June 26, 2026

The Order of Life Changes Everything

The Order of Life Changes Everything
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Most people aren't failing because they lack talent, opportunity, or discipline.

They're failing because they're building their lives in the wrong order.

In this episode, Kellan challenges one of the biggest myths in personal development and entrepreneurship: that success starts with hustle, productivity, and external achievement. Instead, he reveals why purpose, prosperity, and joy are built from the inside out—and why neglecting your spiritual foundation creates frustration, inconsistency, and burnout.

If you've ever felt stuck, distracted, unfulfilled, or uncertain about your next step, this conversation will help you rethink the foundation you're building on.

The order of life changes everything.

Key Takeaways:

  • Why most people approach success in the wrong order
  • The relationship between purpose, prosperity, and joy
  • How life experiences reveal your deepest purpose
  • The difference between serving and simply making money
  • Why discipline is often misunderstood
  • Feeding your spirit before feeding your ambitions
  • The role of health and physical stewardship
  • Creating structures that support lasting success
  • The power of commitments and personal integrity
  • Why purpose-driven prosperity creates fulfillment
  • Escaping the cycle of "more, more, more"
  • Building an intentional life that lasts

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Chapters

00:00 - Untitled

00:09 - Building Foundations: The Importance of Preparation

07:05 - Finding Purpose Through Adversity

11:55 - Finding Purpose and Prosperity

18:30 - Nurturing the Spirit: The Key to Purpose and Prosperity

21:28 - Nourishing the Spirit

29:30 - The Importance of Spirit Over Body

40:48 - The Path to Purpose, Prosperity, and Joy

Transcript
Kellan Fluckiger

Have you ever tried to put the roof on a building before the walls were up? Me neither. But you can imagine what a disaster that would be. Welcome to the show. Tired of the hype about living the dream? It's time for truth.This is the place for tools, power and real talk, so you can create the life you dream and deserve your ultimate life. Subscribe, Share, have infinite power. Hey, welcome to your ultimate life. The podcast created for us to live a life of purpose, prosperity and joy.You know, if you look around the world today, I looked at the news today, but it's about the same as every day. All kinds of crazy stuff happening. People yelling at each other and demonstrations and riots and property damage and just negative stuff everywhere.And that's on the easy end. And on the hard end, there's wars and people launching bombs and killing people. Like, what a sad thing. How did we get here?You know, greed, selfishness, evil, label it whatever you want. And sometimes with that backdrop, it's easy to feel despair. It's easy to feel frustration.It's easy to feel like, what the heck, it doesn't matter anyway, it really is. And you know, it's tempting to just give up or retreat and say, well, I'm just going to take care of me and screw all the rest of this stuff.Super easy to do that. And, you know, you can do that for a little while. But you know what happens there rises up in us as divine beings.The desire to help, the desire to serve. And yeah, we got to take care of our own house, we got to make money, we got to pay rent and food and utilities and all the rest.But even with that, when we see or hear the struggles that are going on, I don't. I do know about you. I was going to say, I don't know about you, but that's not true. You want to help, you yearn to help. You desire to do something.And that desire is fulfilled in a billion ways. You see on television, if you watch any every day, there's ads for all kinds of ways to get involved.From animals where they show those poor suffering creatures, to veterans, to, you know, gold star families of all kinds, to starving. You know, I seen the ads for Jewish women. They show these older old ladies that are, you know, just rips your heart out.And then there's the hospitals and Shriners and St. Jude's and this and that everywhere is playing on that desire that we have to love and to serve. And that desire is a good thing. Now, there's plenty of ways that gets Overused, overplayed and over, you know, over amplified.And I know that the result of that is you get jaded or you can get jaded, you can get to a place where it's like, I don't care who knocks on the door, I don't care what ad comes on tv, I don't care what it's for. I've had enough. I'm tapped out. And sometimes it's not even tapped out money, it's tapped out energy wise and so forth.And then there's all of the people supporting causes, and they might not ask you for money, but they march and demonstrate and call the other side names.And the purpose of that is one, to sow discord and disruption, because that, that's clearly an aim, but it's also to enroll somebody in your side or their side or whatever. So given all that turmoil, how can we even talk about living the ultimate life? Well, that's a good question.And I want to talk about that today, not only about how to do it, but what is the order of things? How do you get there?Because most of the time, what I see as a coach and I talk