You Were Never Broken - You Were Refining (The Framework That Saved My Life)

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00:00 - Untitled
00:06 - Embracing Identity and Possibility
06:34 - The Call to Action
07:55 - Introducing the Whipos Framework
17:45 - Ownership and Sovereignty in Your Life
23:39 - Embracing Your Power: The Art of Writing Your Own Story
30:20 - Choosing Your Daily Expression
36:22 - Embracing Your Divine Identity
No more destruction, no more defeat.
Speaker ABecause every time one of those things happen, you have the choice to rise.
Speaker AYou are someone.
Speaker AYour identity is something no one can steal.
Speaker AYou have possibilities so infinite it makes small minds tremble.
Speaker AWelcome to the show.
Speaker ATired of the hype about living a dream.
Speaker AIt's time for truth.
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Speaker ASo you can create the life you dream and deserve your ultimate life.
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Speaker AYou have infinite power.
Speaker ALast time we were here, last episode, we stood in the wreckage feeling the powerful soul eating raw agony of dreams undone.
Speaker AObliterated.
Speaker AToday we're going to start on new ground.
Speaker ANot because life got easier, but because you chose to.
Speaker ATo reset, to rise up from here.
Speaker AWe're going to talk about power now.
Speaker AThink about that and own it.
Speaker AOwnership, that seizes the pen from every doubter.
Speaker AWe're going to start there because you are the only one you can that can your sovereignty.
Speaker AYou own your life and you're the only one that owns it.
Speaker ADon't give it up.
Speaker AToday you become unstoppable.
Speaker AI want to move on and talk about Dawn.
Speaker ASo we talked in the episode before about being obliterated.
Speaker AYou know what happens when your dream gets obliterated.
Speaker AWhat you were doing is smashed to the ground and you start down there.
Speaker AWe talked about strategies to start and get back, to even get back up off the ground.
Speaker AMake a choice to rise up.
Speaker AAnd that rising up is just the beginning.
Speaker ABut you know that.
Speaker ASo what do you do then?
Speaker AToday we're going to talk about from that place of having not given up but risen up to becoming unstoppable.
Speaker AInfinity.
Speaker AHaving the dreams you want.
Speaker AThat's the place I live all the time.
Speaker AAnd sure, like anybody else, I wake up some days and think, am I nuts?
Speaker AI just wrote the forward for a book.
Speaker ANot the forward, but the introduction to a book called Coaching and the Rise of AI.
Speaker AWhere I'm could be was.
Speaker ASometimes I am scared to death about what I'm proclaiming.
Speaker AI think 95% of coaches are going to be out of business in 18 months by Christmas, 26 by New Year's, 27.
Speaker A18 to 24 months is what I'm actually predicting.
Speaker AAnd it might be faster than that.
Speaker AAnd the only ones that are still going to be around are the 5%, the elite.
Speaker AAnd it isn't about good questions and it isn't about the skills that you learned in coaching school.
Speaker AIn fact, most coaching methodologies are going to be obliterated.
Speaker ABut that's in the book today.
Speaker AI want to talk about the choices that you and I can make when we have something to do and we want to take it to the finish line, to the gold medal.
Speaker ANot just a little, but like the blowout opportunities and accomplishments.
Speaker ABecause you have that in you.
Speaker AAnd you know what?
Speaker AYou know it.
Speaker AYou know that I'm not telling you anything you don't know.
Speaker AI'm not saying something to you that's foreign now.
Speaker AMaybe you don't want to.
Speaker AMaybe you are absolutely content and happy to live life just day to day and enjoying what's in front of you.
Speaker AAnd that's fine.
Speaker ABut there are many like me and maybe like you, who feel called to do something.
Speaker ANot for glory, not for greed, not for, oh, I'm cool.
Speaker ABut because your soul demands it.
Speaker AAnd you can push it down for so long and you can pretend it away.
Speaker AYou can live under the blanket of insecurity and the I'm not good enough and the stories of defeat and the crushing weight of previous obliterations.
Speaker AMaybe you had one last week.
Speaker AI don't know.
Speaker AThey're all the same.
Speaker AThey either blow you up or they provide the refiners fire.
Speaker AThat's true every single time, no matter what.
Speaker AThey blow you up or they provide the refiners fire.
Speaker ARead a post on Facebook today about someone who's finally discovering they've got nothing to prove.
Speaker AThis call to produce all you can to sing the song you came to sing.
Speaker AIt's not about being judged worthy or cool or approved by anyone in the world.
