grandparents house used to have a cold furnace.
Speaker AThere was a fire in there.
Speaker ASo the fire of a certain size, right?
Speaker AAnd in the, in the furnace that there was there, it looked like a big fire.
Speaker ABut if I took that same fire and I put it in a great big furnace that was 50 times bigger, it would look like a little spark in the corner.
Speaker ASo your furnace has grown, your opportunity's grown.
Speaker AWe need more heat.
Speaker AWe need more passion.
Speaker AWe need a new you.
Speaker AAnd that's not scary.
Speaker AThere's nothing wrong with the one you are.
Speaker AIt means that everything's right.
Speaker AAnd it is time to shed the cocoon again.
Speaker AIt is time to step into the fire again.
Speaker ASo it's not exhaustion, it's not laziness.
Speaker AIt is a soul.
Speaker AYou are a soul that needs a bigger fire.
Speaker AAnd I speak this with passion because I am doing that now.
Speaker AAnd this isn't the first time this has happened.
Speaker AYou know, my radical transformation happened in 2007.
Speaker AIt's 25 now, 18 years.
Speaker AIt's happened four, maybe five times.
Speaker AI think this might be the fifth time in these 25 years.
Speaker ASome have been, you know, kind of of big misalignments, and some have been radical alignment changes.
Speaker ASo rejoice.
Speaker AIt is an acknowledgment of your potential.
Speaker AIt is direction for an opportunity to grow.
Speaker ANow, we can always say, no, screw it, I've had enough.
Speaker AI just want to binge, Netflix and sleep the rest of my life.
Speaker AI. I'm not gonna tell you what to do.
Speaker AWhat I can tell you is embracing that for me and leaning in, saying, I don't know how to do this.
Speaker AThis is going to be pretty darn big and I'm going to need some help.
Speaker AIt's, you know, scary, all of that, but I'm going.
Speaker AI don't know this, I don't know that, but I'm going.
Speaker AThat's the magic for me.
Speaker AIt has energized.
Speaker AAnd I'll tell you something.
Speaker AEven in the few weeks that it's been since I said that, several amazing opportunities have Popped up things that wouldn't have popped up.
Speaker AThat will both facilitate, advertise, populate, help with whatever this endeavor, this new set of wings.
Speaker APowerful, powerful.
Speaker ASo when you feel worn down, it's just a new calling.
Speaker AIt's a new opportunity.
Speaker ASo here's the first thing you can do.
Speaker ADon't mistake expansion for failure.
Speaker AYou need a bigger fire.
Speaker AThe fact that expansion is at hand does not mean anything you've done before is failure.
Speaker AIt was preparation.
Speaker AIt was refinement.
Speaker ASo we're using the refiner's fire analogy.
Speaker AGoing into fire burns off impurities and dross.
Speaker AIt allows the smithy, in this case, the divine, to pound me or you into a fine, sharpened edge.
Speaker ABut the first time that happens, that edge isn't anywhere near as sharp as it could be back in the fire.
Speaker APound it again.
Speaker AA more refined and powerful edge capable of doing so much more.
Speaker ASo don't shy away from the fire.
Speaker AYou might feel, you know, it might be an energetic misalignment because now you're being called to a new thing.
Speaker AAnd so it feels tired.
Speaker AYour body can get tired.
Speaker AYou're going to have fatigue and tiredness.
Speaker AWe all do.
Speaker ABut there's a huge difference between that soul misalignment or that worry about, oh, no, have I been, you know, barking up the wrong tree?
Speaker ANo, you haven't.
Speaker AYou have won and you're successful.
Speaker AOwn it and gasp in on amazement that you have been given the opportunity for more.
Speaker ATake it.
Speaker ATake it with a vengeance.
Speaker AI don't care if you know how to do it or not.
Speaker AI don't know this.
Speaker AI don't know that.
Speaker AIt's scary.
Speaker AIt's too big.
Speaker AThis.