a lot of people, besides being a coach with clients all over the world, I have this podcast, this is episode 1100 and something, right? And, and I have LA talk radio, and I've done hundreds of those episodes. So given all those things, I talk to tens of new people every week.Thousands, tens of thousands. Hundreds of thousands, sometimes every month. And I have cumulatively talked to millions.So I get a chance, and most of those are one way because they're broadcast. But I get to talk to many people where it's two way.And I get to hear their heart, hear their frustrations, hear their yearning, hear their desire to do what I said to add good to the world in their particular way. One of the things I love most of all about the guests that I have is to just ask that question, tell me how you add good to the world.And people have listened to the show and so they know that question. Some don't, excuse me, some don't. And they're a little surprised. And I always, you know, add the preamble. Now, don't be modest.I just really want to know what you're doing.And you know, over and over again, I'm amazed at the things that people are doing, the causes they support, the things that they're building, you know, for kids or for literacy or for people with any kind of struggles or challenges or disabilities or whatever it is. There are so many people that are out there trying to do that. And that comes from the yearning that's inside of us now.That yearning comes from your divine nature. We all know without question that there is something bigger, more important and larger than us.You know, we're a footnote in a footnote on one little planet in the solar system, in the galaxy, in the infinitude of space. But we know there's something more powerful, more intelligent, more capable, and bigger than us. So sometimes it's frustrating.And we say, if there was an intelligence, especially a benevolent intelligence, why would it allow such terrible things to happen? Why?Why does that benevolent intelligence, God, if it were, allow us to hurt each other so much, allow us to build such wickedness and evil and cruelty and unkindness and unfaithfulness and, you know, whatever it is, greed and, you know, killing and etc. Etc. And, you know, I have some ideas about that, but this isn't the show about that.So I'm not gonna wax poetic about why bad things happen to good people or why so much pain and terror is allowed in the world. That's a subject for a different day. But it is. And one of the reasons is to see what we will do.Now, I don't think that divine intelligence creates evil. I think we do that plenty on ourselves. Left to our own devices, we seem to go to the lowest common denominator.But still within us, there's that yearning to serve. So I want to talk about that in the context of creating the ultimate life purpose, prosperity and joy. Where do you find your purpose?Where do you get your own desire, your own purpose? Well, I find that for nearly everyone, it comes from events of your life. Whether you've had, if you had a traumatic childhood, whatever that was.You want to help people with that struggle.Maybe you've had mental illness in your family, or maybe you had addiction, or maybe you had bankruptcy or financial struggles, or maybe you had abusive uncles or parents or whatever. It doesn't matter. Almost always, and I mean almost in 99.999999%. Your yearning to serve comes from what you learned in that experience.Because we have this feeling like we don't want other people to have to go through that, right? So we, oh, wish I could help people. Because when we've gone through it, we learn. All right, so that's the core.When I say, and I've said it a lot, I'm going to reach 300 million people and the reaching is broadcast. I don't expect to talk to 300 million individually. Maybe I don't know how, but that's not what I'm expecting. I'm expecting to reach them. With what?Well, a message.A message of their individual worth, their divine identity, the endless possibility, the true ownership that you have of your life and the sovereign choices that you can make about who you are. So, wipos whipos, you've heard me say that before. So I'm going to reach 300 million people. You know what else?I'm going to take in that group and create 3,000 millionaires. Not just to create money, but special kind of millionaires.3,000 People who are willing to do the work, to serve and bless with your gifts and life experience.In other words, that thing that you do well, that thing that you've learned, turn that into a business and make millions of dollars if you want to do that. If you want to be one of those, get a hold of me. YourUltimate LifePodcast.com There's a contact form. Reach out.YourUltimate LifePodcast.Com Use the contact form reach out mean subject line 3000. If you want to be one of the 3000 millionaires that I create, all right, because I know how to do that. I'm doing it right.And on top of that, 300 DECA millionaires. So 300. A smaller group that make 10 times that much. Now, the point isn't to say, look how much money I made. They made you made anybody.The point is clearly focused on adding good to the world and seeing how much suffering we can alleviate, how many people we can help and how we can serve. If you're not interested in doing that, then you're not one of my tribe.If you're interested in