Speaker AIt's not about that.
Speaker AIt's not about the acclaim or the recognition.
Speaker AIt's about simply answering a call in your heart.
Speaker ANow we've been contaminated.
Speaker AThat the only answers that matter are other people thinking we're cool.
Speaker ARight?
Speaker AOther people thinking we're wonderful.
Speaker AOther people thinking, ooh, you know about us.
Speaker AThat's never going to be it.
Speaker AYou can never get enough of what you don't need.
Speaker AAnd you don't need anyone's approval because what you don't need won't satisfy you.
Speaker AThe only things that satisfy our soul is what we actually need and what we actually need.
Speaker AYes, we need to eat, but we don't need worldly acclaim and approval.
Speaker AYou need to answer the call that's in your heart.
Speaker AYou need to answer the call that says, this is why I was born.
Speaker AI was born to write words like scripture, to speak like thunder.
Speaker AAnd the reason that's my calling is because of what I've been through in my life.
Speaker AThe choices that I've made and I suspect that your choices and journey have provided you with an invincible, unstoppable, unignorable.
Speaker AThat's a word.
Speaker ACall to do something.
Speaker AWhat is yours right now?
Speaker AI want you to get in touch with that.
Speaker AI'll tell you what mine is.
Speaker AThis year it's to reach 300 million people with a message.
Speaker AAnd the message is WIPOs about your worth, about your identity, infinite worth, divine identity, possibility, which is you can create whatever you want.
Speaker AOwnership, which is you own your life.
Speaker ANobody's coming.
Speaker AAnd sovereignty is a powerful word and evokes images of kings and queens and, you know, scepters and that sort of stuff.
Speaker AYou're.
Speaker AThat you're an infinite being.
Speaker AIf you just had a glimpse right this minute of who you really are in the divine scheme of things, your whole life would change.
Speaker ASo this is an invitation to do that.
Speaker AYou're standing now, if we go on from the last one, you know, we have some obliteration and then you get back to even.
Speaker AAnd now maybe you're standing in the ashes, literally of a house that burned down, or figuratively of a business that burned down, or an empty bank account or a partner that left, or a betrayal that's so deep you crushed your soul until you got back up.
Speaker ANow what?
Speaker AWell, I'll tell you what it is we got from smashed to pieces back to ground zero.
Speaker AAnd that's the episode before this one.
Speaker ANot a guess, but the other one I did before this, go listen to that if you haven't, because these are designed to be done.
Speaker AThese two are designed to be done in sequence anyway.
Speaker ASo here you are with a determination to do more, to be more.
Speaker ANot half ass, not dip your toe in the water, not saying, well, maybe, I don't know.
Speaker AThat's not going to get you over the fire.
Speaker AThat's certainly not going to make you like, this person here looks like a dude, but it could be a woman in that same position.
Speaker ASo man or woman?
Speaker AVictory.
Speaker AFacing the fire, ready to go?
Speaker AAlready going, moving forward to crush it.
Speaker ANot to prove, but because it's your calling.
Speaker AYou know what I mean?
Speaker AAnd you know exactly how that feels.
Speaker AThe question is, will you answer the call and will you rise?
Speaker AAnd I made reference earlier to something I call the Whipos framework.
Speaker AWhipos framework is something I'm introducing in some books that I'm writing right now.
Speaker AAnd the book that I'm writing, right, one of the books I'm writing right now is Coaching and the Rise of AI and it talks about what AI is doing and will do very quickly to the coaching profession.
Speaker AMany other professions too, but specifically the coaching profession.
Speaker AThe profession of, you know, being in the people, encouragement, business, lifting, helping, loving, serving, blessing those who are trying to get to their olympic podium.
Speaker AWhether it's sports or business or life, joy, happiness, relationships, whatever it is.
Speaker ATop performers have always had coaches.
Speaker ABut anyway, WHIPOS stands for this.
Speaker ANot to be confused with witot, which is a disease.
Speaker AWhat I think others think that's a disease.
Speaker AWipos w I p O S is a framework for exploding your impact, your income, your joy, your happiness.
Speaker AAnd here's what it stands for.
Speaker AW is worth.
Speaker ADo you know your worth?
Speaker AYou breathe air.
Speaker AYou are created in the image of God and whatever you call the divine.
Speaker AAnd because you are, your worth is infinite.
Speaker AI know that for me, because even in the midst of my deepest struggle, meaning addiction and suicide attempts and everything else, In August of 2007, God Almighty, the divine offered me an invitation.
