Waking Up at 2:30 AM: The Shocking Secret to Unlocking Your Ultimate Life!

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Welcome to this episode of your ultimate life.

Really glad you're with us today.

Today I'm going to talk about how to, how to have a vision for your ultimate life and then take it to reality.

Because we all want stuff.

Like you want stuff, I want stuff.

And we think, I'd like to have this, I'd like to have that.

And sometimes we know exactly how to do it.

Okay, we want to buy a carton of milk so we know where to go, we know where the store is and we buy it.

No big deal.

Want to get a car a little bit more complicated?

You look around.

We just got a car a few months ago and we had been talking about it for two years and we kind of settled on a model that we wanted and we looked around at this and that and we didn't really want to keep the one we had.

So we were looking to, you know, do we sell it, we trade it, you know, all of those kinds of things because it was a little more complicated.

And in the end we found a really good deal on a, a little bit upgraded model to the one we wanted.

It was one year old, it was fabulous price.

We got it, so.

But the process of creating dreams or your vision into reality is well known for some things.

This podcast is about creating your ultimate life, a life that you love every day.

And I think about that.

I woke up really early this morning.

And by early I mean like 2:30.

Usually I get up at 5, but this morning I woke up at 2:30.

And it used to be in my life that when I woke up early like that, an hour, two, three hours early, it was usually because something was wrong.

I was frustrated, there was some emotional baggage floating around.

You know, something was bothering me.

And I noticed in the last years it's not that way.

I woke up this morning at 2:30 and it was very peaceful.

And I sort of checked in my mind to see if anything was poking out and it wasn't.

It was quiet, it was peaceful.

And then I felt into the spirit because one of the first things I do, the first thing I do every, every day is create myself.

And I know that sounds a little weird, but creating yourself is a, is an option.

And I offer you, I offer that to you to consider.

Now you've read or heard of the 5am Miracle.

And phrases like, you know, the first hour of the day sways the day.

I've got a, a mentor, a fellow that says that.

And the morning miracle.

You know, there's all kinds of things written about the magic of early mornings.

Quiet, peaceful, creativity's high.

And then there's some people that say, my clock doesn't work like that.

I understand that.

What I want to talk about for a second is whatever time you choose to get up, whatever your schedule is, the first thing that we could do is to create ourselves.

Now, I don't mean bodily because we already are there, but how often do we wake up and we grab the phone and we, you know, we just start doing things, read the paper, turn on the news, whatever it is, instead of.

And we allow those things to create our mood, create our attitude.

You know, and maybe we look at the calendar and look at, oh, I got these calls in these meetings, or I got to go here or there's.

And we allow those externalities to create our mood, our energy and our attitude.

And I've learned now, many years ago, and more powerfully as each year goes by, the value and possibility of creating yourself like you want to.

So I did that this morning, and about 3:00 I realized I'm gonna get up.

There's something in my heart, my mind that says, get up, let's go do some stuff.

So I did, and I'm really glad.

And yeah, I might need to take a nap for an hour later in the day, but that's okay.

Today I want to talk about those of you who are intent on creating a big impact on the world.

Creating money, in other words, becoming well paid, creating even significant wealth, generational wealth.

I talk about purpose, prosperity and joy.

Purpose is something that you and I have the opportunity to choose.

And there's a process to do that.

Everybody's different.

Like the way we come to the thing we choose to have our have, be our fire, our life mission.

Even if it changes over time.

But you know, your life mission is different.

I have a process I help clients with, you know, just mine, your skills and your life, your divine gifts and your life experience to.

To find or choose a purpose that drives you.

And prosperity is the second word.

Purpose, prosperity and joy.

Prosperity means prosperity of body, spirit, relationships, love, and the cash in the bank account.

Because money allows for a nice lifestyle.

Yes.

But more importantly, at least to me, it allows me to have a larger reach to do more, to add good to the world.

And my mission is to Add good to the world.

Like, you know, this year I'm after reaching 300 million people, 300 million.

I want to reach with a message about your divinity, meaning you're a child of God, your capability, because you've got that divine DNA in you, your capability is amazing.