making money so you can use your gifts and talents to serve, then you are all right. So finding your purpose comes from your life experience. There's no question about that.Your ability to make money is easier today than it has ever been. The Internet made tons of millionaires. AI is making 10 times as many millionaires 10 times as fast because it shortens the time for doing work.My wife and I have been in year and a half now really using this intensely. And some have been using it much longer and some much shorter. But in the 18 months that we've been using has doubled our productivity.We can do twice as much, twice as fast. And I don't mean AI bot sounding garbage.I'm talking about real work where we guide direct quality control, make sure it's good, but because it has the ability to do stuff so fast. It allows us to do more stuff and than we ever imagined we could do. And of course, we've got team members and they all use it also.So purpose, prosperity and joy comes from choosing a purpose that comes out of your life experience and your divine gifts.It comes from taking that purpose and then turning it into a business, turning it into a product or service or many products or service services where you can get paid and paid well for what you know and what you have learned and what you have. Now that mantra has been around forever. I remember 15 years ago when I first.19 Years ago, when I first left corporate after 30 years in 2007, 2008, you know, we're hearing that make money, you know, with your life experience, etc. Make money doing what you love, et cetera, et cetera. I've heard that forever. And you know what? It's getting easier and easier.People say, well, it's getting harder. No, it's not. The tools are better, AI is faster, the reach is better, it's easier.But you know, the market's getting more picky and finicky and it ought to because we expect and need high quality stuff. All right, Purpose, prosperity and joy. So how do you do that? Because it's not a flat thing. You see this picture in the background right here?See that mountain right there? Climbing that mountain is not a trivial thing. Climbing the mountain of purpose, prosperity and joy is not a trivial thing.It's not solved in the length of a sitcom. It doesn't happen in an afternoon. It takes commitment, dedication, courage, vision, coaching and focus and more. Right?But if you're one that's willing to do that again, your ultimate life. Podcast.com, the contact form. Love to talk to you about that.Maybe to be a guest, maybe to join one of the programs to get you in control of your ultimate life. But anyway, so how do you have. What do you do? And this is where it's rubber meets the road.What do you do to have the stamina, the discipline, the energy, the focus, the clarity of purpose, the time? All that good stuff that we pretend we don't have enough of.There's plenty of it for all of us and there is enough for all of us to be living the ultimate life. One of the myths is, well, if everybody does, then it's not. Doesn't mean anything. That's nonsense.You can have a life of purpose, prosperity and joy, and so can your neighbor and your neighbor and your neighbor. There's no limit. There is no limit. Any limits we have are in our head. All right, So a lot of times people lack one of the elements.Discipline, focus, energy, time, you know, they confused, don't know what to do, etc. Etc. So how do you get that? A lot of people say, well, I. I was. Had a coaching call this morning with a. With a client that I love dearly.Of course, I love all my clients. And he was talking about this very thing. He'll get up and he'll take an hour or two to decide whether or not he's going to do something today.Well, and we talked about it being maybe a discipline issue. And I don't mean discipline in the way of rough. I mean discipline in the way of remembering what's important.I mean, you and me, we get to decide what's important. Life's easier now than it's ever been. More automation, more cool stuff, more tech, more everything. More, more, more, more, more.But that doesn't bring happy. We have to decide what you want. You have to decide what you want. I can't. Okay, so people think they have a discipline problem.And the real issue, and this. Now we're going to get to the core issue. We're doing things in the wrong order. I want you to think about what I said at the top of the show.Can you imagine building a house and trying to put the roof on before the walls were up? Now, that's kind of stupid. And you know, it is. You know, and it's not going to work. Why not? Because the order's off.So when people have a vision, and I want you to think about yours, what vision do you have about purpose, prosperity, and joy, about making money, about having your own business, about serving with your life experience, about writing a book, about creating programs, about getting involved in whatever way is just calling your name. Why aren't you doing that all in right now? Getting paid well and having the time of your life. It's a legit question.Almost always what we do is we blame externalities. I don't have time. I don't have enough money. I don't know how. I don't know where to go. I don't know where to start. I have these disadvantages.I don't have any support, and the list is long. And it's the same every time. And all of it may be true right