Episodes

Kellan describes in detail if what we consider traditions are that, or are they chains. For example, people may say... "well, I've always been this way," or, "I've always done it this way." Why would we give ourselves these labels, and in turn, chains that we build? Good question. We somehow assign these things as permanent fixtures, when all they are is habits that we've institutionalized. Now, there's a high likelihood that we've institutionalized them because we believe them. Sometimes we do...

n this episode, we take a look at traditions that can get in the way of progress. Do you have traditions that are harmful? I used to have a tradition of drinking every day. It was a ritual, and I did it because that is what I did. It became a real problem and prevented a lot of progress and growth. No surprise. There can be more traditions. Let’s say you “never work on the weekends.” Well, that may be good, or it may be a barrier. What is work, anyway? Are you ramping your life to create a side...

In this episode, we look at the lighter side of traditions. Fun is part of our human experience. What we do for fun hopefully changes and matures over time. When we were younger, perhaps we thought it was fun to tease or embarrass others. Then we learned that kindness is better and more fruitful. What are traditions that lighten your heart and lift your spirit? Joy and I have a tradition of taking walks nearly every day. It is fun and it deepens our relationship. That is fun and rewarding. We h...

In this episode, we look at a particular type of tradition. I have developed a long-standing and deep tradition around the morning ritual that I practice. I call it a ritual and not a routine for a reason. Rituals can have some mystical connotations and I like them for that reason. Starting my day with power is good. Do you have traditions for growth built into your life? Why or why not. If you truly want a life of purpose, prosperity, and Joy, creating traditions that reinforce love and servic...

In this episode, we talk about the meaning and power of traditions. I happen to be recording this in December, so some holiday traditions are top of mind. What are the traditions that help or hinder you? Traditions are special habits. Perhaps related to an event like Christmas or a birthday. Traditions can be helpful or hurtful. Do you regularly examine the traditions you have? Where did they come from and why did they exist? Do they serve you now? Are your traditions built on love and service?...

In this episode, we talk about what writing can do. When I first wanted to speak or write to serve others, I believed to the core of my soul that I had no story to tell. I stomped out of a conference given by a noted international speaker who thrilled us all with his developmental story, certain I had nothing. I was totally wrong. I have everything and so do you. The things you dismiss as small and not useful are powerful and inspirational to the right group of people. You have felt the call to...

In this episode, we talk about the discipline brought about by writing a book or creating a course from your own experience. Whether you write about gardening or personal development, and whether you create a course a write a book, you are forced to get your material organized in order to present it. Choosing to share what you have learned may also force a degree of vulnerability. If you write about your journey to be a master cultivator of roses, the vulnerability may be less. If you share you...

In this episode, we talk about how publishing has become not only easy but joyful and a huge creator of opportunities. Once upon a time, writing a book was a mysterious art and taken on by only a few hardy and dedicated souls. The internet and digital publishing has changed the landscape completely It is now easy to write and publish. That causes two things. It brings out sloppy, just get by books, that would best have remained unwritten, and it has given the vast majority opportunity to serve....

In this episode, we talk about how to choose. Now that we have decided to get involved to love and support those around us, how do we choose? Rosemary chose a women-owned business because she was supported. What events in your life have given you special empathy and the capacity to love and serve? Often our experiences and hardships gave us insight and love that makes us uniquely qualified to help someone or some group. That can be a great starting place to jump in and serve. Besides that, ther...

In this episode,we talk about all the opportunities to do good. There is never a shortage of people or things that want your time, money, and attention. Looking around in your community and in your interests, there are an infinite number of things. We often feel drawn to help. Then we pull back There are scams, there are bloated beaurocracies. There are also real opportunities to do good and make a difference. First, we must get out of our little bubbles. We tend to focus inward, making excuses...

In this episode, we hear from a dedicated woman who is on a mission. She is adding good to the world by supporting women-owned businesses. Her long experience and loving heart give her a unique perspective and commitment to continue on this mission every day. Rosemary is clear and motivated. She received support for her growth as a young woman and it made a great difference in her life. Coming from this place of love and knowing how much it meant to her she is busy offering the same support to ...

In this episode, we follow up from yesterday with the roadmap to success. There comes a time for everyone when we must choose. We either stay in the life of complacency and do what is obvious and easy or we give in to that innate longing for a better version of ourselves. That is the choice. You know what I mean. There are always choices. When we finally realize there is more available the real work starts. What is it worth to you to discover what is really possible for your life? Are you willi...