Speaker ANow, I don't care, but I'm going.
Speaker AThat's your invitation to do that.
Speaker AHere are the things that I do.
Speaker AListening in silence.
Speaker AOne of the things that happens is when that noise, when that feeling comes, it gets freaking frantic.
Speaker AOh, no, what am I gonna do, you know, then?
Speaker AAnd that gets noisy in the spirit.
Speaker AAnd whispering intuition is not noisy.
Speaker AThe new call always whispers intuition is always quiet.
Speaker AIn the Old Testament, there's a prophet dude named Elijah, and he was looking for the Lord.
Speaker AA whirlwind came by, and a great storm and then a great fire passed by the cave.
Speaker AHe was in a cave, and they all passed by.
Speaker AAnd he said, the Lord wasn't in the whirlwind, it wasn't in the fire.
Speaker AHe wasn't in the rage and the storm.
Speaker AAnd then there came a still, small voice.
Speaker AI've mutilated the story.
Speaker ABut point is, the power is in the still small voice.
Speaker ASo look for it there.
Speaker AAnd don't let the confusion of change or the grief of sadness of loss get in the way of hearing the voice of inspiration you've been called.
Speaker ASo rejoice.
Speaker AThat might mean you need to let go of a brand.
Speaker AThat means you might need to let go of an audience, even products.
Speaker AAnd you need to do that without losing your soul.
Speaker AIt doesn't mean what you had was wrong.
Speaker AIt doesn't mean it wasn't valuable.
Speaker AAnd it doesn't mean it wasn't exactly right for where you were and what you were doing.
Speaker AAnd let it go with gratitude and openness and joy.
Speaker AAnd seek in silence the new power.
Speaker AAnd you'll let it go without losing your soul.
Speaker ABecause your soul is connected to your purpose and your purpose is now expanding and growing.
Speaker AYour ability to influence, your ability to experience the ultimate life purpose, prosperity and joy is now leveling up.
Speaker AMore, more, more.
Speaker AMore skill, more ability to influence.
Speaker AMore love, more passion, more reach.
Speaker AI love it.
Speaker AYou know, my goal is to reach 300 million people with what this message.
Speaker AA message of purpose, prosperity and joy.
Speaker AAnd what we're talking about today is the evolution after you've done that once or twice or three times, and the willingness to evolve again, even though it seems painful and it might feel a little lost.
Speaker AThe other thing that we'll have to worry about is how to evolve in public without losing credibility.
Speaker AMy path is just to tell the truth.
Speaker AI'm evolving.
Speaker AI'm adding something new, completely different stuff I swore I'd never do.
Speaker AI've been called to do this.
Speaker AI'm doing this new thing.
Speaker ASo I'm doing less of these and less of that.
Speaker ABut don't hide it and don't pretend and don't abandon your commitments.
Speaker AIf you made a commitment to do certain things for customers, clients, products, services you've had before, do them fully and completely with all in ness, no half ass, no mediocrity.
Speaker ABecause that very characteristic is the thing that called you to.
Speaker AThe new thing is your.
Speaker AYour perseverance, your insight, your wisdom, your capability is now needed on a larger scale to do more things.
Speaker AAnd you won't keep it if you don't do integrity, if you don't complete with integrity everything that has come before.
Speaker ASo that evolution is going to need to take place.
Speaker AAnd I invite you to to explore it, seek it in silence, embrace it, and then lean in joyously.
Speaker ADare greatly experience deeply lean in joyously.
Speaker ALife is a ride you Only live once.
Speaker AYolo, right?
Speaker AOften that's meant as a saying to know, do crazy stuff.
Speaker AWell, you do only live once.
Speaker AAnd so make the most of it.
Speaker AMake the most of you.
Speaker ABecause remember, we came here with nothing to this world, and we're going out with nothing.
Speaker AThe only thing I'm going to take home is what I've made of myself.
Speaker AAnd I don't want.