this minute, but it doesn't have to stay true.So I'm not arguing that every single thing you need is all lined up ready to pick off the tree right this minute. What I am saying, and loudly and clearly, and you can get mad at me if you want, is that all of the resources you need are available.They're waiting for you to go get them.Now, since COVID everything gets delivered right, all the new delivery companies, doordash and dork stick, and I don't even know them, all right, A minute ago I could think of four or five of them, and I can't right now, but skip the dishes. You know, all kinds of stuff. All of those are new, Expanded. They were existed before, but in obscurity.They're much expanded industries since COVID And again, we've saved more time, more time, more time. And with all that time, what are we doing?So if you want to create the time to find a purpose, to figure out how to serve and get paid, you can do it. So let's talk about why that isn't happening. Again and again I hear, I can't decide. I don't have the discipline. I decide. Then I fall off the wagon.You know, the same old things here is the right order. I said to start with, you and I are divine beings. What the heck does that mean? Well, it means that the essence of who we are, that energy is.Is came from somewhere else. It came from the conscious unified field. It came from God. You know, call it whatever you want.I call him God because I talk to God and it makes sense to me. So that was the context of my learning. And since we came from there, we are divine.And that energy, that spirit, it has existed before we got a body, right? And it's going to exist afterwards. When the spirit leaves, the body dies, we bury it. And the spirit existed before we came here.We know that we don't remember much about it. We get glimpses sometimes, but it existed before. So it is more eternal, longer lasting, more powerful.Yet here in this frame, when we talk about discipline or talking about creating stuff, where do we focus? We focus first on the body. Now, totally agree. The body's got to be healthy. And if you're sick and you know you can't do stuff, I get it.But we spend so much time optimizing genetics, nutrition, exercise, health, the gut biome, on and on and on to optimize the body. And we have missed the most important element. When was the last time you consciously whipped up a spirit? Shake.And fed your spirit with the same diligence, you created a protein and kale and colostrum or whatever you put in it. Shake. Maybe you've never even thought about that. But here's the thing. The spirit's more important, the spirit is the energy that helps us create.So if we don't, if we don't take care of that, if we don't feed it and nurture it and keep it healthy and strong and the vision clear and powerful, and you might say, well, I don't have any idea how to do that. Isn't that interesting?The most important part of your being and you're saying, I don't really know how to feed it, I don't really know how to give it, what to feast on. Like, if you think about food, you're like, you know, your favorite food, what you'd love to feast on.You know that without thinking, what about your spirit? What does it love to feast on? Now, I'm not going to tell you how you need to feed your spirit. That's up to you. I can tell you what I do.I pray, I meditate, I commune in absolute silence and stillness with that conscious unified field with God. And you know what? The more I do that, the fine, more fine tuned my antenna are.The more I hear, the more I know, the more energized I feel for all day. Like, yeah, I got to sleep at night like everybody else. But not only is my body full of energy, but my heart is full of vision and focus.Because the first thing I do every morning without fail, I never skip, ever, ever, ever, is feed the spirit. Now, I've told you some of the things that I do. And if you want to know more, you can read a book called Living with Purpose and Power.Living with purpose and Power. And, and I'm not going to talk about it now because it's too long.But in there I tell you everything that I do to prepare my spirit, my body, my emotional makeup, my relationships. Keep my mental capacity sharp and focused. Why? Because I want to be the very best I can at this creating, purpose, prosperity and joy business.I don't want to create purpose, prosperity and joy half baked. Like I have a hangover, a spiritual hangover, a physical hangover, an emotional hangover. I don't, I don't, you know. You know what that feels like?Probably. I sure do. Horrible. So guess what? I take the energy and time to feed my spirit, my body, my emotional makeup, my relationships, right?And my mind every day. Not because I have to, but because I want to. Because I want them fully feasted and ready to rock. Okay, so here's the principle to think about.Begin with the eternal part of you.And if you don't know how to do that, well, read living with purpose and power or some other method, until you find the thing that nourishes your spirit, you can find it. You might have to look. And if you're out of the habit, or maybe never even thought about nourishing your spirit, talk to someone.I find silence to be really helpful because when I'm thinking and thoughts are floating through, it's really hard to just focus on that spirit energy. I don't know about you, but my