Speaker AIt was stunning.
Speaker AIt shook the walls.
Speaker AIt woke me up.
Speaker AIt didn't do any of the work for repair, but it woke me up to embark on an unknown journey.
Speaker ABut what it told me is I was worth it.
Speaker ASo are you.
Speaker AThat was the year I turned 52.
Speaker AI'd spent decades floundering around, creating and destroying success.
Speaker ASo your worth is not in question.
Speaker AYou here now, your worth is infinite.
Speaker AHear me if you don't know that, that's your first area of opportunity.
Speaker ACreate a connection, get the right coaching, get on your knees or meditate or do whatever it is that shuts the noise off so you can connect with your inner being, your higher being, your creator, the divine, the universe, whatever you want to call that, you know it's there and you felt it.
Speaker ASo live into it, reach for it, trust it.
Speaker AWorth is number one.
Speaker AFirst one W I in wipas is identity.
Speaker ASo it's easy for me to say, oh, your worth is infinite.
Speaker AWhat supports that is who you are.
Speaker ABecause no matter how many you know, some people do genealogy, their father, mother, grandparents, you know, and on back for a few generations.
Speaker AWe do that lot that in our family.
Speaker ASo we've got, you know, generations back to the 1500s and sometimes earlier.
Speaker AThe pedigree of your spirit, the essence, the energy of who you are, the real you, is written on a single line.
Speaker AYou're a child of the divine.
Speaker AYou're a child of God.
Speaker ASo it's you, God.
Speaker AThat is a truth that's so powerful and mind blowing, Just the mere contemplation of that fact makes me tremble.
Speaker AThat means without question, that God the Creator, knows you, knows your name, knows your capability, knows what you wanted to do, knows what you want right now, knows what you're feeling and thinking, knows what your capabilities are.
Speaker AWho.
Speaker AThat scares me.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker ABecause one of the most important things that I work on for me and with clients is to get a glimpse of what that means.
Speaker ABecause if you truly live into the truth that you're a child of God, lovingly and intentionally created, the whole world changes.
Speaker AYou think about everything differently.
Speaker AAnd mindset is 80 to 90% of any situation.
Speaker AIf you think you can or think you can't, you're right, you've heard that before.
Speaker AIt's been said in a hundred different ways, but it's still true every time.
Speaker ASo the next thing is P W, I, P, P is possibility.
Speaker ABecause you are a child of the divine.
Speaker AThat means you have divine DNA woven into you.
Speaker ANot just like an acorn can become an oak.
Speaker AAll the ingredients and instructions are in there.
Speaker AThe ingredients and instructions of infinity are in you.
Speaker AYou were born that way, you were created that way.
Speaker AYour possibility is infinite.
Speaker ANow, I know some people, many people, all of us, some people were born to a life of struggle.
Speaker ASometimes it's right out of the box.
Speaker ABorn with, you know, some deformity, one arm or one leg.
Speaker AAnd I was born with eyes that have gradually deteriorated over my life until I have my corneas are mush and I have to wear special lenses that go clear out to the whites of my eyeballs and, you know, stuff like that.
Speaker AAnd I have hereditary hearing loss and have to wear really powerful hearing aids.
Speaker AAnd recently I have discs that are deteriorating, so I walk with a limp and a cane.
Speaker AI don't care.
Speaker AYou may have been born in poverty.
Speaker AYou may have been born to abusive parents who were on purpose or accidentally crappy.
Speaker AYou may have had relationship issues.
Speaker AYou may have struggled with depression like I did for decades, believing with all my heart I wasn't good enough and never would be.
Speaker AAnd all the things that come from that, self sabotage, I don't care.
Speaker AThe possibility of infinity is woven into your DNA.
Speaker AAnd the question is, are you willing to find it, own it, believe it.
Speaker AThat's the key to standing there in victory with your arms raised, facing the dawn, facing the fire, facing the sunrise in victory worth infinite identity, child of God, Possibility.
Speaker AThe sky's the limit.
Speaker AThe O is ownership.
Speaker ALike one of the fundamental tenets in our relationship with the divine.
Speaker AWe were created with love.
Speaker AWe had agreements about who we were and what we were going to do before we came here, which we have to reload, learn and remember, right?
Speaker AWe were given agency, the right to choose, the right, the infinite and eternal right to own your life.
Speaker AAnd no one is coming.
Speaker ANo one's going to do it for you.
Speaker ANobody can do your push ups for you.