And the possibility with that capability is to create whatever you want, purpose, prosperity and joy.

In my case, and I invite you to use your own words to do that now in the process to doing that, creating purpose, prosperity and joy, or choosing a purpose and then using it to run your life and make boatloads of cash and have insane fun.

Here's what I will tell you.

You have an M E O most effective offering.

I've done other episodes on how to find that.

And so I'll just tell you right now.

It's a mixture of the skills you've learned, the gifts you brought with you, the divine gifts and your life experience.

And if you go through a process to mine those together, you can find something that is just lights you up.

Like Matt, you're driven, called pulled to do.

Now, I know that it has for me and has for many clients.

Right now I've got a group of nine people going through a program that I have to write books and create programs exactly from those three things.

Now, if that kind of thing excites you, see this URL dream build, write it.com dream build, write it.com if you have a mission and purpose in your life and you want to write about it, you want to create a program that you can use to serve others and get paid and you or you want to write a book.

And I found that writing a book is the most effective and powerful way to organize, to mine and organize your life experience so that you're really good at what you do.

So many, many coaches and consultants feel drawn to write a book.

Many don't because they don't know how or, you know, just think about it and think that's good enough.

It's not.

There's a rigorous process to mine your life for these events.

And you can find your meo most effective offering now in the place, in the process of doing that, there's a place that we all get to one or more times that feels really difficult.

And I'll tell you what it is.

And I want to talk about how to, how to deal with it, how to live with it, how to get past it, and how to get to that ultimate life so you know how even though you're successful and people say you're awesome, sometimes you still feel like you really don't matter.

Or you notice that overwhelm or fear is often running the show with procrastination and self sabotage right behind.

So even though you've got this stuff in your mind you want to do that.

Those other things are getting in the way.

Maybe you sometimes feel empty or like screaming at the sky, what's wrong with me?

Because you have this beautiful vision and you're not, you're not doing it.

Or deep inside, maybe you start believing that you're never really going to make the impact of money that you want to, or that you could.

Or maybe you start to believe or blame.

Sorry.

Maybe you start to blame everyone and everything else.

Circumstances, mates, friends, job, economy.

And maybe you're questioning your value and even wanting to quit.

Go back, get a job, forget it.

All this visionary stuff.

You ever felt like that.

Or maybe you notice that in doing it there rarely is any real joy.

Like you know, you feel the joy that you thought you would.

So what do you, what do we do?

Well, we buy books or we buy.

We read more books and we go to buy programs and go to workshops and we make more promises to ourselves and our business and you bust your butt and it doesn't ever seem to be really enough.

Well, I'll tell you why that is and then we'll talk about what to do about it.

You, you and I, we've been taught practically from the cradle that were really not enough.

Maybe there were bad childhood experiences, grades, friends, betrayals, trauma.

Maybe there was some abuse of some kind.

Failures that haunt you, hidden struggles that nobody knows about.

Or experiences at work, jobs and more drive home this pain.

Maybe you've come to the place where your inner critic is the loudest voice in your head.

Or you drink the poison that says you're only as good as the judgment of others.

And you hear the advice grind harder and take massive action.

And it just feels so hollow.

Well, then you end up convinced you're never going to cut it.

And an invisible barrier stops every climb.

You end up secretly afraid that empty dreams, resentment, oblivion and maybe a bit of guilt are all that you really get.

Now I.

I know I'm not looking at you, but raise your hand if you felt like that.

I know I have.

I know lots of people in more degree and less degree have felt that.

And that feeling, that set of feelings had, had, stop, have stopped you.

And you know what?

We both know where this goes.

This, that kind of soul sucking treadmill eventually wipes you out, right?

It leads to empty Mediocrity at best, where you settle for the easy and obvious.

And at worst it goes frustration, depression, ruined relationships, maybe addictions, personal and business meltdowns, or worse if we nothing changes.

Maybe you see others who win and somewhere inside you know it could be different.

But for you, there seems to be no way out.

Now that's pretty bleak.