revelations or intuitions or inspiration or whatever almost always come in that still, small, silent voice.This morning is a perfect example. I was thinking about a question. I woke up when I always wake up at five o'. Clock.And I'm not saying you got to get up at 5 o', clock, got to do whatever works for you. I lay thinking about a document that I have called a personal truth and commitment document.So I was rehearsing that, and in my mind just saying the words because it's all memorized. And suddenly I went over a line and it. It glowed almost. It stuck out. So I stopped and I backed up and again and again.And I went through it thinking, what is this bell, this flag, trying to tell me? And I just sat with it. Now, in order to do that, I wasn't thinking about. I didn't even remember what day it was. I'm recording this on a Friday.But it didn't matter. I. I didn't care what day it was. I didn't care what I had to do today.I didn't care how many clients I had or that we might go shopping or nothing, nothing, nothing. Or what the temperature was going to be or anything. Everything was still and focused on what is there for me.And then it came an idea and a way to do something. And it was spectacular. Because right now, and I'll tell you what it was, I can't explain the whole thing, so it would take too long.But right now I'm creating a quadrilogy, a group of books that are going to be sold as a box set. But in order to do that, I'm releasing a second edition of a couple of the books because they were written several years ago.And so I'm releasing second editions. And the first one was done already, and the second one I started working on last night. And I was not happy with the way it felt.And so I took that to the mat to sleep and, you know, prayed about it and thought about it, and then I went to bed. And when I woke up in that stillness and silence, exactly what I wanted to do. Came to me.So I got dressed, finished my morning routine, knew that I wouldn't forget, came down, got to work on it, and it was beautiful. Worked, powerfully focused. And now that very second book is done, the revisions are done. It has to get, you know, to my.My editor and publisher, but I'm done. That came why? Because I fed the spirit first. I knew exactly what to do, and it was beautiful.So since the spirit or the energy in us is eternal, it ought to be the governor of life. It knows more. It's been around longer. It came from a divine source. It. It ought to be the governor.I don't know about you, but I have lived where I let the body be the governor, and that never ended well for me. And we won't go into detail about that.I have other times, so I'm going to give you some questions to just think about in terms of that nourishing piece. Who am I really?You know, when people ask that question, most of the time we say engineer, accountant, coach, authority, musician, unemployed hippie, whatever. We, we, we. We give a label that isn't really anything to do with who we are. Most people cannot answer that.You know what the most important answer is? You get to decide. Wow. You get to decide who you are.And when we do, from that place of declaring who we are, that chooses, that points at what we do and how we show up in the world. Okay, who am I really? Why am I here? If the answer is completely I don't know, I don't know, I don't know how to find out. I don't know.That's worth some effort. And again, if you want some help with that, get a hold of me. Your ultimate life podcast dot com. The contact form. Because I know how.And I've spent now 19 years not only working on it, ending it, finishing it, but developing tools and methods to help anyone who sincerely wants to. To figure out those answers and to own them all the way to bedrock. Not as airy fairy, superficial thing. Here's another question for you.What governs me? You know, there's a lot of fads. More money, this fashion, this car, more do this, do that, wear this, wear that. And.And often we let those things govern us. And then we wonder why we feel empty. Well, because we didn't decide. And quite frankly, it doesn't surprise me anymore. But it used to.People say things to me like, I've never even asked these questions. I don't know. And that's not a problem. But it is an open door. And an opportunity. Another one is, what truth do I live from?Do I change my truth all the time? It's situational. Over here, I believe in this. Over here, I believe in that. I promise you, that's not a very satisfying way to live.Another question is, what in me is eternal? What is that thing? I call it a spirit. You can call it a energy, you can call it part of divine love.You can call it God inside you, call it whatever you want, but you know it's there. Okay, what energy do I live from? And what. What in me is eternal? And what does that mean? So if you care for the spirit, first, you. You don't begin.You don't begin the day as a machine just trying to win, to chalk up more points, more money and so forth. Because, you know, like, there's people in the world that live in communities. They're broke, they're poor, and they're happy.So money doesn't buy happy. And you know that. And maybe you've had a situation where you had more money than you knew what to do with. I did. And didn't buy happy.In fact, all it did is buy me more trouble. And I'm not saying it does that for