Speaker APersonal development push ups or physical push ups.
Speaker ANo one can do that.
Speaker ANo one can take care of your health, no one can take care of your body, no one can help you, cause you to lose weight or get strong or gain weight, whatever it is that you want, that you don't have.
Speaker ANo one can fill up your bank account.
Speaker AAnd even if they do, like winning the lottery or whatever, you know, the statistics, people that haven't earned it don't keep it, they lose it and they're worse off.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ABecause they haven't done the work and done the things that happen when you earn it.
Speaker AYou know, one of the things that Simon Sinek, who's a speaker that talks a lot about future things and I love his stuff, he said one of the terrifying dangers of AI isn't that it can do perfect things, it's that if we let it do everything, then we miss the growth we have missed who we become as we did that thing.
Speaker AWell, that horrifies me.
Speaker AI love AI and I use it all the time for tools and outlines and, you know, book projects and definitions and research, and I use it every day a lot of.
Speaker AAnd it saves time and helps and does all kinds of cool stuff.
Speaker ABut I do the work with it and I use it and I internalize it and take it apart.
Speaker AIt's just a tool.
Speaker ASo as you.
Speaker AAnd that can be true with any tool.
Speaker AThat's just the one.
Speaker AThat's a lot of noise right now.
Speaker ASo ownership, it's yours, it isn't anybody else's.
Speaker AAnd you can be mad if you were born in difficult circumstances.
Speaker AMaybe you have a limp or a struggle or an emotional limp or something left over from one or two or ten things that happened in your past.
Speaker ASo what, are you going to let that define you?
Speaker AI tell the story a lot of my dog.
Speaker AI had him for 10 years, 2007-17.
Speaker AI got him as a pup, 2007.
Speaker AAnd right after I got him in November and December, on New Year's Eve.
Speaker AI had never had a dog before.
Speaker ASo we were playing and I was playing a little too rough and didn't know because I'd never had a dog before.
Speaker AAnyway, the dog bumped into a speaker stand in the.
Speaker AIn the stereo room, you know, the entertainment room, a Speaker fell off the stand, landed on his foot, broke all the metatarsals.
Speaker ADog was howling in pain.
Speaker AI felt awful.
Speaker AMiddle of the night, it's New year's Eve, right?
Speaker A2008.
Speaker ADriving all over the place.
Speaker AJoy and I were trying to find a midnight veterinarian, and we found one, and they did midnight surgery and did what they could and told us he may have a limp.
Speaker ASure enough, later in life and for the rest of his life, he developed a limp.
Speaker ASo that unfortunate accident I blame myself for and felt horrible about, the dog wasn't having any of it.
Speaker AHe lived absolutely to the fullest.
Speaker AYou and I can do that no matter what's come before.
Speaker AWe can forgive and we can do everything we can with whatever limps, emotional or physical, that are left over.
Speaker AThis life is just a micro dot.
Speaker AYou and I both know we're going somewhere afterwards and we came from somewhere.
Speaker ASo we live the very best we can.
Speaker AAnd you own this life.
Speaker AThe last is S, which is sovereignty.
Speaker AYou rule your life.
Speaker AYou rule your attitude.
Speaker AYou rule your circumstance.
Speaker AYou rule everything.
Speaker AYou create how you feel about life.
Speaker AYou can choose to be happy every day, even if the hits the fan.
Speaker AYou can choose that.
Speaker AWhy wouldn't you?
Speaker AIt's too hard.
Speaker AYou're too lazy.
Speaker ASomebody told you you couldn't.
Speaker AI don't know.
Speaker AChoose, choose, choose.
Speaker ALive, love, create.
Speaker ASo there's the initial framework.
Speaker AWorth, identity, possibility, ownership, sovereignty.
Speaker AYou can have what you want.
Speaker AOr here's another thing you can do.
Speaker AYou can pretend it's not true.
Speaker AYou can get mad because you don't like how it's going down.
Speaker AAnd you can live in recrimination, bitterness.
Speaker AAnd why would you do that if you want to go from ground zero?
Speaker AYou know, where we left off in the other episode, like, you fought yourself away from obliteration back up to zero.
Speaker AI'm inviting you to grab a hold of life by the horns every day, every minute, every second, just because you can, it's yours.
Speaker AWhat the frick over, like, own your life, creative at what you want.
Speaker AQuit worrying about what somebody else thinks or wants or does.
Speaker AAnd if you love them and you choose to make them happy, then choose it all in.