In this episode, I talk about the road to change. Yesterday we talked about how we easily lose the innate joy of childhood and the capacity to believe that anything is truly possible. We’re force-fed all kinds of nonsense and limit ourselves because of that. Somewhere we need to really want to change. So what is it that has to happen to make us want to change?e When do we get fed up enough to say “no more.” It is so easy to continue down the road well-traveled and believe that nothing better is...

In this episode, we talk About living your ultimate life from the perspective of what fills your cup. Truth is such a critical factor in being happy. There is so much false stuff in the world about what makes us happy. When we were children we had the ability to create dreams by following our internal guide. Our real spark inside is to strip away all the externalities. Who are we really without all this external noise? It is really possible to live a life of truth, prosperity, and joy. We lived...

In this episode, we talk about choices that we make that seem to go against the grain. When you get advice from anyone, it comes from their own experience and point of view. It can come from no other place. Because that is true, then it is also loaded with their biases and fears. So then what? That doesn’t mean ignoring every piece of advice or counsel. That means understanding that except for your creator, no one can see perfectly and no one can have your best interest fully in mind. Develop y...

In this episode, We talk about how hard it can be to change. Often, especially in talking about “following Your Passion” the idea comes up that you suddenly stop whatever you are doing and find some magic path that takes you to bliss in the sunset. That’s not what usually happens. Mostly, there is more order and planning to the process. Creating an intentional path is the fastest way to success. There may be times when dramatic events force a sudden change in direction, but if you have the luxu...

In this episode, David talks to us about walking the road less traveled. As a Chemical engineer, he had a promising career path ahead. Instead of pursuing the traditional path of successive positions in the corporate universe, he opted for many years working in the non-profit sector. What drives that? The salaries are less and the recognition is lower. That isn’t the road to happiness. Real fulfillment comes from doing something that matters and contributes to the good in the world. For the las...

In this episode, we wrap up our 65-part project on creating the Keys to Power. We have examined all the elements that hold up your personal “Palace of Power.” Our ability to create the ultimate life depends on understanding and using the keys we have discussed. All these pillars are powered by love. All the pillars are focused on service. Choosing to achieve personal growth and joy by serving others with our divine gifts is the divine purpose of our existence. Learning to learn and love the tru...

In this episode, we complete the Pillar of Love. I saved that for last in the palace of power, because it is the key and the power for everything. Without the power of love, nothing else will stay together. It is literally the power that holds the universe together. It is the only power that can create anything. Negative emotions, hate, anger only destroy. Love creates. Children, legacy, growth, and everything else. Realizing the elements of true love is a fundamental requirement to using your ...

In this episode, we dive into one of the most important aspects of love. Everything in our world gets old and dies. Mountains, rocks, everything erodes and crumbles. Love is the only thing that endures forever. It is literally the eternal rock upon which creation rests. How can we learn to understand this truth? Sometimes a kid yells at their parents because they can’t do what they want. A toddler who wants candy, a teenager who wants to go out, or whatever. I imagine that’s how we seem when we...

In this episode, we talk about how love causes growth. Love is the most powerful force in the universe. It creates everything good and is the driver of all happiness. When we choose to love ourselves or others with genuine growth-oriented kindness, infinite expansion is possible. How do we do that? One myth that lives today is that the growth of another diminishes you. That is backward. As you help and support the development and power of those around you, your soul expands. You become not only...

In this episode, we talk about something tender and sensitive. Forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood principles. People confuse it with absolution. They confuse it with condoning behavior or pretending something didn’t happen. In truth, it is none of those things. It is a cousin to love. Choosing to forgive someone, whether you are forgiving yourself for things you did, or forgiving someone else for the evil perpetrated on you, you are allowing God, our creator, to manage the wheels of j...

Love has been the subject of conversation, action plays, dramas, books, music, wars and everything in between for as long as there's been people. Kellan describes how love is a choice, love is gratitude. That is our fourth stone in the pillar of love. Kellan describes three parts to this. First is dependence, second is inter-dependence and third is divine trust. Each of these will mean different things to us at different stages in our life. Kellan describes how how his depression shaped his bei...

In this episode, we talk about desire. Love is a powerful force, and people have done and done amazing things because they love someone. In addition, the emotional part of love, the raging hormones, or the protective urges are a fundamental part of the diverse tapestry that defines love. What do you yearn for? We can want someone in a sexual way, and that is normal and part of our mating and family world. A refined yearning gives way to refined relationships and a deeper connection and intimacy...