And I'll bet with all my heart that you have felt like, or feel like some of that right now.

So what do we do?

Like, what is the exit strategy?

Well, what if you knew exactly what to do?

What if you knew exactly what to do to totally change the game?

What if you were able to eliminate fear and obliterate doubt?

Boom, done.

And every shout of your inner chorus like cheers you on.

You keep every goal and commitment without fail.

What if you were able to do that?

What if you discovered amazing tools and power that you already have, that you're not using?

Imagine for a moment the growth in your wealth, health, relationships, happiness and self image as you master these things and create everything you dream.

Well, I have spent the last 18 years studying and working on those very things.

First for myself and then for others.

And after, as I do that, I've become the ultimate alchemist to help you with both the science and the magic, to access those personal tools and power and to demonstrate for you precisely how to use them to create anything you want.

Help you completely change the story in your head and the game on the ground as you move forward.

So you can create your ultimate life that I keep talking about and have purpose, prosperity and joy, at a level that maybe today you can't even conceive.

So I want you to think about what that is.

What would it be like to, to have that in your world?

Now I know, like, I'm not talking to individually, but I talk to many, many brand new people every week.

And I set up my calendar, my life, my schedule to do that.

And there's a simple reason I'm going to reach 300 million people.

So I need to talk to a lot of folks.

Often I'll invite them as guests.

Many of the guests that you've seen on this show and on my LA talk radio show come from those interviews.

I met a lady yesterday who I just admire.

Wow.

She's doing so much about placing kids in the adoption and foster kids and so forth.

And she knew all the statistics, how many there are and you know, how many families there are looking for kids to adopt.

And I was just blown away.

There's actually more families looking for kids to adopt than there are kids needing adoption.

Isn't that interesting?

And that was with a certain program.

And so I don't know the statistics overall.

But the point is that was her passion and she had all kinds of reasons why that was her magic.

And I was blown away by her vision, commission, commitment, dedication, and of course I invited her to be a guest.

And she'll be a guest in, you know, some one of the next few weeks here on, on the show to tell you about her purpose, prosperity and joy.

And she's just one of many examples.

And so I want to right now issue you an invitation.

If you have a story you want to tell, a story of resilience, of overcoming, of growth, of finding your passion, of how you're executing what you're doing to add good to the world, I'd love to talk to you.

So please go to kellenflukermedia.com go there and, and there's a contact form there.

So fill it out and let's have a conversation.

It's not a sales call, it's just a conversation because I love knowing people.

If you found your purpose and you're living it hard and.

Yeah, excuse me, have a message you want to share.

I want to be your megaphone.

I want to help you.

I have a large audience on this show and on LA talk radio, a large audience.

We're in the top few percent worldwide of shows and no surprise, we're coming up on a thousand episodes.

Louisiana talk radio has a huge audience, so there's an opportunity there to be amplified.

And I'd love to help you do that.

More than anything, I love to help people who have got this mission that they're living in their hearts.

And I want to help you spread it.

Boom.

Let's create purpose, prosperity and joy for you.

So here's what I want you to know.

First of all, I read that list of things that you might feel at some time.

I certainly used to.

I want you to know you're not alone.

Every person breathing air, every single person I've talked to at some point has felt overwhelmed by that list of stuff.

So wherever you are in your journey, whether you're way overwhelmed or not anymore, and you're past it and you're stoked and focused, it doesn't matter.

You'll know exactly what I'm talking about, about that feeling of not good enough, not knowing what to do, never going to make it, and that sort of thing.

So I want you to know, first of all, you're not alone.

Everybody feels that I want you to know another thing, which is you can make it now.

I don't know what you're going to need because then you're not here talking to me.

And I'd love to be talking to you.

But what I needed to get my stuff accomplished is I needed to get a lot of help for personal barriers.

I had, you know, struggled with depression for decades.

So I needed that, some professional help there.

And I needed some professional help with coaches, mentors that had already walked, walk this path, that were further along the purpose, prosperity and joy road than I was, who were able to guide me and say, do this, try this.

Help me with my mindset, remembering and understanding, my divinity, capability and possibility.