Speaker AI personally don't want to be the guy that said no to the divine invitation.
Speaker AAnd again, I'm not telling you what to do.
Speaker AI'm framing these feelings and these events so you can have at least one possibility for you as to what they are.
Speaker AYou're not lost, you weren't wrong.
Speaker AYou're molting, you're transforming, you're moving to the next stage.
Speaker A3D, 45D, 27D.
Speaker AYou're doing that.
Speaker ASo lean in and embrace it.
Speaker AFulfill your old obligations with integrity and power, and then lean into what you are called to do.
Speaker ANo fear, with certainty and with power.
Speaker ALike I've declared to several people, I'm open in that university and I still don't have a flip how to do any of it.
Speaker AI mean, yeah, I've taught lots of seminars and classes, so I can't say I don't have any idea, but there's lots of pieces that feel, at least now, new to me.
Speaker AEvery calling that you have or that I have has multiple versions, multiple lives.
Speaker AAnd everyone's going to be bigger than the last.
Speaker AEveryone's going to be more profound.
Speaker AEveryone is going to take advantage of every new and refined skill, talent, gift, insight, wisdom that you've gained.
Speaker ASo expect that.
Speaker ALean into them.
Speaker AThey're there for your growth, they're there for your opportunity.
Speaker AAnd it's time to say yes.
Speaker ASo here's my invitation to you.
Speaker AIf you'd like to chat about this, go right here to this kellenflueckegermedia.com and there's a contact form.
Speaker AContact me.
Speaker ALet's talk if you want help.
Speaker AMy commitment is to help 300 million people.
Speaker AThis university is just a new way that I'm going to do that.
Speaker AAnd it's for a very particular group of people, people who choose to be coaches who see AI coming and who want to stay in the game and not go do something else.
Speaker ABecause anything, even quasi excellence and below, is gone.
Speaker ARadical excellence, total commitment is all that's going to be left.
Speaker AAnd AI is going to eat your lunch if you're any of the rest, or my lunch if I'm any of the Rest.
Speaker ASo I invite you to come talk to me.
Speaker AIf you want to, I can help you in some way.
Speaker AI invite you to read the book Living with Purpose and Power.
Speaker AIt's the book in which I poured all my years of work on how to create yourself into that book.
Speaker AHow to create yourself as a powerful, creative, divine being every single day.
Speaker AAnd that's going to be more essential than ever for coaches that stay or want to stay in that 5%.
Speaker AYou know, I've been talking about coaches, but it really isn't just the coaching profession.
Speaker AAI is going to get rid of everything below 50% excellence.
Speaker AYou know, everything can be automated, will be everything that serves it, you know, pretty good.
Speaker AAnd below is, is going to be duplicated.
Speaker AJobs are going to change, they're going to be gone.
Speaker AAnd that's nothing to worry about.
Speaker AIt allows you and me as infinitely capable divine beings, to evolve into more meaningful, more creative, more powerful, more beautiful work.
Speaker ASo let's do that.
Speaker AWhatever you're doing, every calling has multiple iterations and that they will stretch as you do.
Speaker AWhat if this feeling, this change, isn't even failure at all, but it's just an invitation?
Speaker AAnd that's what I believe that it is, certainly is for me.
Speaker AAnd based on my experience watching and helping others evolve and grow.
Speaker ANext level, next level.
Speaker ANext level.
Speaker AThat's what it is for you.
Speaker AAnd all of this talk doesn't mean you're required to stay busy and grind all the time.
Speaker AThat's not what evolution to the next level means.
Speaker AIt means next level peace.
Speaker ANext level prosperity.
Speaker ANext level creativity.
Speaker ANext level fun.
Speaker ANext level joy.
Speaker ANext level impact.
Speaker ADon't you want that?
Speaker AOf course you do.
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Speaker AMy last invitation is if you have a message you want to share.
Speaker AI'd love to be your megaphone again.
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