Episodes
Procrastination – The Master Disaster, #614
In this episode, we talk about a big one right out of the gate. Procrastination is a master ticket to failure. If we put off doing anything, nothing will ever improve. Obvious, but still a big sticking point. Ruts in the grou...
The Challenge of Change, #613
In this episode, we talk about why change can be hard. When we have learned a particular way of doing things, it can be hard to do it differently. Try to tie your shoes a new way. You can do it, but it can be frustrating and ...
Maximize Your Monster Benefit, #612
In this episode, we start our 16-part journey into exactly how to tackle monsters that have held me back and that may be getting in your way. First, let’s get clear. For this to have the most use, don’t just listen to the wor...
Special Guest Dr. Robb Kelly, #611
In this episode, we are graced with a man of true conviction. Coming through his own story of struggle, defeat, and ultimately losing his medical license in England, he has come to America and makes it his personal mission t...
Slow Down & Have Fun, #610
In this episode, we talk more about having fun. So often we are in a hurry to get somewhere. You are on the way to the ski hill. Is it only fun when you are there, or is the trip good too? That is your choice. I finally have ...
It’s a Game, #609
In this episode, we talk about having fun. I mean, after all, what is the Ultimate Life™ if not enjoyable. Sometimes I talk with folks who have the idea that everything good has to be a struggle. I wonder if God found it a st...
There Is Power In Mastery, #608
In this episode, we talk about the work required to achieve true mastery. There is nothing in a caterpillar that tells you it’s going to be a butterfly, is a quote from Buckminster Fuller. What does that mean? Even though you...
Loneliness vs. Being Alone, #607
In this episode, we discuss an important aspect of self-growth. What is the difference between being alone and feeling lonely? Why do we feel the need to be with others at times and not others? Are we ever really alone. Why i...
Performance & Proving Something, #606
In this episode, we talk about external pressure. Everyone has felt the need to perform. Starting with our earliest memories, we want to look good or do good. We want the affirmation and praise that come. Sometimes that is po...
Obligation & Overwhelm, #605
In this episode, we talk about a big monster that sometimes contaminates everything we do. We all have a sense of obligation to someone or something. Sometimes we feel things expected of us are way over the top and we are bur...
Where Do Monsters Come From?, #604
In this episode, we talk about where these beauties come from. The first and biggest place is your BDEEP. Your Beliefs, Definitions, Experiences, Expectations, and Perceptions. Together those five things are how we see the wo...
What Are Your Monsters?, #603
In this episode, we get into the nitty-gritty. It's easy to talk about things in the abstract. That thing over there is easy to describe and judge. We want to get to what is really in your way. One thing is sure. You are the ...
Why Bother, #602
In this episode, we address apathy. Some people live much of their lives not really striving for anything beyond the next moment. You are allowed to do that. If you do that, what you have when you die is only what you have cr...
The Monster Series, #601
In this episode, we talk about the “things” that hold us back from being who we really could be. We all have stories about why we are where we are and why it is ok to stay there. Often these stories are fear-based. We live in...
Special Guest Keith Engelhardt, #600
In this episode, we talk about three things that help us deal with trauma and the crazy pace of life. We have created a world with 24/7 stimulation and an incessant bombardment of news, stimulation, and noise. That easily ove...
Facing the Setbacks, #599
In this episode, we talk about what to do when life throws you setbacks and curveballs. No matter who you are and what you do, you will fail. There are days, weeks, and even years that seem to fight you every step. You can al...
In the Trenches, #598
In this episode, we talk about the daily work required to have the Ultimate Life. To really create a life of purpose, prosperity and joy is not an accident. There are simple things you do every day, regardless of the day is f...
Daily Energy Creation, #597
In this episode, we talk about how to create energy. If we want electricity, we know a half dozen ways to create it. Energy in your body and mind is the same. It is not a mystery. There is tons of science and experience to he...
Energy Sucks, #596
In this episode, we talk about those things that destroy energy and motivation. There are three big things that eat your heart. The first is comparison. You look at others’ pictures and imagined success. You imagine you are w...
Energy Bomb, #595
In this episode, we talk about getting big blasts of energy and motivation from outside. We can see a movie or a video that says things in a way that really lights our fire. Those are good and fun to receive. However, they ha...
Special Guest Anna Tsui, #594
Anna Tsui is our special guest today. In this episode, we talk about energy and how it shapes everything you do. Ultimate is the highest expression of your curiosity and obsessions. We are here to explore and commit to that a...
Learning+Focus+Action=Liberty, #593
In this episode, we finish up the series. We have all lived in the swamp of making excuses. It’s too hard, It’s not the right time. You know all these words because you have said them all. When that happens you live in the la...
Direction or Frenzy, #592
In this episode, we talk about another possible detour. Sometimes you hear “Take Massive Action.” This is given as an encouragement to act boldly. Often it leads to a frenzy, where we are just busy doing and doing without tot...
Action Creates, #591
In this episode, we complete the Freedom equation. After we become constant learners and focus on what we can do here and now with the gifts and opportunities before us, we create with joyful power. We are always free no matt...