And that has moved me, you know, massively forward over the years.

And now I'm in a position of being able to reach back and help you and others create your purpose, prosperity and joy.

One of the things I love doing is I mentioned earlier, helping people write books and create programs that you sell from your book.

That's a fun thing to do.

It's easier than you think.

And then you have a permanent program you can sell to begin making the impact you want and to get paid.

So if you're a coach, consultant, or person with a mission or message and you have not written that book yet, that tells how you got where you are, it gives your most powerful help to the world.

Go to Dream, Build, write it.

That's coming up in June, and let's get you on the way to do that.

The second thing I want to talk about in terms of fixing is you need to claim your power.

We live in a sort of abdication mode where we give up our power to everyone and everything else.

And what I mean by that is we, we act and believe as if the weather, our mate, family, kids, job, circumstances, the economy, God, someone else controls your attitude.

It's an easy default thing to slide into.

All this crap happened to me, therefore today sucks, my life sucks, you know, that kind of thing.

Why is that that way?

And so it's not weird that we think that, but it's very disempowering because it acts like, well, I can do nothing about it.

And if all this crap would fix, then I'd be okay.

Well, all the crap is never going to fix.

It just changes color.

You know, this happens and then that happens.

I've got clients that do that over and over again.

This crisis comes and they furiously work and manage that crisis, and then another one, and then another one, and then another one.

And they seem to Be perpetually in crisis mode when the truth for all of us, and I want you to hear this carefully, is to manage our own attitude.

There's no such thing as a crappy day.

There's no such thing as a crazy week.

It's only our thoughts.

It's only crazy or ugly if I said so, if I think so, if I believe it, even urgent things.

I've told the story before, you know, I woke up paralyzed on December 5, 2018, paralyzed from the waist down.

And on the way to the hospital in the back of the ambulance, My first question was, what is the gift here?

Well, I didn't automatically learn to do that.

I learned to think that way because it was so empowering.

And as I thought about it, in pain on the way to the hospital, I found several gifts that mattered over the next couple of weeks.

And I had some emergency surgery and, you know, fixed the problem and was able to walk and, you know, got it, got it underway.

But I also found several gifts for internally patience, different perspective, realization that life would go on no matter what, and that I could still do my work of reaching.

It was not 300 million in that year, but reaching the people that I wanted to.

To love them, love you, lift you, and bless you.

And so I just thought, okay, not what I wanted, but I can do this.

So with all the love in my heart, I invite you to consider the possibility that you create your life.

You don't control the ingredients in the cake, right?

Circumstances, other people, illness, governments, revolutions, wars, wherever you are and whatever you're doing, all those things play a role, but they do not have the final say.

You do, I do.

What would it be like if I refuse to allow those externalities to control me?

What would it be like if I just said, no, I see it, it happened, and I won't be defeated by that.

No, you can't make me mad, sad, or broken, you know, right to the core.

Understanding that.

Understanding that because you're a divine being, because you were created with love and intention by the divine, you have the ability to overcome, to get past, to go through, to master any situation.

And that magic didn't come from nowhere.

It came from your divine creation.

So here's the truth about how to create.

First of all, we need to recognize that we have the ability to create.

If I don't, if I don't acknowledge or understand my ability to create, then I won't use it right now.

I've been blessed.

One of the gifts that I have.

I talked about gifts.

You have a Bunch.

One of them that I know I have is music.

I was blessed with an ear, a perfect pitch, and can I.

You know, people play note on the piano and I know what it is, and chords and progressions and, you know, I was blessed with that particular thing.

I know you have several gifts.

Do you know what they are?

Are you intentionally using them or are they just, you know, seasoning in your day?

If you.

If you intentionally figure out what your gifts are and you combine them with the skills you have.

And skills are usually things we've learned to do and maybe we've sold them in the marketplace.

You go to school, you get a law degree, pass the bar, you're a lawyer.

That's a skill, a gift you might have to amplify.

That is, if you're blessed as a good listener or you're really good at abstract reasoning.

If you marry the gifts and skills, you obviously have something more powerful.