Speaker ANo resentment, no negativity.
Speaker AI've created my life so I have zero obligations.
Speaker ANone.
Speaker AZero obligations.
Speaker AAnd at the same time, I do many of the things that pay, you know, pay rent and take care of people and serve and do dishes and everything else that.
Speaker AThat a lot of people think of as obligations, but they're not.
Speaker AThey're commitments.
Speaker AThey're things that I joyfully dive into every time I touch them.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ABecause I can.
Speaker AI can hate mowing the lawn or pulling the weeds, or I can love it.
Speaker AI like it.
Speaker AMy life is more fun when I love everything that I do and I choose to do that.
Speaker AIt's not Pollyanna.
Speaker AIt's not stupid.
Speaker AIt is a choice.
Speaker AAnd you have that choice.
Speaker AMaking that choice allows you to live, enjoy every day.
Speaker AAnd one of the byproducts of that is you're more creative, you're more fun to be around.
Speaker AYou make more clients, you get more money, you're more productive, you get more promotions, so life's more fun.
Speaker AYou get more cash.
Speaker AGee.
Speaker AWe call that the ultimate life purpose, prosperity, joy.
Speaker ASo when you own your worth, identity, possibility, ownership and sovereignty, that leads you inevitably to a place where you can create purpose, prosperity and joy.
Speaker AWhen you're living every moment in purpose, prosperity and joy, you can't be mad.
Speaker AYou can't have a shitty day.
Speaker AYou just can't.
Speaker ABecause you choose a framework of love and giving.
Speaker ASo I want you to.
Speaker AI want to ask you some questions.
Speaker AIf you're trying to go from, you know, flat back to ground zero after the obliteration to infinity, to this picture behind me, this great victory, excitement, ultimate life.
Speaker AWho are you waiting for to crown you?
Speaker AYou know, to say, okay, you now have.
Speaker AYou know, you're now the queen or king.
Speaker ANobody's coming.
Speaker AHear me?
Speaker ANobody's coming.
Speaker AAnd if they do, it's fake.
Speaker AYou own that.
Speaker ANow another question.
Speaker AIs your worth negotiable?
Speaker AThat tripped me up so many times.
Speaker AI. I believed with all my heart I was only as good as the crappiest people said the most awful negative thing.
Speaker AAnd then I would pile on at my own internal voice.
Speaker AI can't this.
Speaker AI'll never that.
Speaker AI'm no good.
Speaker AJust on and on and on.
Speaker AIt wasn't true and it never was.
Speaker ABut I made it true by repeating it and swimming in it and drowning in it and stuffing my face for lunch with it and on and on and on.
Speaker AHow horrible.
Speaker AAnd you know what?
Speaker AI controlled that as soon as I stopped.
Speaker AAnd yeah, it took work and help and coaching and therapy and all the rest, but it changes life.
Speaker AAnd I just love every minute.
Speaker ANow you can, too.
Speaker AI'm not magic.
Speaker AHere's some invitations in the middle.
Speaker AIf you want my help to do that, get a hold of me.
Speaker AKellenflukermedia.com it's on the screen.
Speaker AKellenfluekigermedia.com There's a contact sheet there.
Speaker AGet a hold of me.
Speaker ALet's talk.
Speaker ABecause this is all I do is help you understand the things I learned and then make purposes prosperity, which includes all the cash you ever wanted.
Speaker AEnjoy the substance of your life.
Speaker AAnother couple questions.
Speaker AAre you going to keep blaming the storm or are you going to learn to command the wind?
Speaker AAnd we all know the story of Jesus in the Bible commanding the sea to be still.
Speaker AYou can do that.
Speaker AYou can command the wind and the storm of your heart, your soul, the tumult of your life to be still.
Speaker ANo one else can do it for you.
Speaker AOnly you.
Speaker AYou are divine and you have that power.
Speaker AHere's the last question I want to ask here in the middle.
Speaker AWho.
Speaker AWho dares to write the next line of your story?
Speaker ALike the next hour, the next day, it's a blank page.
Speaker AWho dares to write that?
Speaker AOnly you.
Speaker AThe only way anyone else can even influence that is if you hand them the pen.
Speaker AIf you turn over your sovereignty, your attitude, your heart, your willingness, your worth to somebody else.
Speaker AI'm only as good as they say I am.
Speaker AOkay, then you've handed the pin.
Speaker ATake it back.
Speaker AYou can do that anytime.
Speaker AAll right, so I'm going to talk now about this creation process because creating your ultimate life is just that.