everyone, but that's certainly how it worked with me. Okay, if we start the day trying to win, win what?Like, what is the eternal or goal, the lasting goal that goes past this life? What's left when the body dies and lays down, well, your spirit, what have we made? Like, we come into this world with nothing, right? Helpless.And hopefully someone takes care of us enough to stay alive. And when we leave, we're going to leave with nothing. You're not taking your bank account or your Maserati. You're not.The only thing we're taking is what we've made of ourselves, what we have forged in the furnace of this life. Wow. I don't know about you, but that was an important thought for me.All right, so if spirit is first feeding and nourishing, that eternal part of you is first. The second is the body, because the body is the container. And we have to make it health, healthy and so forth.And so all of the effort, epigenetics and finding out what your. Your capabilities, best stars, all kinds of tests.I was talking with the guests the other day about tests that you can see what kind of diet is best for you, kind of medications are best, and where you're prone to have your best health and your gut biome and all that stuff we talk about, those have an absolute place because you know that if the body's sick, it's really hard to be your best. Okay? So train your body, strengthen it, love it, lift it, bless it, recover appropriately, get the sleep you need, feed it healthy, right?Steward it, honor it, don't trash it. Because it has to last, right? When it stops being fit as a house for the spirit, spirit disappears.Bodies in the ground, ashes to ashes, dust to dust, and you know, the spirit goes on to the next frame. The body is important, but it is the vessel. It is not the governor unless we let it be the governor.And I don't know about you, but I have seen where that goes when the body's the governor. In my own life, the body is a temple, but it is not the throne. I want you to sit on that thought.When the spirit leads, the body becomes a powerful instrument. When the body leads, life becomes an obsession of fear, of worry, of greed, of self importance, of ego.And I know without even asking that you've had periods where that's happened. When we take the body and it is overemphasized appearance and performance start driving your identity.I've got to look a certain way, I've got to perform a certain way, I've got to have certain things that's just not true. But if we live in that religion, we end up in that spiral of never enough, more, more, more. And that train never stops.An old eagle song that I loved. Life in the fast lane surely make you lose your mind. Because there's never enough when the game is just more.That train doesn't go to purpose, prosperity and joy. It goes to greed, misery and eventually death. If you stay on it long enough now, we're all going to die. There's no question.So here's some, some questions to think about. Are you taking really great care of your body or are you worshiping it? Is your body serving as a.As a servant in a well cared for servant in a mission? Or has it become the master or become the mission? There's a way to honor the body without letting it control things. So, spirits first, okay?So after you nurture and feed your spirit and then nurture and feed your body and, and you know, it's taken me all this time to explain it, but you can do it in 15 minutes or 10 minutes spent on each thing. I use the acronym SPEM. Spiritual, Physical, Emotional, Mental.If you spend 15 minutes on each of those, you only need an hour and an hour preparing your, your spirit, your body, your emotions, or your relationships and your mind for the day. Is worth it. It'll double your productivity. And you can't argue with me until you've tried it.And if you want to know exactly how Living with Purpose and Power is a book, you can. You can read that or you can get a hold of me. Your ultimate LifePodcast.com and we can talk about it. I use declarations.They're way different than affirmations, which are lipstick on a pig. I use declarations, which are firm, unalterable choices I've made about who I am. I use routines. And the routines aren't static.And they're not just checking boxes. They are processes that get me energized. Like, you know, things that excite you, make you feel good.Well, how about things that make your spirit feel good? And your body and your mind and your heart or your emotional relationships? I use prayer. I use journaling. I use the. The idea of commitments.Now, commitment's a funny word. People make promises all the time. They don't intend to keep them. They don't mean it at all. Well, that's poison. That's like drinking poison instead.What if you did this? You. You slowed down and spoke a lot less, and every word that came out of your mouth was true. Everything you said you do, you do it or die trying.That would do two things. You'd be a lot more careful about what you say. And two, you would develop the knowledge that your word is impeccable. The four agreements.One of the things that's in there that I love is be impeccable with your word. Impeccable doesn't leave any room for negotiation. Impeccable isn't almost. Impeccable isn't. I tried be impeccable with your word.Not only can other people then depend on you, but it does something in your heart that can't be