If you add a third element, which is your life experience, then you have skills, gift, and life experience, and that creates that triple helix, your most effective offering.

I'll give you an example, and I'm glad I used lawyer, because this person's a lawyer.

So I know a woman who's a client, not an active one now, but a few years ago, and this particular woman decided to go to law school late in life, later in life, I think she was in her early 50s, and she just decided she was going to go to law school.

And I'll tell you why in a minute.

So she did.

She passed the bar and she entered a very particular kind of law, family law.

And.

And she represented men because her son had gone through some difficulties with the legal system in terms of custody or whatever.

So she devoted her skill, which is lawyer.

Her passion life experience was the experience of her son.

And then her.

Her gift was to study and be empathetic and learn.

So she combined all that and became a powerful force for that particular thing.

So that's an example of combining a skill, gift and life experience into a very effective life offering.

That's one of the favorite things I do, is to work with people to help you find that meo most effective offering.

So if you don't know what it is, again, kellenfluecigermedia.com, go there, get the contact form.

Let's talk.

Let me help you find that.

Because when you find that, it energizes you, right?

It makes you excited.

It's like that thing you can't wait.

Wait to get up and do.

So I got up at 3 this morning, after I laid there for half an hour, I was really excited about making this episode about some other things that I'm going to do right now that were on my mind, that were heavy on my heart.

Not heavy bad, but exciting to go do.

So.

And that's.

It's so available.

It's.

It's.

We.

We don't do it, and it's so available.

And instead we.

We settle for mediocrity.

We settle for what's easy and obvious.

Well, I have this job.

I hate it, but it pays the bills, and that's okay.

And maybe I'll have time to either relax or, you know, pursue my hobbies or passion projects on the weekend.

You can do that, and many, many, many, many, many people do.

And it's sure a miserable way to live.

You can have your passion be your center, your life, your focus, and you can get paid and have fun.

Why wouldn't we do that every time, every day?

So, like I said, it's a.

An invitation.

So I want to talk about the prosperity part.

The prosperity.

I have worked with many people who are coaches.

They've decided to be coaches.

Now, most of my clients aren't, but I have worked with many over the years, and people mostly become coaches of some kind because they've gone through some life experience and they realize their own journey through that, you know, trauma or challenge or whatever.

They've successfully navigated it.

They learn some things and they're like, wow, I can sure help people that have whatever, you know, whatever the struggle is, whatever the.

The situation is.

And so then they yearn to do that.

And we, every one of us, yearns to love and serve each other.

That's how we're built.

It's part of that divine nature I talked about.

But anyway, they want to do that, and then they end up thinking or, you know, becoming a coach, quote.

But they don't make a living at it.

They don't make much money.

The average income for a coach is less than 50,000 a year.

I think it's around 30 or something, which certainly not enough to live on anywhere.

So where does this prosperity come in?

Prosperity comes from maximizing the skills, gifts, and talents that you have.

And what I mean by that is, yet there are more skills that you need to make a successful business than just this passion.

Knowing that you can help people because of your experience.

That's a starting point, a skill.

Remember, I said it was skills, gifts, and life experience.

Your life experience has pulled you in and driven you to be of Service in the way of mentoring or coaching or consulting in a particular area.

But a skill you have to learn is you have to learn how to market in some way.

Maybe you use social, maybe you use more traditional ways, doesn't matter.

But you have to get in front of people.

If you live by a referral only business, you're dead.

That doesn't mean you can't live make a decent living.

You're never going to grow and you're never going to get the freedom you thought you were going to have.

So you have to learn the principles of business.

You have to learn the skill of marketing.

And so those are two skills to learn.

And maybe you didn't have them before, maybe you weren't ever in a position.

I wasn't.

When I started to decide, when I decided to be a coach, I didn't know anything about marketing.

I had never done anything related to that in my whole career, so I hadn't had to do it.

I had never had a sales position of any kind, so I didn't know any of it.

And I was really bad at it.

And so you have the passion and that has come from your life experience.

Maybe it's also come from your gifts.