Speaker AIt's creating your ultimate life.
Speaker AIt doesn't come in a jar, it doesn't come in an Amazon box.
Speaker AIt really doesn't.
Speaker AIt's in your hands.
Speaker AAnd you can start today.
Speaker ANow, I wasn't able to go from complaining and suffering and struggling to ultimate life in a day, but you might.
Speaker ASo let's talk about the creation of the.
Speaker AYou know, what is the, what are the foundation blocks of creating your ultimate life?
Speaker AWhat do you have to do when you own whipos worth, identity, possibility, ownership, sovereignty.
Speaker AWhen you own that internally and you know it and you breathe it and you're not faking it, you become dangerous to mediocrity.
Speaker AYou will annihilate mediocrity.
Speaker AYou become addicted to excellence.
Speaker AI don't mean silly perfectionism.
Speaker AI mean going all in on your own life.
Speaker AAnd that doesn't mean work all the time.
Speaker AYou know, I'm not talking about that, but I'm talking about single minded focus on whoever you are and how you choose to show up in the world.
Speaker AIf you're a writer, you go write.
Speaker AIf you're a painter, you go paint.
Speaker AIf you're a musician, you go music, sing or play.
Speaker AIf you're an executive, you go be the very best leader there Ever was truthful, honest, open, vulnerable, transparent, creating people who want to follow you because you are that.
Speaker AThe leader of yourself, your family, your business.
Speaker AThat is all available to you right this minute.
Speaker ANow, here's.
Speaker AHere's the.
Speaker AWhat some could see as a paradox.
Speaker AWhen I say all that about being dangerous to mediocrity and committed to moving forward, you still feel fear.
Speaker AFear is the uncertainty of an outcome.
Speaker AAnd it's like, I'm worried, I'm scared this won't turn out like I want.
Speaker AWell, you can drop that, because it won't.
Speaker AAlmost nothing turns out like we planned.
Speaker ASometimes it's a little better, and mostly it's worse or different.
Speaker AInstead of treating it as an indictment or a setback, it just is.
Speaker ALearn what you can and move forward.
Speaker AEvery situation is either a success or a learning opportunity.
Speaker ALearn to rejoice in every outcome.
Speaker AThat's not a platitude.
Speaker ALearn to rejoice in every outcome.
Speaker AIt's your call.
Speaker ALike, nobody can make you sad.
Speaker APain is inevitable.
Speaker ASuffering is optional.
Speaker AYou've heard that before.
Speaker ASuffering is the continued reliving of the pain.
Speaker AThe bitching about the pain, the blaming about the difficulty, strain or pain.
Speaker AWhy would you make the pain last longer than you want?
Speaker ABecause you can stop now.
Speaker AWow.
Speaker AThink about that.
Speaker ASo you might still fear, still feel fear.
Speaker AYou're still going to carry the scars like the limp we talked about from the dog.
Speaker AYou're going to carry those scars.
Speaker ABut those scars are your energy.
Speaker AThey're your wisdom, they're the love you have to pour over people.
Speaker AThe scars that I have, some of which I did, some of which others did, I don't even care.
Speaker AEverybody is forgiven and I love them all, including me, which was the hardest for me.
Speaker AAnd I still carry the limp.
Speaker AThe scars of many things.
Speaker AAnd that's the power, is your power.
Speaker AThe scars you have not to rail, not to lament and point at, but because it makes you humble, it makes you compassionate, it makes you feel love, it makes you see others in the very step of their divine progress that they're in.
Speaker AAnd however you interact.
Speaker AI mean, I have chosen the profession of coaching, which is to get right in the trenches with every person I meet and love them.
Speaker AYou, fiercely, furiously, because I can and because I see who you are.
Speaker AReally, that's the calling that I've chosen.
Speaker AWhat is yours?
Speaker AAnd even though you feel fear and carry scars, you choose to create.
Speaker AAnyway, I think this is episode 998.
Speaker ASo we're a couple away from episode thousand.
Speaker AAnd even with that I'm never going to quit.
Speaker AYou know, it'll take us a while.
Speaker AWe do two a week, but we'll get to 2,000 and then more.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ABecause giving you all the love and encouragement I have, that's my calling.
Speaker ATo love you, to lift you, to help, to bless, and in helping, if you have a story and you'd like to share it, get a hold of me.
Speaker AKellenflukermedia.com use the contact form.
Speaker AI want to share your story now.