duplicated. Another tool I use is my calendar. I don't put anything on my calendar I don't want to do. I have no obligations, only commitments.And I have many things on my calendar that I used to not want to do, but I've turned them into joyful obligations because I can. So, sacred practices that energize you, your body, but spirit first. All of those things are powerful.And here's the thing I would give you that's worth a billion dollars. A structure makes it easier to do that.It's like if you go to the gym and you have a workout routine and you might vary it, Maybe you have six or seven of them. You know, this day, that day, or the order in which you do, the machines or whatever, but that's still a structure.And so my acronym, S P E M. I have six or seven things in each one of those that I do, depending on what I'm thinking or feeling or what feels right about creating myself. But I always feed the spirit first. Okay. Structure is what makes your word and your life durable. You know, people say rise to the occasion.And then other people say, yeah, you don't ever rise to the challenge. You sink to the level of your structure or your training. Wow.Well, gee, I guess that means I better have some structure and some training so that when things get difficult or confusing or hard, I've got something bulletproof to land on. All right, so there's another couple of pieces that I use. I'm really careful, very careful about what I say I'll do.So every day I make a few cmdp, clear, measurable daily promises. Just a few. And then I take direct action to complete those few so that I am impeccable with my word.When I'm impeccable with my word, and I know this is true for you too, you feel on top of the world. Now if you feed your spirit, feed your body, get some structure and you've created yourself, you can create anything you want.I don't care if the day goes like you want. I don't care if people say no. I don't care if things you were doing don't work. When you are prepared.The only question we ask is, what can I make out of this mess? What can I make out of this thing that didn't go like I expected. What can I build out of this thing I used to would have called a failure.There's no such thing as a failure. It's just an event. What can I build from that? And you may think this is silly language, it is invincible, eternal creation language.And again, you won't know it.So you can't even argue with it until you've tried it and tried it for long enough till it becomes a habit and you can truly test it in the crucible of life. So whether you're building or writing or speaking or giving service or loving or coaching or selling or doing any of that stuff.When you come from that place of spirit powered body taken care of, structure in place, you're going to be two or three times more successful. And people, that's the answer to people that say to me, well, I don't have time to do any of that. An hour. Are you nuts?I don't tell them I spend two and a half hours, it creates five. So I spend that two and a half hours. And I do it gladly, because if I didn't spend it, I wouldn't get everything done.But because I do that, it creates five hours of power where I get twice as much done as I otherwise would have. And you won't know that again unless you try it. Okay? Something else that it does.When your spirit and your body are handled and your structures in place, ego gets out of the way. You stop caring who gets the credit. You start thinking more about service. You start feeling more about being useful and loving. Franticness drops.I don't feel frantic anymore. Ever. And it's not because I'm 70. I'm more productive now maybe than ever in my life. Imagine that. More productive and I'm more at peace.And I live every day in purpose, prosperity and joy. And I'm not saying that to say, la la la, see what I got. I'm telling you honest and true, what's available.So if you want to live a life, the ultimate life, the way you define it, I use the word purpose, prosperity, and joy. Maybe you use the word freedom or other words people use, whatever words they are. Do you want to have it?If the answer is yes, then my next question is, okay, how bad are you willing to walk the road that goes there? Because I can help you find it. That's all I do. I've done it for me and others.But whether you get my help or not, I just want you to leave this episode knowing that life of purpose, prosperity and joy is available for you no matter where you start. Not in the snap of a finger, but at the end of an intentional journey of creation.No matter where you are now, no matter what order or things are broken right this minute, no matter what struggles you can have, you can change right now and move directionally in the right direction and start taking steps.And if you don't quit and get the order right, there's nothing in the world that will keep you from reaching, enjoying, and living fully your ultimate life. And you'll never ask why. Open your heart. And this time around, right here, right now, your opportunity for massive growth is right in front of you.Every episode gives you practical tips and practices that will change everything.If you want to know more, go to kellenfluker media.com if you want more FREE Tools Tools go here YourUltimateLife CA SUBSCRIBE Share Stand with your heart in the sky and your feet on the ground.