Maybe you're a lover of people naturally and you love helping people.

That's certainly not a gift I had.

I've learned that.

But a really important thing I had to learn was I had to learn how to market.

I had to learn how to network, which I was terrible at.

I had to learn how to, you know, the skill of communication and not speaking.

I had a.

I have a gift of speaking, but that's not the same as creating connections so you can build a business.

So there were a lot of skills I had to learn.

Even though I was already very empathetic, I could listen well and, you know, be a powerful coach in terms of helping people.

Because of my life experience, I had to learn a set of skills in order to make purpose, prosperity and joy come true.

Now purpose, prosperity and joy is true.

It has come true.

And I love the life that I live every day.

It's funny, people ask me often, you know, I said, I meet all these new people.

They asked me often, oh man, like, don't you get tired or, you know, what are you going to do for vacation or something?

Reaching my 300 million is my vacation.

It's my passion, it's my love, and I do it.

Yeah, Joy and I go places and have fun and do stuff.

Sure, we do.

But she's my passion too.

She's an angel.

I live with an angel.

I just am blessed that way.

A holy angel.

She just is stardust as she walks.

And if you know her, then you know what I mean.

And that's true.

But the, the key here, the key is understanding your life experience and choosing your passion.

It is then figuring out what skills you need to learn, and learn them so you can marry them with your passion to create prosperity.

Prosperity means not just creating the cash you need, which is not difficult.

We think that making money is hard, and it's not.

Money follows value.

You're infinitely valuable.

All you got to do is figure out how to channel and present that value.

And you can make boatloads of cash.

You now can make boatloads of cash.

And if you'd like to talk about how.

Kellenflukermedia.com let's talk.

One of the things I love doing is, especially you people that have that yearning to serve is help them get it organized, which is happening in writing a book.

And I've learned all these on my own journey doing this.

And, you know, I've written 20 now.

But the process has been so rewarding because I've learned so much that I can now pass on and share.

Now, the last piece of this equation is joy.

Now, the fun part is purpose you can get by mining your life experience and your gifts and skills.

Like I said, prosperity is learning the right skills and marrying them so you can create whatever kind of business you're looking to create.

And that takes some time, takes some learning and some evolution.

The good news about joy, not my wife joy, but about having purpose, prosperity and joy is you don't, you don't need to wait for that.

You can have joy today, right now, right here.

Joy is a choice.

It is a decision that whatever you're doing and wherever you are on this journey of learning, finding your purpose and creating your prosperity, wherever you are on that journey, you're going to be happy.

And that means getting rid of the disease of.

I'll be happy when, when I have a million dollars in the bank.

The first time I have a $25,000 month in sales or a million dollar month, you know, I don't know where you are in your business, but the first time I have that, oh, then I'm happy.

I will make you a promise.

Whatever jolt of joy you get from some big sale or some big month or some big year only lasts that long.

And the reason is because that by itself isn't the creator of happiness.

Joy is a thing that comes from inside.

When you know you're living your purpose, you know you're adding good to the world.

You know you're doing what you came to do, what you love to do, and what you were built to do.

When you know that and you're living it, you.

You're.

You have joy.

Joy does not depend on external circumstances, doesn't depend on what anyone else does or says.

So joy you can have right now, from today, all the way forever.

Purpose you can find quickly.

And if you can't do that, talk to me.

Let's create that.

And prosperity just depends on taking that purpose and figuring out what you need to know, what you're missing in terms of skills in marketing or sales or ability to get that in front designing programs.

Those kinds of things are all well known.

Tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands of people have done it before you.

And it's well known.

If you need help with any of that, let's talk.

Because that's all I do.

300 million people I'm reaching this year with this message of divinity.

That's who you are.

Capability, which means what you're the capabilities you have.

And possibility is the infinite vision you can create on your journey to purpose, prosperity and joy.

And if you're stuck anywhere, don't stay stuck.

Don't blame things.

Love yourself enough to take the action you need today to create right now.

The beginning or the continuation on your move to create your ultimate life right here, right now.

Your opportunity for your massive growth is right in front of you.

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