Speaker AWhat you choose to create depends on your gifts and talents and your yearning, the calling you have to add good to the world.
Speaker AMine is books, music, coaching programs, helping people write books, helping people learn to speak the truth is, all those hardships, they're just refining fire.
Speaker AYou were never broken.
Speaker AEach of those just breaks us open so we can shed the dross and purify the gold.
Speaker AYou know that in your heart, you know that's true.
Speaker ASo own that and live into it.
Speaker AAll right?
Speaker AThe last thing about this section, you know, I talk about purpose, prosperity and joy.
Speaker AThe most valuable here, money, the most valuable thing you have to offer to the world is the story about, of your growth, how you got where you are.
Speaker ABecause every one of us has been smashed by setbacks, crushed by cruelty that wasn't ours, you know, obliterated by injustice, either a little or a lot.
Speaker AAnd it's how we choose to let those things refine us that matters.
Speaker AThat's it.
Speaker AHow we choose to let those refine us is what matters.
Speaker AAnd when you let them refine you, it's not a quiet victory.
Speaker AIt's uncontainable joy.
Speaker ABecause you finally get a glimpse of who you really are.
Speaker AAnd you were never broken, just refined.
Speaker AThat's why I live, you know, I live.
Speaker APeople ask me, do you have this energy all the time?
Speaker AThe answer is, absolutely, every day.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ABecause I live in that uncontrollable joy.
Speaker AI am perpetual joy.
Speaker AI am that because I choose it.
Speaker AI love it.
Speaker AI'd rather live there than anywhere else.
Speaker ASo I want to talk about one more thing, and it's about how do you embody this daily?
Speaker ABecause I'm saying this to you, and if you hear this podcast, you might think I'm nuts and say, dip weed and turn it off.
Speaker ABut if this is calling you, you might say, well, this is.
Speaker AThis is great.
Speaker AI'm inspired, man.
Speaker AI'm going to jump out of my skin and go do something.
Speaker AI have found I have to do this every day.
Speaker AI have to embody.
Speaker AThat's a Buzzword that's going around.
Speaker ABut what it means is I have to.
Speaker AMy inner circumstance, my outer thing, you know, visage, everything daily.
Speaker AI have to choose over and over again who I'm being.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker AIn sports, sometimes they call that your game face, right?
Speaker AYou put on your game face.
Speaker AThat means the stance that you have to be focused and clear when you're in your competition.
Speaker AWell, for me, every day is not a competition, but it is an expression.
Speaker AI choose to be all in.
Speaker AIn my daily expression.
Speaker AI choose to be this guy that you're seeing every day.
Speaker ASo if we met in the grocery store, I'd be the same dude.
Speaker AOne of the funniest things, and it was a. I felt like it was a nice compliment someone gave to me was.
Speaker AWas speaking at a conference and I met someone.
Speaker ASomeone sought me out after, you know, during a break.
Speaker AAnd I did not know them, but they knew me.
Speaker AThey'd been following me on socials and stuff.
Speaker AAnd he walked up to me and he said, same dude.
Speaker AAnd the context was that the things he had seen on video and in person were exactly the same.
Speaker AAnd I felt.
Speaker AI felt good about that because that meant the truth of my being was consistent.
Speaker AAre you the same?
Speaker ADo you put on a jacket for this situation and for that person?
Speaker ADon't do that.
Speaker AChoose who you're being and then be that love, kindness, creation, power.
Speaker AOr you can choose to be a jerkbot all the time, but I've never found that to create purpose, prosperity, and joy.
Speaker ASo here's how you do that.
Speaker AYou have to do it on purpose.
Speaker AAsk anybody that works out at a gym.
Speaker AYou don't accidentally get strong.
Speaker AYou don't accidentally add 20 or 50 or 100 pounds to your weights on whatever the exercise is.
Speaker ANone of that happens by accident.
Speaker AYou don't fall up that mountain.
Speaker AThe dude in the picture here facing the, you know, fire and the sunrise with his arms raised.
Speaker AYou don't fall up that mountain.
Speaker AYou have to climb.
Speaker ASometimes on your knees.
Speaker ASo I have a daily creation process, if you want to know what it is and how to use it.
Speaker AYeah, I wrote a book, 18 years worth of work, about creating both documents and daily creation.
Speaker AThat's in this book, Living with Purpose and Power.
Speaker ARead it, tell me what you think, but don't just read it.
Speaker AApply it.
Speaker ALet it mold and shape your life.
Speaker ALet it create in you the fire that you deserve, the joy that is your birthright, the creative power that is burned into your DNA.
Speaker AI know that about you.
Speaker AIf you were here, I would love you I love you anyway.
Speaker AYou're a divine being.
Speaker ACame from the same place I do.
Speaker AYou got gifts and talents running out your ears.
Speaker AI don't know what you've done with them.
Speaker AI buried mine for a long time and did other things, what I was supposed to do and struggle with depression and all that.
Speaker AThat's no more.
Speaker AIt's unleashed.
Speaker AThat process started 18 years ago now and is ongoing and will be till I draw no more breath.
Speaker ASo intentionally creating yourself.
Speaker AUse WIPOs to start with.
Speaker AReaffirm your worth, identity, possibility, ownership and sovereignty every day as you get up first thing and then take every action through that filter.
Speaker ADoes this reflect my identity as a divine being?
Speaker AIs this worthy of a child of God?
Speaker ADoes this recognize my ownership and sovereignty of my life?
Speaker AOr am I handing it off to someone else?
Speaker AYou are the sovereign.
Speaker ASay it.
Speaker AI am the sovereign.
Speaker AI create because I said so.
Speaker ALike no one's permission or agreement is required.
Speaker AYou own this.
Speaker AYou have been given it by the divine.
Speaker ANobody can take it away from you.
Speaker ANobody know how.
Speaker ANowhere, no way.
Speaker AUnless you give it away.
Speaker AYou don't need permission.
Speaker ALife is waiting for your command.
Speaker AThere was a poem that I'm going to quote poorly that said something like, I bargained for life for a penny, and when I got done, life would give no more, no matter how much I pled.
Speaker AYou know, that's all it would give me in my scanty store.
Speaker AImagine how bad I felt at the end.
Speaker AWhen I realized life would have paid any wage I had demanded.
Speaker AI settled.
Speaker AMan, that used to be me.
Speaker ADon't let that be you.
Speaker AMake a choice to be all that you are right here, right now.
Speaker AAnd you know it doesn't happen all at once.
Speaker ADing.
Speaker ABut it's a process.
Speaker ASo start.
Speaker AToday is the ideal day.
Speaker AWe should have started yesterday, but that's not available.
Speaker ASo today we'll have to do.
Speaker AYou want to get to the top of the mountain?
Speaker AYou want to create thunder from the sky?
Speaker AYou want to create a bulging bank account?
Speaker AYou want to create an impact in the world.
Speaker AMy goal is 300 million.
Speaker AMaybe yours is bigger.
Speaker AHere's how we do it.
Speaker AWe get up.
Speaker AWe prepare ourselves.
Speaker AEvery day.
Speaker AWe declare clear, specific, specific, measurable goals.
Speaker AAnd when we get after them, and when we fall and fail, we get up and forgive ourselves and get moving again.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ABecause you can.
Speaker AYou're a divine being.
Speaker AAnd you know you yearn to create.
Speaker AIf I can help you, get a hold of me, here is the last thing I want to tell you.
Speaker AThis is who you are.
Speaker AYour worth is infinite.
Speaker AYour identity is divine.
Speaker AAs a child of God, your possibility is endless.
Speaker AYou own your life.
Speaker AYou are the sovereign Creator.
Speaker ANone of those things pass from your hand unless you give them away.
Speaker ASo take the scepter and with the magic of your being, shape the world, your world, with your hands.
Speaker AJust because you can, it's in you.
Speaker ASo here is your charge, right?
Speaker AHere's your invitation.
Speaker AGet a hold of me.
Speaker AIf I can help you.
Speaker AGet a hold of me.
Speaker AIf you have a story of overcoming and resilience you want to share, get a hold of me.
Speaker AIf you're living your dream life and you'd like to tell me how you did it, I'd love to share those stories.
Speaker AHere it is, etched in the marrow of your bones and your being.
Speaker AYou are of infinite worth.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker AYou're a divine being that's been sent here, not made.
Speaker AYou've been sent here to shape worlds.
Speaker ABecause of this, every possibility is available.
Speaker APossibility bows before your command.
Speaker AYou own this life.
Speaker AYou can give it away, but nobody can take it from you.
Speaker ASo build it, speak it, live it.
Speaker ANot tomorrow.
Speaker ARight here, right now.
Speaker ANow, because you claim it.
Speaker AAnd join me in living your ultimate life.
Speaker AYou, right now.
Speaker AYour opportunity for massive growth is right in front of you.
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